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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
In life, many women find it difficult to let men spend money on themselves, they dare not ask for it, or the method is not right, it is always counterproductive.
In fact, it is not difficult for men to be willing to spend money, and it is enough to use some small routines, which not only achieve their own goals, but also do not appear to be very materialistic, killing two birds with one stone.
Therefore, when women and men get along, they still have to master these small routines, after all, life is still long, if you can't pinch a good man, it is inevitable that you will be very wronged.
Of course, women can't let men spend money for no reason, but they must know how to spend money reasonably, and can't bring too much pressure to men.
Whether it is love or marriage, you can't talk about money, only by feeling the texture of love in action, you will reap the happiness you want.
Therefore, women should learn the small routine of making men willing to spend money for you, mainly the following three:
First, in front of the man, make full use of his guilt
Her friend Yang girl and boyfriend fell in love for a year, during which the boyfriend spent a lot of money for her, but never complained.
At the beginning, the boyfriend did not take the initiative, even if he had money, he was reluctant to spend it, and often said that he wanted to save a little, which made Miss Yang very disappointed.
Later, Yang Girl used some small routines to make full use of his guilt when getting along with her boyfriend.
Yang girl often said in front of her boyfriend that her girlfriend had bought something again, where to play, how many red envelopes her girlfriend's boyfriend had sent her, and so on.
Moreover, Yang Girl also pretended to become unconfident, telling her boyfriend that she did not want to interact with her girlfriend anymore, they were all dressed so delicately, carrying such expensive bags, using such a good mobile phone, she was very faceless.
When speaking, Miss Yang also showed a look of loss, looking particularly aggrieved. When the boyfriend saw her like this, his heart was instantly very uncomfortable, and he felt that he owed her too much.
What makes the boyfriend feel even more guilty is that Miss Yang also pretended to cry and said: "Your girlfriend is now looked down upon by her girlfriends, and she doesn't dare to hang out with them." ”
The boyfriend looked at her sad look and blamed himself even more, he wiped the tears from the corners of Yang Girl's eyes, and said on the spot: "Whatever you want, I will buy you all back, how can I not let you be wronged outside." ”
The boyfriend did what he said, and really took Yang Girl out to buy a lot of beautiful dresses, as well as exquisite bags and cosmetics, although he spent a lot of money, he didn't mind at all.
Since then, whatever Miss Yang wants, her boyfriend will try to do it for her, and spend money is particularly generous.
Therefore, if you want a man to be willing to spend money on you, you may wish to learn these routines, make full use of his guilt, and believe that it will be easy to achieve the goal.
After all, men don't want their women to be wronged, and they don't want you to lose face in front of others, and they will maintain your dignity and give you the best care.
Second, when you want him to spend money, casually bring it up
Women must understand that no matter how much you need a man to spend money on you, you can't act too deliberately, but to create a very natural state.
Therefore, you have to raise it carelessly and avoid using it in such a direct way, so that men will not be disgusted.
In the eyes of the man, you seem to have made a request, and it seems that you have not mentioned anything, but he cannot ignore it, and can only obediently pay money, which has achieved the goal.
For example, during the dating process, you want to buy a dress you like, but the price is a little expensive, and you are worried that the man will refuse.
At this time, you can casually say to him: "The feel is not bad, very comfortable." ”
And, from the beginning to the end, you can't say buy, but your eyes are always on the skirt, deliberately making him aware.
When a man sees that you like it so much, he will naturally pay attention to it in his heart, even if he didn't buy it at the time, but when he hears you mention it again after he goes back, he knows that you are obsessed with it, and maybe he will buy it back.
After Xiao Man and her boyfriend fell in love, she often made requests in this way, so that men were willing to spend money on her.
Once, Xiao Man and her boyfriend were visiting the mall, and she suddenly looked at a bag and liked it very much. However, after she saw the price, she wanted more than 6,000 yuan, and she did not directly say that she would buy.
At this time, she deliberately picked a few bags, and deliberately tried and tried in front of her boyfriend, and finally tried, her eyes stayed on the bag that she looked at first.
The boyfriend naturally sensed her thoughts, so he took the bag and asked her to try again. After Xiao Man carried her bag, she took a left and right photo, which further set off her delicacy.
In this way, the boyfriend bought it on the spot, not only did not feel the pain of money, but also felt that Xiao Man's vision was very good, and felt that these thousands of dollars were worth spending.
Therefore, if a woman wants a man to be willing to spend money for you, she must master this small routine and make requests in a casual way, which can often achieve the goal.
Third, praise him will make money, so that he has a sense of accomplishment
There is a saying: "The more men who can spend money, the more they will make money." ”
This is not unreasonable, women want men to spend money on you, you can achieve it from this perspective.
With him, you should always praise him for making money, so that he will always have a sense of accomplishment, so that he will be generous in front of you.
Because, men all want face, you are so praised him, he is so capable of making money, if you don't spend money, doesn't it seem that he is too ungraspable.
As long as a man hears a woman praise him for making money and has the ability, he will often become confident in front of you, and then he must be generous.
In your mind, he wants to maintain the image of a successful man, which will make him feel very fulfilled.
When you offer to spend money, what reason does he have to refuse, and naturally he will be willing to spend money on you.
Therefore, women and men, may wish to master these small routines, the effect is very good.
Men in front of women, all long to be worshipped, want to conquer women, and money is the most direct way.
When you often praise him, not only will he not be disgusted, but he will feel that it is worth spending money on you, because you understand him and need to rely on him.
In front of you, the more he has a sense of accomplishment, the more he will be good to you, and will naturally meet the consumption needs you put forward.
In the end, women want men to spend money, it is best not to ask for it directly, through these small routines, euphemistically put forward, in order to make men willing to pay, but also will not feel that you are material.
Of course, women should also know how to be grateful, and when a man pays a lot for you, you must also give back to him more sincere love, so as to make the feelings more beautiful.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Some people say: "You can't talk about money in love, and the man who spends money on you doesn't necessarily love you, but the man who doesn't spend money on you must not love you." ”
Indeed, if a man never spends money on you, he may not really love you.
Therefore, to see if men really care about you and have an attitude of loving you, you can see from spending money.
Of course, if you want him to spend money willingly, you can't be too direct, but you want to use these euphemisms to achieve the goal.
To sum up, let the man spend money on you, and use these three small routines to get it done.
In front of men, make full use of his guilt; when you want him to spend money, casually bring it up; praise him for making money and make him feel accomplished.
I hope that the woman in the relationship can master these methods and believe that there will be a better life.
Of course, a woman must truly love a man in order to make him spend money, and only on the basis of genuine love can she have true happiness.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.