For the rest of my life, please advise: Even if life is repeated, that summer, I still want to meet you

Yesterday, Xiao Zhan YangZi's "Please Give More Advice for the Rest of Your Life" was broadcast.

Has the show really waited too long?

So while chasing the drama, he made up the novel overnight.

Such a beautiful story, starring Xiao Zhan and Yang Zi, although only chased the only four episodes, but I want to say that the long wait before, it is worth it.

1. Ascetic male medical student

Gu Wei is very thin and handsome, and I have to say that Xiao Zhan performed this temperament.

In this nationally renowned hospital, the young Dr. Gu is the authority on surgery.

Dr. Gu, who is outstanding, was the object of pursuit of many girls before he met Lin Zhixue.

His ex-girlfriend Gao Huan, the daughter of the patient's family, and these girls who took the initiative to give hugs were all rejected by him. In particular, the ex-girlfriend Gao Hun, whose father is the vice president of the hospital where they are located, she and Gu Wei are college classmates and colleagues, and she herself is also a doctor with strong professional ability.

But Gu Wei still refused.

I can only say that feelings are such things, if you look at the right eyes, you like everything, if it is not your dish, no matter how hard you try, there is no way.

Gu Wei and Gao Huan should just happen to belong to the latter.

Second, fate is destined to meet you

The encounter between Lin Zhixue and Gu Wei was nothing at all. The well-behaved girl Lin Zhi school, who wanted to take her own path, gambled with her father and came to the bar to drink, only to meet Gu Wei, who came to the bar for the first time, and also used a Gu Wei when her father, Teacher Lin, came to grab the bag.

The next day, when I went to the hospital to see my father, I found that the handsome man I met in the bar two days ago was the attending doctor of my father's own father.

At first, a series of misunderstandings made Lin Zhixue and his family not trust this doctor who looked too handsome and a little too young.

Therefore, Lin Zhixue, who was concerned about her father's condition, quietly asked her good friend Sansan to find a more authoritative doctor for her.

Who knows, the "top authoritative doctor" who came as promised was dr. Gu Wei, whom she planned to replace.

Gu Wei's patient explanation, Lin Zhixue found that he might be wrong to blame Dr. Gu.

Later, his father's condition was indeed as judged by Gu Wei, and it was very serious. In the process of treating his father, Lin Zhixue discovered how professional, how dedicated, and how warm Dr. Gu was. And so love grew.

It is this kind of confrontation that does not fight and does not know each other, so that they know each other more deeply and are more tolerant of each other.

As Mr. Yang Dai said:

"I'm an old man, and I'm saying some old things. For the times, I am a laggard and have no good words to contribute to modern marriage. It is only under the trend of the times of material supremacy that I want to remind young friends that the most important thing in the union of men and women is the feelings, and the degree of mutual understanding between the two sides. Only by understanding deeply can we appreciate, attract, support and encourage each other, and the two are happy with each other. It doesn't matter if the door is right or the other. ”

Third, there are your days, every day is sunny

The passage that impressed me the most in the original work of "The Rest of My Life" was that Gu Wei said that compared to Starbucks, I would rather take her to drink soy milk, and Lin Zhixue's reaction was not strange, nor incomprehensible, but very much in line with my wishes.

Most couples, as the time of love increases, will slowly evolve into complaining to each other, complaining that the other party is unwilling to pay for themselves, complaining that the other party is willing to change for themselves, and so on.

This is also a major reason why many couples or couples quarrel more and more the more they get to the back.

Lin Zhixiao and Gu Wei were just the opposite, they always felt that they did not pay enough for each other. This seemingly subtle difference is the watershed between true love and resentment.

Speaking of which, a story comes to mind.

There was a man who discussed the question of heaven and hell with God. God said to him, "Come! I'll show you what hell is. They walked into a room. A group of people gathered around a pot of broth, but everyone looked hungry and skinny.

Each of them had a spoon that could reach the pot, but the handle of the spoon was longer than their arm, and they could not put the soup in their mouths. There is broth but you can't drink it, and people here are starving every day.

Then God led the man into another room. Everything here is no different from the previous room. A pot of soup, a group of people, the same long-handled spoon, but everyone is wide and fat, their faces are rosy, and they are very happy.

Unlike hell, the people here are feeding each other with long-handled spoons, so everyone drinks soup.

Because the people here are very happy, this place is called heaven.

You see, the same circumstances, the same conditions, the difference between heaven and hell is only that people in one place only want to take, while people in another place are willing to give for each other.

This truth is the same in marriage, everyone's marriage may be similar in other aspects, but the two people in the marriage, whether they think of each other for each other, or only think about themselves, this is the watershed between marriage and misfortune.

Lin Zhixiao and Gu Wei belong to the kind of people who are full of hearts and only think about each other, so their feelings are always full of sweetness and happiness.

Write at the end

Gorky said: "Marriage is the spiritual union of two people, the purpose of which is to overcome all the difficulties and hardships of the world together. ”

Lin Zhixiao and Gu Wei, they met each other at the right time, and they deeply understood each other, and were always willing to think about each other, such a marriage can be said to be true love.

It's just that in real life, there are too few such loves. Most people can only guard a person who happens to be "right" and live a life that is not so bad but not very good.

So we love to watch sweet love stories to make up for the lack of sugar in our lives.

From this point of view, "The Rest of Your Life, Please Advise" has done it. It at least gives us a hope, a sweet state of mind. Let's be less desperate in the days of waiting for love.