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"Losing a child is the deepest pain a parent can feel!"
At the end of last month, C Luo and his girlfriend Georgina brought a sad message that their dragon and phoenix fetus had died prematurely.
This news makes it difficult for countless fans to let go, and they themselves are extremely sad, only the safe birth of their daughter has given them comfort.
Fortunately, C Ronaldo and Georgina have come out of the pain after a period of adjustment.
Two days ago, C Luo also posted a photo taken with his little daughter, and the picture of his hands embracing his daughter was very warm and his eyes were full of love.
Because they have lost, so they know the preciousness of what they have, C Ronaldo and Georgina accept the fact that their son is gone, and their hearts have become stronger.
Georgina's good girlfriend Christina also revealed in the interview that Georgina has now completely come out of the shadow of losing her son, and plans to continue to have children with C Luo.
Now that Georgina is getting pregnant, she wants to fulfill Ronaldo's wish to have 7 children!
Wanting to have several children is everyone's free choice, and others don't do anything, but as many netizens said:
Just after giving birth, trying to conceive, this is completely without considering postpartum recovery!
The two litters are too close together, and the mother is really hard!
Don't get pregnant with your second child too quickly, two years of hugging two sounds good, but the mother is really hard!
That's right, whether Georgina gave birth smoothly or by section last time, getting pregnant too early is risky for mom and baby!
Pregnant with a second child without considering the interval, the mother is really hard and dangerous!
We often hear people talk about it: if you want to be born together, give birth quickly, two children grow up together, and your mother can also give birth early and worry about it.
But this rhythm of birth is really not friendly to the mother's body at all, whether it is a vaginal birth or a caesarean section.
In early April, the official announcement of the second child was conceived, that is, about 1 year after childbirth, the second child was conceived, and during the second pregnancy, Miao Miao has been worried that the baby will be malnourished.
From the video she posted, it can be seen that it should already be in the second trimester of pregnancy, and if you count the time, it will be about 1 year at most.
At that time, many netizens pointed out: the time difference between the two births is more than a year, and to be honest, it is very dangerous to hurt the body!
There are even netizens to remind: a fetus is not long, the sister also has to protect herself Oh, so frequent pregnancy, it is not good for the body!
Although Miao Miao and Zheng Kai have their own plans for giving birth to a baby, and the celebrity couple has the best medical conditions to escort the baby, the reminder of netizens is also correct: the interval between the two fetuses is too short, which is risky to both the mother and the baby.
Pregnant mother is most impressed by the holding sister Xie Yilin, as a person who came over, she advises all mothers: Don't listen to what others say to be born quickly, mothers who want to have a second child are still waiting for Dabao to walk and regenerate, otherwise the stomach hides a hand and holds a too extreme operation.
Also because of this extreme operation, Xie Yilin's second child pregnancy is very difficult, and the pubic bone pain in the second trimester of pregnancy is very serious, so that she can only rely on taking painkillers to live.
After experiencing this time, she sent a reminder to all mothers who want to have a second child: to fight for a second child must be limited, to lengthen the interval, this is a small reminder of my blood and tears experience.
It is still so hard for a mother who has a normal birth, so the danger will increase for a mother who is a caesarean section.
Because the scars from previous caesarean sections sometimes really look like a time bomb.
A 33-year-old mother in Jiangsu Province, because of multiple caesarean sections in a short period of time, during the operation, the doctor found that the wall of her uterus was very thin, so thin that you could see the baby's hair in the amniotic fluid.
In this case, a strong contraction, or the baby's fetal movement is slightly larger, can lead to uterine rupture, which will be fatal.
Doctors remind: Caesarean section mothers want a second child, must pay attention to the interval time, to do a good job of pre-pregnancy examination, to assess the situation of uterine scars. (News source: Pear Video)
The interval between the second child is too short, which has an impact on both the mother and the baby!
Preparing for a second child without considering the interval will not only bring great discomfort to the second child's pregnancy, but also affect the healthy development of the baby, and even the complications of a crisis life.
The interval between the second child is too short, and the impact on the mother:
The body is under excessive stress. Pregnant baby is very hard, if you also have to take into account the treasure, the pregnant mother's body will definitely not be able to eat, which will aggravate the discomfort of pregnancy.
The body does not heal well. Childbirth is very painful, not a confinement can be fully recovered, the mother's uterine lining, uterine muscle layer, various organs that are squeezed, and the microenvironment of the uterus, all need time to recover.
Complications of crisis life. For the mother of the caesarean section, there will also be a risk of scarring the uterus, as long as it is a caesarean section, there will be scars, if the interval is too short, the uterine scars are not muscled, once the increasing uterus puts pressure on the scars, the consequences are unimaginable.
The interval between the second child is too short will also bring effects to the baby:
Premature pregnancy can lead to premature birth. The shorter the time between pregnancies, the higher the risk of preterm birth.
Low birth weight. If your baby weighs less than 5 pounds at birth, he may need to be admitted to a neonatal intensive care unit, which means that your baby must stay in the hospital for a longer period of time and is more likely to have health problems.
The baby's actual gestational age is small. This means that the baby is not developing normally, and he is smaller than the baby of the same month of age.
