Brother Chun said that parents are the first teachers of their children
Parents are their children's first teachers and have a strong and profound impact on their children's lives.
The father is the heaven, the mother is the earth, the sky is high and the earth is wide, and all things are born; the father is the pen, the mother is the ink, and the straight ink is thick and the painting is interesting.
The father is a mountain in the family, majestic and stable, holding up the burden of the family and determining the direction and height of the family.
Mother is a river in the family, the blue water is slightly blue, regulating the atmosphere of the family, determining the atmosphere and temperature of the family.
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Father, determines the height of the family
The father is the pillar and backbone of a family, as long as the father is there, the family will not fall apart.
"The car has to run fast, it all depends on the headband", my father is the locomotive of the family. Since patrilineal society, fathers have been the center of the family due to the biological superiority of men.
In the traditional concept, it is said that "the male protagonist is outside, the female protagonist is inside", and the father has a longer-term vision, a firmer will, and a more calm ability to face the hardships and storms of life than the mother.
In the eyes of every child, the father is an omnipotent superman, a needle in the sea god of Sun Wukong, as if no matter how big the matter is, he can survive with his father by his side.
If you want the family to be stronger and have a better future, the father as the head of the car must have a keen eye and direction, be able to lead the family members to the right path, and be able to plan the future and direction for the family. If you are short-sighted as a father and get by, then the future of this family will not be good.
"The virtue of the father, the inheritance of the child", the virtue of the father is the best gift to the child.
Fathers represent discipline and restraint in family life, and the famous Soviet educator Amonashvili once said that "the father should be an authoritative person in the family, and the higher his prestige, the stricter the child's requirements for himself."
Children are accompanied by their fathers, and only under the influence of their fathers can they grow up even better. Unlike the protective education of mothers, fathers will encourage and lead children to take risks in educating their children, so that children have a positive and enterprising spirit from an early age.
Only when the father plays a good role in the growth of the child, the child can have a healthy psychology, the child can be more outstanding in the future, and the family can be happier.
Lin Zexu's father was a private school gentleman, and he was invited to teach at the library, but he refused. Lin Zexu's father hoped to personally teach his son the virtues and aspirations of the ancients. Someone once gave an expensive gift to Ask Lin Zexu's father to help him forge, but lin Zexu's father refused.
It is the height and character of the father that determines the future and height of the family. Fathers must not lose their fighting spirit at any time, they must put the family in their hearts, and they must set a good example for their children.
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Mother, determines the temperature of the home
The mother is like a huge flame, determining the atmosphere and temperature of the family. As someone once said: The loss of a loving mother is like a flower in a bottle, although it is still colored and fragrant, but it loses its roots.
Women are more gentle than men and are more trustworthy. In the family, not only a strong father but also a gentle mother are needed, just like stones and stones together, they will rub and collide, then they need sponge buffers, and the mother plays the role of sponge.
"Men have tears and do not flick", women are more emotional and more likely than men to express their feelings or release their pressure. It is because of this feature that mothers act as emotional chargers in the family.
When the father is struggling in the front, the mother does the logistics work for the family and creates a warm environment for the father to relax and relieve the pressure in the family.
Only when the mother is gentle and good at adjusting the atmosphere, can the family environment be more harmonious, and the family can think and work hard to make it. If the mother is cold and irritable in the family, the family's mood will not be good.
Children prefer to rely on their mothers in the family, and mothers have a greater influence on their children. The mother is gentle, and the child can grow up to have a peaceful attitude. If the mother always blames or always complains, it will cause psychological shadows for the child, which may lead to the child's psychological defects or psychological distortions.
Children are from the mother to learn how to get along with people, from family life to learn how to love people, if the mother is not happy always to the child to transmit negative energy, then the child will not be happy in the future.
Fu Lei's wife Zhu Meifu is gentle and affectionate, Yang Dai praises her as a "gentle wife and loving mother", Fu Lei has a bad temper and loses her temper at every turn, and Zhu Meifu always coordinates between her children and her husband.
In a letter written by Zhu Meifu to her son, she said: "After marriage, because of his short temper, torture, large and small, is always inevitable... Although I am unwise and cowardly by nature, by virtue of my patience, I have helped him invisibly, large or small, which I can be proud of and comfort."
Mothers should control their emotions in family life and think empathy for others. Understand the hardships of the husband, have something to say, don't quarrel and don't complain, everyone in the family is contributing to the family, everyone is not easy.
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The father is the sun in the family, shining brightly to guide people; the mother is the moon in the family, shining brightly and clearly. The father determines the height of the family, and the vision is far-sighted, so that the family can blossom and blossom. The mother determines the temperature of the family, and the sexual tenderness and encouragement can make the family harmonious and warm the new year.