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Negative energy bursting family, children are neurotic, parents are not neuropathy, are negative energy bursting, stubborn neuropathy, this alone is already very harmful.
Quarrels, complaints, numbers, denials, demeaning, sarcasm, anger, etc. These negative energy are the things that are seen the most from the negative energy bursting family, and children who stay in such a family for a long time will be completely affected by these things, and even a lifetime is difficult to cure!
The negative energy bursting family I see is that when it encounters a problem, it is not to discuss solving the problem, but to quarrel, to scold there, where to complain to each other, to accuse, to scold each other, and to scold each other, without any brain! Once the child is also infected with these problems, then it is really necessary to "thank" such a family, all thanks to this kind of family!
Once the child is infected with these stinky diseases, there is something that cannot be solved, it is certainly angry and complaining, this is incompetence, once infected with these stinky diseases is really very fatal and difficult to change, it is difficult to see hope.
The child will live completely in the mouth of the parents who are bursting with negative energy, and they say that the child is like this, because their mouth wants the child to be like this, they are full of negative energy, and the child will become very negative energy. Parents are the closest people to their children, so every word they say is very concerned about the child, whether it is positive energy or negative energy.
Of course, parents with negative energy bursting also hope that their children will have a chance to fight for their faces, and children also want to live as they expect, but their mouths are very negative energy, so children can only live as the negative energy they say in their mouths, children can not live for themselves, but live in the mouths of parents and others, can children not be tired?
Negative energy bursting parents always have the negative energy of complaining, accusing, counting, denying, hitting, degrading, etc., and they vent the most negative energy on their children, so children will also be infected with negative energy such as complaining, accusation, counting, denying, hitting, and degrading!
If you want to see a psychologist, the parents' psychology is not sound, if you want to treat, the parents should be treated first, the parents are cured, and the child is saved.
When a child is a child, he is often compared with other people's children, saying how other people's children are so powerful, this is stronger than you, that is stronger than you, which will plant the seeds of inferiority in the bones of children, childhood children feel that everyone is stronger than him (her), what courage does the child have to compete with others?
A word of disparagement of the child by the parents often damages the child and creates the child's inferiority complex, if the childhood child also knows to compare these parents with other people's capable parents, see how these parents feel? Their faces will certainly not be too good-looking, and I am afraid that it is time to yell at the children again!
What is the purpose of having children? face? To get the job done? In order to turn over? Or simply like to have children? Inheritance and inheritance of family business is impossible for us ordinary people, many people know it, but many things that are not good to say on the surface, no one is a fool, in order to save face for many people, so many people will not say it on the surface.
Children will not abandon the family poor, but the negative energy bursting family is not a poor problem, childhood has been suffering from scolding, complaining, accusation, counting, depreciation, blows and other negative energy, who can bear it? Those children who have not endured these are lucky, and the children who have grown up with these negative energies are not unlucky?
Memory can not be eliminated, especially the memory of being hurt, has been hurt will recall the memory that has been hurt, these backlog in the child's heart, especially uncomfortable.
Parents with negative energy bursting will think that these are small things, because they are not the victims themselves, of course they feel that these are very unrelated, and when they are treated as victims, I am afraid that they will scream more fiercely than anyone, and complain more than anyone.
That's why I say that the psychology of parents with negative energy bursting is also unsound, because they first have negative energy such as complaining, accusing, belittling, denying, and hitting, and you are the cause, these negative energy is often vented on the child, and the child is the effect.
If the child then vents these negative energies on the child's child, the child becomes the cause, and the child's child is the effect. And the child has no child to vent or can not bear to vent on his (her) children, the child may hold the bad consequences (negative energy) given by the parents for a lifetime, that is, the child bears almost all the bad causes of the parents, and the child will become the most unlucky person.
In fact, the evil effect will also regurgitate the evil cause, but the cause is the elder of the effect, and the effect is generally not willing to directly reverse the cause, so the effect can generally only have two results, one is that the effect becomes the cause, and the next generation becomes this causal relationship, and the second is that the effect does not change the cause, only the share of the bitter fruit alone, which is the sadness of becoming the effect!
This is the cause and effect of negative energy, that is to say, the cause is negative energy, the effect is also negative energy, and the effect is also negative energy when it becomes a cause, and the result of negative energy is created downwards.
Everything in the world has a causal relationship, from our individuals and families to the universe, there is a causal relationship, and there must be a cause and effect.
A good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June. The state of hostility between people is due to the use of vicious words against each other, which leads to a causal cycle. Too much negative energy fills a family to form an evil cause, and whoever gives this evil cause becomes a bad result, and the person who is subjected to the most negative energy becomes the evil result, of course, there are also people who are lucky enough to avoid the evil cause and do not become the evil result.
If you want to plant good results, there should be no evil causes, there is retribution for cause and effect, the cause of positive energy gets the result of positive energy, and the cause of negative energy gets the result of negative energy.
As a parent, you must not burst with negative energy, negative energy burst parents are easy to create a negative energy burst of the family, negative energy burst of the family, parents are the cause of evil, unlucky to be infected with the negative energy of their parents children will become evil consequences.