What matters to tell your child? If you have children in the family, you must keep them, it is too comprehensive!
01. Travel is more important than class;
02. Assertion is more important than obedience;
03. Interest is more important than achievement;
04. Conscience is more important than right and wrong;
05. Happiness is more important than perfection;
06. Faith is more important than worship;
07. Growth is more important than winning or losing;
08. Self-examination is more important than the lawyer.
1. Parents
01. Spend half an hour every day communicating with your child.
02. And children at home should also use civilized language, "good morning, please, thank you, good night" and so on.
03. Let children develop a good habit of loving hygiene.
04. Listen to your child's voice more! ——With patience, with love, with happiness, the heart has eyes!
05. Don't always expose your child's scars in order to remind your child.
06. Seriously point out your child's mistakes!
07. Don't always be serious with your children, but laugh with your children: because laughter can make children love life more; guide children to look at things positively, easily and happily.
08. Tell stories to children, be patient, stories have a certain educational significance.
09. Don't impose unfulfilled ideals on children, and want children to achieve them.
10. Caring for the child but appropriate punishment at the right time is also needed, do not protect the child's short.
11. Education is not necessarily just reasoning, and sometimes some tough measures can be taken as appropriate.
12. Combined with the child's performance, think about at least one question about the child's growth every day.
13. It is very beneficial to carry out art education for young children, cultivate children's elegant aesthetic tastes, pay attention to guiding and enriching children's perceptual understanding, and deepen children's emotional experience in nature.
14. For children in early childhood, do not let them live with their parents for a long time, and the generations are closer, which is not conducive to education. There may be no scientific truth, but it absolutely applies.
15. Pay attention to cultivating children's kindness. Ancients: Don't do it with evil, and don't do it with good.
16. Teach children to smile, smile to face everything in life, and smile at life.
17. Don't make wishes to your children, and do everything you can to keep your promises.
18. Think in a different position! Parents should always think differently about what their children do and think, if I were a child, what would I do?
19. Give your child a certain amount of space and freedom, while giving a certain amount of pressure and responsibility!
20. Explain to your child that he is already very cute and does not have to express himself anymore.
21. Never say that children are worse than other children.
22. Never punish children with verbal abuse.
23. In what children do, constantly look for something to praise.
24. Don't scare children. So as not to cause children to be too timid and afraid of things.
25. Do not criticize and ridicule children in public, so as not to cause psychological deformities, loss of self-confidence, etc.
26. Don't be too harsh on your child. So as not to let children be afraid and shy to express their own views, and develop a character of good and evil.
27. Don't over-praise your child. So as not to let children develop the bad habit of "selling their reputation and fishing for reputation".
28. Don't imply that your child is doing something bad. For example, fights must be fought back, their own things do not give other food, do not buy tickets on the bus, and so on.
29. Let the child correctly establish the idol in his mind.
Second, the growth chapter
01. Give your child some private space.
02. Give your child the opportunity and right to choose.
03. Let children freely choose their partners and friends.
04. Let the child do what he wants to do.
05. Let the child do some housework within his ability, such as washing his own clothes, boiling water and cooking, etc., so that he realizes that he is part of the family.
06. Prepare a display shelf for your child to display the items he has made.
07. Take seriously the serious questions and opinions raised by your child.
08. Treat the child as an adult, get along with him as an equal, and treat the child as your friend.
09. Discover the child's progress in time and know how to appreciate the child.
10. Remember to say to your child: I love you, you are my baby!
11. Remember to kiss your child often, hug him or her, touch his (her) head, and let him (her) know your love!
12. Keep an eye on his or her progress and let him or her know his or her progress! Find out the child's progress in time and know how to appreciate the child.
13. Communicate more with children, understand children, and walk with children.
14. Don't label your child "stupid."
15. Parents should patiently listen to their children's troubles.
16. Learn to praise your child sincerely instead of saying "You're so smart" like you would a pet.
17. Let the child often have the opportunity to be with his peers.
18. Care about the child's physical health, and pay more attention to the child's emotional needs.
19. The fundamental goal of education is to cultivate people, a sound person.
20. Create some dilemmas in your life and spend time with your children.
21. Encourage children to be as undependent as possible from adults.
22. It's important to know who your child has friends with.
3. Life
01. Give your child some money and let your child learn to manage money.
02. Do not read your child's diary and letters without your child's permission.
03. Often outing with children.
04. Tell your child a story before going to bed and let your child laugh and fall asleep!
05. Give your child a room or part of a room that is primarily for him to play in.
06. If possible, go for a walk outdoors with your children every day after dinner.
07. Happy sharing with kids!
08. Smile happily at your little one and hope he or she laughs too!
09. Help children interact normally with children from different social and cultural classes.
10. Encourage children to interact freely with people of all ages.
11. Give your child time and space to really "play".
12. Teach children to ride a bicycle and swim, which are all basic skills for entering society.
13. Greet each other with your child every morning and let him feel the arrival of a good day.
14. Couples really want to quarrel, please remember: avoid children
15. Every day when you come home from work and see your child, first smile and ask him again: Child, are you happy today?
