When I hear "parenting," I get the impression that the attention is focused on one child.
We will raise children, so we will pay a lot of attention to them.
It is true that the education of young children is very important, but it is also a problem that only children are looking at.
There is one very important thing before raising children.
"Family Teamwork".
In order to raise a child, both father and mother should perform their main duties and the whole family will succeed.
Occasionally, I see mothers trying to force fathers to help raise children.
"Take care of your children too."
"Helping with parenting"
"My father will have to get involved in parenting!"
It was great that my father was involved in childcare as much as possible.
Not only the mother, but also the father is involved in parenting, which can reduce the burden on the mother and benefit the child.
However, he was a tired father from work.
Sometimes you can't afford to raise a child.
Fathers work from morning to night, not only for their own living expenses, but also for the living expenses of mothers and children.
If you have a two-family house, you have to earn the living expenses of your grandparents, so you will have a greater sense of responsibility.
Even if I wanted to refuse instructions from my miserable boss, I couldn't resist because I thought "I have a house." I have a wife. I have children. ”
I followed the instructions of my somewhat strict boss that even if I wanted to take a day off from the company, I couldn't take a day off.
Whether it's raining, windy, headaches or lack of motivation, I go to work early in the morning.
Although he was a man, he was tired because he had such a big responsibility.
The real intention is, "I want you to take a vacation, or you won't have a body." ”
It seems that only the mother is raising the child, and the father is not involved in raising the child at all, but this is not the case.
My father had an important job, which was to earn living expenses.
Even if there is no direct relationship with the child, it is indirect contact.
It's good to have enough physical strength, but even if your fatigue has reached its limit, excessive is a problem.
On the contrary, it is more troublesome to injure the body and lose the cost of living.
"Working with family"
These are the words I hope you remember again.
The first thing to do is to clarify the "division of roles" in the family.
Decide on each role when forming your team.
Dad goes to work to earn money, and Mom clearly decides on every major responsibility of housework and childcare.
My father was responsible for making money for his family.
My mom was in charge of housework and childcare.
This is not discrimination.
Properly operating a large ship called "family" is a division of roles and teamwork.
First of all, fulfilling your main responsibilities is a top priority.
Most importantly, if you can afford it, you can move to the deputy head.
If my father can afford it, I can help my mother, help with housework and childcare.
If mom can afford it, I can help dad work.