Having a baby is like a robbery for a woman.
Anyone who has personally experienced having a child will know what kind of pain and torture to go through, not as emotional as the film and television dramas play out, and not as natural as the old people say, but there will be more fear.
Fear that their children are unhealthy, fear that they will delay the best production time because of their lack of strength, and fear that in the future growth, children will be tortured by accidents. This kind of fear is also something that fathers can never understand.
After the baby was born, Bao Dad's "fancy annunciation" made everyone laugh
The birth of a son is the Construction Bank
We all know that having a boy is very stressful for parents, not only is it tortured in energy, but also to be vigilant at all times, maybe when the son brings a big surprise to himself.
There is also a monetary investment. From childhood, you have to buy toys, when you are old, you have to make up classes, you have to appease the victims when you fight, and when you grow up and get married, you have to prepare a bride price and buy a wedding house.
These tests are like time bombs that can explode at any moment. Girls are different, that is, after marriage, they can express themselves according to their parents' wishes.
The countdown to the college entrance examination began as soon as I was born
For the vast majority of children, the college entrance examination is a great opportunity to change their destiny. Although the family situation is very influential on the future development, children with poor family backgrounds still have the hope of becoming high-society people.
Moreover, parents in China will attach great importance to the college entrance examination, and the twelve years of hard study are also prepared for the final college entrance examination. It doesn't matter what little episodes appear in it, as long as the final college entrance examination is won.
Therefore, this father used this way to announce the good news to everyone that his son was born. Whoever sees this photo will know it. It's just that this alarm bell will not ring too early.
Nonsense annunciation, inexplicable
First of all, let's not talk about how boring this dad is, making jokes like this. Perhaps the purpose of his message is to prejudge the child's doubts, and when the child asks where he came from in the future, this message is the best explanation.
Secondly, we have to take responsibility for how unreliable this dad is. How can a child be placed on a damp ground not long after birth? Even if the father's movement is fast, the child will stay on the ground for ten minutes!
What a harm this has done to children! In the event that in the process, some small bug crawls in and bites the child's skin, can the father take this responsibility?
Netizen: Very speechless but unable to refute
Seeing such annunciation content, our first reaction will be to lament the whimsy of dads, they can write such content with ingenuity, and there is really a little ink in their stomachs!
But then, we will sigh, will such a joke hurt the mother? The child that the mother has worked so hard to give birth to, the husband not only does not thank himself, but also makes such a joke, there is really no emotional intelligence!
Once the emotions of the mothers are stimulated, is it not inexplicably hurt to affect the milk children? After all, postpartum mothers are very fragile, and if they are not careful, they will fall into the panic of postpartum depression.
The incidence of postpartum depression is increasing year after year
According to relevant surveys, the probability of postpartum depression among mainland women is 32.7%.
Reason 1: Out of shape, resulting in a sense of inferiority
Whether it is a mother who is easy to thin or easy to fat, for a period of time after giving birth, her body is out of shape. Even if there is no change in weight, there will be many variations in body shape.
At this time, women are very anxious, on the one hand, they are worried that they will not be able to return to their original tight figure, and the flesh on their bodies is loose and crumbling.
On the other hand, I am worried that my husband will dislike him. What if the husband meets a better-looking woman at this time and changes his mind? Live in doubt all day long.
Reason two: too hard work, the expectations of the people around you have become higher
After giving birth to a child, the biggest test for Bao Ma is to feed night milk, at least 3 times a night to feed, Bao Mom can't sleep well, her spirit will become very weak, and she feels inexplicably irritable.
Every time I take care of my children, my husband sleeps next to me, I am really angry and hateful, is the child born to me? What the hell am I working so hard for. Endless complaints arise.
Today's Topic:
Do you remember your husband's annunciation copy? Decent or ingenious? Feel free to share your thoughts with us!