16. Don't leave him too much of a material legacy, give him a healthy body, give him a healthy mind, and a happy life.
17. Focus on the cultivation of children's life skills and behavioral habits.
18. As long as it is related to creative dust, do not blame your child for messing around in the room or on the desktop
19. Parents should be filial to their parents, so that children feel that the home is full of love, and parents are also examples worth learning from
20. Parents should be humble and understand each other on the occasion
21. Don't care too much about your child. "Do your own thing" so that children don't develop bad habits centered on me.
22. Don't get too close to your child. Let him associate more with children of similar age, so that children do not develop the habit of being withdrawn.
23. Don't buy what your children want. Let him know the relationship between "labor and income, rights and obligations". So as not to shame the child into many characters of good and bad work.
24. Difficulties in life and some family events can sometimes be discussed with children.
25. Love for children should be stable, not sunny for a while, and cloudy for a while.
4. Study
01. Reading with children, parents can read the newspaper, a good learning partner is very important.
02. Children learn at home, parents must not engage in some recreational activities, a comfortable learning environment is very important.
03. Don't force your child to learn things they don't like.
04. Don't scold your child for your grades.
05. Don't think that your child is not out of the picture because of the low score on your child's test paper.
06. Teach him or her knowledge enough to bring a sense of accomplishment: ancient poems, numbers, stories, housework, play, make friends...
07. Educate children to read good books and read well
08. Do not pay too much attention to your child's academic performance, which will cause your child to learn nervously and increase pressure.
09. Don't compare your child's grades with other children, analyze the causes of this phenomenon and reflect on whether you have your own responsibilities.
10. The child's room should have its own desk, and there must be several books on the desk that he loves to read, such as "Grimm's Fairy Tales" and "Aesop's Fables".
5. Entertainment
01. Watch his favorite cartoons with your child, listen to his favorite stories, etc.
02. Play games and exercise with your child.
03. Control the amount of time your child watches TV, between half an hour and an hour a day.
04. Let children watch more children's programs: cartoons, puzzle programs, etc., and watch less action movies and serials.
05. When children watch TV, parents accompany them in a timely manner, and make some explanations and discussions about the contents.
06. In the spring, you can go on an outing with your children by bicycle, go swimming in the river with your children in summer, carry an iron pot and go to a picnic with your children in autumn, and a family of three in the winter play snowball fights in the field and build snowmen.
07. Children are allowed to collect all kinds of waste.
08. Your child's friends should be welcomed when they come to visit.
09. Play chess with the child, let the child know that there is no regret, educate him to be responsible for what he does, and admit that he has lost, and parents sometimes have to let the child win one or two sets, which is very important for the child.
Words to tell your child (very important)
01. Don't mind too much about people who are bad to you, no one in your life is obligated to be nice to you, except your dad and your mom. People who are good to you, you must cherish and be grateful.
02. No one is irreplaceable, and nothing is a must-have. Seeing through this, even if you lose everything you love most in the world, you should understand that this is not a big deal.
03. Life is short, today may still be wasting life, tomorrow will find that life is far away from you. Therefore, the sooner you cherish life, the more days you enjoy life, and it is better to expect to live a long life, but it is better to enjoy it early.
04. Love is just a feeling, and this feeling will change with time and mood. If your so-called favorite leaves you, please wait patiently, let time slowly wash away, let the soul slowly precipitate, and your suffering will slowly fade. Don't overly dream of the beauty of love, don't exaggerate the sadness of lost love.
05. Although many accomplished people have not received a lot of education, it does not mean that they can succeed without studying. What you learn is the weapon you have. People, you can start from scratch, but you can't be unarmed, remember!
06. You can ask yourself to be trustworthy, but you can't ask others to be trustworthy, you can ask yourself to be good to people, but you can't expect others to be good to you. How you treat people does not mean that they will treat you, and if you can't see through this, you will only add unnecessary troubles.
07. Relatives only have one fate, no matter how long I will spend with you in this life, please cherish the time together, the next life, whether you love or not, you will never see each other again.
【Attention + Sharing】 is the best encouragement for us!