Compared with the past, many parents' parenting concepts have changed, and when children make mistakes, they are mainly punished through verbal education and scolding, and rarely beat their children.
Many mothers also believe that after all, the child is their own heart meat, slap on the child, but the pain in their own heart.
However, if the child makes the following four actions, parents must hit the child with their hands, and must not be soft, which is related to the child's life!
Action 1: Touch dangerous items
Many children like to "scrape" the items in the room and pile them on the ground to play slowly, because they do not know how to distinguish between dangerous goods and non-dangerous goods, so they may cause a disaster due to a moment of curiosity.
We often see news like this: children like to play with lighters, and as a result burn the house; children like to play with knives, and end up cutting their wrists...
Therefore, if parents see their children playing with dangerous items such as knives, screwdrivers, lighters, power plugs, etc., they must scold him very severely, and if necessary, they can do it.
As a parent, if you can't stop your child's dangerous behavior in a timely and effective manner, the consequences will be unimaginable!
Action 2: Steal something
When shopping in shopping malls and supermarkets, some children like a toy or snack too much, and parents are not willing to buy them for their children, they will move "crooked ideas" and secretly pick up things and put them in their pockets.
At this time, parents must severely scold their children, and let the children understand the truth that "integrity is the basis of being a person", people have no faith, do not know what it is!
That is to say, if a person does not even abide by the most basic credit ethics, then what else can he do?
Action 3: Likes to bully the weak and have no compassion
Some children are tall and tall, and they always like to bully children who are shorter than themselves, seize other children's toys, and hide other children's school bags. When things don't go well, they will also treat other children as "punching bags".
Some boys will not only bully the weak, but also bully all kinds of small animals, such as like kicking kittens and puppies, smashing birds with stones, etc. For this kind of child, parents must strictly discipline!
Action 4: Make mistakes and keep teaching them
After the child makes a mistake, the parents have repeatedly warned the child not to do so, but the child still takes the parents' words as the wind in his ears, still goes his own way, continues to make mistakes, and refuses to admit his mistakes.
If the child does not change repeatedly, the parents will really have to come to some "cruel means", which is also good for the child!
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