After the mother's body, after childbirth and breast milk, various nutrients are lacking, such as folic acid, if the mother's body lacks these necessary vitamins, she can not support the healthy growth of the baby.
Therefore, for the health of the mother and the baby, we must make arrangements for the second child to prepare for pregnancy, and the most important thing is to arrange the interval time.
Whether it is a vaginal birth or a caesarean section, the interval between the second child should be considered!
Mothers who give birth normally, if they want to prepare for a second child, these points must be paid attention to:
Consider the interval. According to the advice of medical experts, the second child of the mother who is pregnant has to wait at least 18 months, although the endometrium can be basically restored 42 days after childbirth, and the physical state can be basically restored, but the various organs that are squeezed because of pregnancy need time to recover, the microbial bacteria in the vagina also need time to reset, and the various nutrients of the body also need time to be replenished.
Do a good job of contraception. Use effective birth control measures until you are ready to get pregnant again, contraceptives have condoms and condoms, IUDs and implants, be sure to use correct contraception.
Check-ups before getting pregnant again. In any pregnancy, preconception tests are important, do eugenics tests and basic preconception tests.
Stay in good shape during pregnancy preparation. From the beginning of pregnancy, it is necessary to eat and drink well, sleep well, and also quit smoking and alcohol to avoid toxic substances, which is the first step to ensure health.
If you are over 35 years old or have had a miscarriage. Talk to your doctor about how long to wait between pregnancies, and waiting 18 months may not be for you, as fertility problems tend to increase with age.
Mothers who have a caesarean section, if they want to prepare for a second child, should also pay attention to these points:
Strictly adhere to the interval time. Do not get pregnant 18-24 months after caesarean section, although external wounds will heal quickly, the degree of muscleization of uterine scars can reach a good state 2 to 3 years after caesarean section, so it is recommended to have an interval of more than 2 years.
Do a preconception check-up. Preconception examination requires the doctor to evaluate the uterine scar to see if the uterus is suitable for pregnancy, and the embryo implantation is checked in the first trimester, if the gestational sac grows on the surgical bruise, in which case it is generally impossible to continue the pregnancy.
Choose a good hospital. Whether it is a pregnancy test or a childbirth, it is necessary to choose a hospital with better medical equipment, and they need to be able to cope with emergencies as soon as possible, such as uterine rupture, heavy bleeding and other situations.
Mothers who have had uterine fibroid surgery are best to get pregnant again at intervals of one year. Because there will also be an incision after uterine surgery, and there will be a scar if there is an incision.
The same is true for normal mothers. At the beginning of the pregnancy period, it is necessary to eat well, drink well, sleep well, and also quit smoking and alcohol to avoid toxic substances, which is the first step to ensure health.
It's important for C-section mothers to note that if the interval is too short, such as getting pregnant less than six months after a caesarean section, it increases the risk of complications, such as a ruptured uterus or a low-weight baby.
If a C-section mom is going to try a vaginal delivery (VBAC) next time, you also need to consider delaying pregnancy, as studies have found that when VBAC is less than 2, the uterus has a higher chance of rupture.
Before it's time to get pregnant at a safe interval, do this to protect yourself and your baby!
The last thing to say is that if the baby arrives unexpectedly before the safe interval, do not panic, and do this as much as possible to avoid some dangerous situations.
1. Communicate with the doctor in time
Regular obstetric examinations are important, especially for mothers who have a caesarean section, and at 6 to 8 weeks of pregnancy, be sure to check the implantation position of the embryo to confirm that the gestational sac does not grow on the scar of the first operation.
2. Regular obstetric examination
Do not leave any of the obstetric examinations, especially in the third trimester, 36 to 38 weeks of pregnancy to check the healing of uterine scars. Scars whether the uterus will rupture, the simple thickness does not count, too thin is afraid of rupture, and the thicker ones may not be safe, but should be related to elasticity. If the situation is not good, the doctor may recommend early delivery.
3. Supplement nutrition and rest
Do not smoke and stay away from second-hand smoke, do not drink alcohol and rest more, and take prenatal vitamins away from cat litter. Folic acid, calcium, and iron are very important for pregnant mothers, so be sure to stick to prenatal vitamins.
4. Control the weight during pregnancy
A huge child will increase the risk a lot, so be sure to control your weight during pregnancy, you don't need to eat two servings, a balanced diet can be.
5. Seek medical treatment in time when necessary
Sudden abdominal pain, vaginal bleeding, fetal heartbeat drop, be sure to seek medical attention in time.
Of course, even if the caesarean section mother has been separated for 2 years, if she wants to get pregnant, she must do a good obstetric examination on time and maintain a healthy lifestyle, which can ensure the safety of the mother and baby to a greater extent.
Hope all the best for moms!
Resources
https://www.marchofdimes.org/pregnancy/how-long-should-you-wait-before-getting-pregnant-again.aspxhttps://www.parents.com/pregnancy/my-body/pregnancy-health/healthy-pregnancy-tips/?slide=slide_f38f9c8a-2a47-4cd7-a8bc-e7167aeee7be#slide_f38f9c8a-2a47-4cd7-a8bc-e7167aeee7be
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