As a teacher, the most consulted by friends and relatives is what to do if the child can't write, and a few parents simply ask for help recommending a tutoring class. I am not an expert, but I can only talk about my own experience of reading and writing with my children.
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Read with purpose and lay the groundwork for writing
The reader wins the world. Everyone knows the importance of reading to children's development.
Reading can improve children's cognitive ability and thinking ability, after all, children can see and experience with their own eyes is limited, and the book has everything.
Through reading, children can increase their knowledge, broaden their horizons, and understand the truth, which is the basis of writing.
How to systematically read it systematically?
Obviously, the books children read are necessarily related to age.
For example, preschool children have less literacy, mainly reading some picture books, reading some nursery rhymes, children's songs, rich pictures and catchy rhymes In addition to cultivating children's observation, imagination, cognition, and sense of language, they can also use short and vivid stories to infiltrate children with some excellent qualities, habit formation and other aspects of knowledge.
When children can read nursery rhymes, nursery rhymes and some story books with the help of pinyin, parents must consciously communicate with their children in addition to guiding their children to read, so that the language begins to slowly output while constantly entering.
Parents can be guided like this: How do you feel after reading this?
Guess what's going to happen next?
What do you think is the most interesting part of this story?
What do you think of the character xx?
How does the author show the ferocity of the big bad wolf?
This story is really interesting, let's try to make one up, right? Wait a minute......
Use questions to communicate reading feelings, guide children to express their true feelings, and also conduct brief speaking and writing training for children according to the situation.
Children grow up slowly, already have a certain reading and creative foundation, reading is mainly to broaden the scope, and gradually guide children to contact some popular science, history, poetry, famous books, through reading to continue to improve children's cognitive ability.
Guide children to pay attention to the expression of language and writing, the shaping of character images, the expression of feelings, etc. when reading, and at the same time, they can also regularly hold family reading exchange meetings to cultivate children to write reading notes, after reading and other ways to achieve the combination of reading and writing.
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Create a good environment for children to learn to think
Behind not being able to write is often not thinking, creating a quiet and comfortable environment for children is the basic condition for children to sink down to read and think.
Imagine what it's like to read and think in a chess and card room or playground.
In the child's room beautifully arranged a book corner, neatly arranged on the child's favorite books, after tea and dinner, hold a book you like quietly to read, quietly think, quietly express, what a comfortable life!
Three
Carefully observe life and accumulate writing materials
Wang Changling, a great poet of the Tang Dynasty, talked about the 16 words of poetry conception: "Search for elephants, the heart is in the realm, god will be in things, and because of the heart." ”
Creation must have something in sight and a mind, and even if the nonsense of the article is rich, no matter how superb the writing is, it will not impress the reader.
Children's observation ability and imagination are also amazing, we must try our best to create a rich life experience for children, improve their cognitive ability, if there is no experience and understanding of life, the article lacks emotion, wisdom and rationality.
In addition, the focus and difficulty of writing essays is to choose materials, most children often have no way to write when they lift up the pen, or think that they must be memorable, thrilling big things, ordinary life where there are so many big things happening, in fact, those daily small things that we ignore are often the most familiar to children.
Such as: the first time to make dumplings, dad brushed his teeth like this, I helped my mother wash clothes, today I washed the dishes, my cousin came, came to my grandmother's house as a guest, I was angry, raced with my father, saw in the park, today is really happy, my kitten, beloved pen holder, etc., as long as you guide the child to write out the details is also very wonderful.
Four
Practice writing frequently and submit articles in real time
A mother once said that her child has read a lot of books but still can't write. I think that in addition to children not paying attention to the expression of language and writing when reading, the main reason should be that they do not write frequently. "Swimming is to be learned while swimming."
The same is true for writing, sometimes it may be a few words sent by feeling, but every word and sentence is an expression of true feelings, the output of language, and over time, it is not so difficult to write something.
For children, writing a diary (a diary is to write something from time to time, it does not have to be the day's affair, to avoid children keeping accounts) is a good writing practice, do not have to pursue skills, length, see, feel, think out.
The road to writing is long, on this long road, parents should read their children's articles with an appreciative eye and give appropriate advice to improve their children's expression ability. It is also necessary to pay attention to collecting children's articles, binding them into books, and actively contributing articles to motivate children's enthusiasm for writing.
I think that the most important interest in everything, as long as the child loves to read, use the brain, dare to write, slowly develop habits, as for writing skills and the like, with the deepening of children's learning, the teacher will slowly penetrate, we as parents will remember a sentence: accompany the baby to read, accompany the baby to grow!
Edited | Chen Yuanlong
Art Editing | Chai Haohong
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Some of the pictures | Sourced from the web