Middle-aged Tian Kejian has many elements that young girls like: an angular, non-greasy appearance, a literary and artistic temperament emanating from the inside out, a university teacher and a small achievement in the profession.
If you must find some shortcomings in such an uncle, then his divorce and having a 12-year-old daughter has become a reason for many girls who love him to be discouraged, after all, love is beautiful and marriage is more realistic.
When things don't happen, everyone feels empowered to balance the gap between hope and reality. But when Tian Kejian's daughter Tian Shuang appeared, she put the things hidden in each other's hearts on the table.
For example, when Tian Kejian swore in front of his daughter that he would only fall in love and not get married, this thing that might have been tacit between him and Lin Yuan now had a definite answer. For a time, his decent appearance was instantly labeled as a scumbag.
Although it is said that only love and do not get married, this is a typical "scumbag", but why does Tian Kejian still choose to do this?
For the sake of her daughter, I only want to fall in love and don't want to get married.
Fundamentally, Tian Kejian and Cheng Manli did not come from the intervention of a third party, but because there was a huge gap in the intrinsic values of the two people.
One is to constantly challenge themselves and achieve a better future through hard work, and the other is to be in a corner of peace, and a small wealth is safe. These two attitudes towards life determine the time issue at the end of Cheng Man and Tian Kejian's marriage.
Many things, did not happen to himself will never have empathy, after the divorce that year, Tian Kejian did not fight for Tian Shuang's custody, he worried that he was unable to raise children. But he couldn't imagine Cheng Man going to Shanghai alone with her children, and how those days of juggling work and children were spent before she succeeded.
Tian Shuang came out alone to run to himself, and Tian Kejian was happy in his heart. He also hopes that he can make up for the guilt he has felt for his daughter for many years, so when he sees the itinerary that Cheng Man gave to his daughter, his anger is not just to appease the emotional children, but also to really hurt his daughter.
He took his daughter to barbecue, drink Coke, watch art exhibitions, and do things she was completely impermissible in Shanghai. The vigor and vitality that belonged to the child re-emerged on Tian Shuang's face, and it was completely like a different person than the child who was full of resistance before.
It is not difficult to fulfill a momentary wish, the difficulty is whether you have the ability to satisfy it. Obviously, this is the problem that Tian Kejian faces. He was distressed about his daughter and wanted to give her a new environment, but compared to Cheng Man, who already belonged to the gold collar, Tian Kejian's material conditions were really not good.
A momentary use of energy cannot really solve the root cause of the problem, so what Tian Kejian has to do is to let Cheng Man know that even if he does not have the ability, he will not let her treat her daughter like this, even if it is to gamble on the happiness of the second half of his life and not get married.
To fulfill an ex-wife is also to fulfill oneself.
Many people say that once a man and a woman are divorced, their relationship is bound to be left with only enemies.
This is actually too absolute.
The vast majority of men and women decide to end their marriages, not excluding a large part of the loss of courage to live together, but there are also a considerable number of people who can live in peace and even care for each other as closer than friends.
In the eyes of Cheng Man's classmates, she and Tian Kejian are very right, and their identity and appearance can really be called Lang Cai's female appearance. The more beautiful things look, the more unexpected endings are often hidden behind them. Not long after they got married, Cheng Man, who wanted to be strong, decided to go out and realize his own value.
Compared with first-tier cities, even second-tier cities such as Harbin are still much less likely to have opportunities. There's nothing wrong with wanting a better development. The biggest problem she faced was that she couldn't convince Tian Kejian to go with him.
Tian Kejian is no better than Cheng Man, she also has her brother and sister to stay by her parents' side, as the only son in the family, once she and Cheng Man go to Shanghai, there is only one mother left in the family. Once there was any problem, he couldn't deal with it in the first place. Therefore, the two divorced without dragging mud and water, nor a chicken feather, separated cleanly and sharply, and often greeted each other.
The environment in the big city is favorable, and all kinds of conditions are better than his own, which is also the reason why Tian Kejian did not have his original daughter, but when he saw his daughter take out the dense itinerary from the bag, he understood that his daughter was unable to breathe under Cheng Man's so-called "education", and even in front of Cheng Man,He could say not to come by himself, and quickly reborn a good training.
Many years ago, Tian Kejian fulfilled Cheng Man's heart to develop, and today there is a problem with his daughter and Cheng Man, on the surface, Tian Kejian will not give up the custody of his daughter, but he himself understands that his daughter, who has long been accustomed to the environment of the big city, wants her to come back is the real ruin to her.
The truth of the world has never been incomprehensible and unacceptable, but it still depends on what kind of mentality and angle to accept.
When the daughter saw Tian Kejian's real dilemma, saw her father's duplicity when facing his feelings, and saw that Cheng Man's attitude towards her was changing, she understood that this was the so-called adult's troubles and helplessness, which led to her decision to decide whether to return to Shanghai with Cheng Man.
Tian Kejian used a move to advance and retreat, and resolved everyone's predicament.
end.
"Life is an adventure, and if you don't let others get hurt, you can try more." This is a sentence that Tian Kejian told his daughter. On the surface, it seems to be the opposite of Cheng Man's long-term plan for his daughter, but in fact, it is complementary to each other.
The future is full of uncertainty, if you want to have good results, then you have to live every day, enrich yourself is not step by step, you can try more things you want to do, and even not only will not hurt others, but also beneficial to others, such a life is really worth the trip.