The so-called October pregnancy is one of the great things in the world. Risking one life for the other to help complete human reproduction. The task is multiple, the risk is great, from ancient times to the present, having children is a dangerous thing, although medical technology is now more and more developed, but the danger of childbirth still exists.
Maternal and fetal problems persist during childbirth, and the rate of unexpected flare-ups cannot be reduced. However, unlike the situation in previous years, the current "difficult birth" is more of a risk caused by the mother's own physical condition. Now, in order to help expectant mothers who are "difficult to give birth", caesarean section delivery has been basically improved, and other more beneficial choices for mothers whose conditions are not suitable for vaginal delivery have been made.
However, not only does the operation require "moving the knife", but it will also have certain risks, and the physical harm to the mother is no less than that of the normal birth.
Strictly speaking, as long as the mother's body allows, there is no upper limit for the number of times. Comparable theory is the theory, while practice is practice, and it is difficult for practice in general medicine to meet the requirements of theory. The doctor's advice is that a woman's body is best not to withstand more than 3 caesarean sections, and it is best to have a certain number of repair years apart for each operation. As for why? You need to take it slow.
Caesarean section, even if, as literally said, the belly is cut open layer by layer, the human belly has several layers, not only is it inconvenient to cut, but also suture is a big project, improper treatment is prone to postpartum intestinal obstruction, abdominal adhesions, etc., aesthetics have been excluded.
Secondly, the uterus needs to be cut open, usually opening the lower part of the uterus, and then it is called a scarred uterus. Because the recovery period of the uterus is relatively long, it is required to have a recovery interval between the years, so that the uterus can recover its state or "work" again, reduce the risk of placental implantation, and ensure that the life of the mother is protected from the threat of problems left by the caesarean section. The risk also increases sequentially with the number of caesarean sections.
Although there is no longer an ancient traditional concept of gender between men and women, there is still an old stagnation of ideas when it comes to equality between men and women. Especially in order to pursue a "good" family, children and daughters are complete. And after the country opened up family planning and opened up the three-child policy, it is the beginning of "indulging" them without giving up until they reach their goals. We should change the concept of gender, and both men and women should become the treasures of children. People's abilities are not judged by gender.
Children should be the favorite treasures of parents and should not be treated differently because of gender, and parents' focus should also shift from the focus on the expectations of children to the physical condition of the mother. After all, the birth mother is the biggest contributor this time. Having a complete family requires a mother to have a healthy body and accompany her child to grow up healthily.
If we have a purposeful caesarean section for the sake of "son", then the child's body is inedible, affecting the quality of life in the later stage, affecting the child's growth environment and so on. All in all, health is a factor we should put first, and there is no one.
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