Text/Xiao He Social Theory (Original Article Ban Plagiarism)
Title: Wow! The bride's 8,000 yuan off-the-bus fare was refunded, and the mother's family said it was not worth it, and pooled the money to let her go back
In the past, many couples could share happiness and hardship, but now this has become a luxury, and now marriage is more about family status than personality.
The reality of human nature creates false values, but also distorts the meaning of marriage, if marriage is just blindly looking at money, then this is not a life, just a transaction.
Since it is a transaction, there is a possibility of being "returned", and if this really happens, it is really a shame to lose people to home.
However, such a situation is not uncommon in real life, and every time both men and women will quarrel with each other.
No, some netizens shared a video of the bride asking for money without talking about it on the Internet, which attracted the attention of many people.
It is understood that on the wedding day, after the bride was picked up by the groom to go home, she asked for 8,000 yuan for the car fee, and refused to get off the car if she did not give it.
In the face of this requirement, the man's parents obviously did not expect it, hoping that the bride could have less points, after all, 8,000 yuan is not a small number.
But the bride's attitude is very resolute, 8,000 yuan can not be less than a point, which provokes the groom is very angry, angry and even said that the marriage is not married, let people send the bride back.
I thought the groom was just talking angrily, but I didn't expect him to really do it, and on the way home, the bride's heart was full of remorse, and the tears couldn't stop flowing.
When the bride was sent home, the mother's family immediately surrounded her, when she heard the reason, she couldn't help but be a little angry, but she was angry, and how could she quit halfway after getting married, which made the neighbors know how humiliating it was.
And for 8,000 yuan to make this step is really not worth it, so the mother's family gave the bride money to let her go back again.
Although the family's move is out of kindness, they cannot understand the bride's mood at this time, she is now returned by the man, if she licks her face back will definitely become a laughing stock, and she will not be able to stand in the in-laws' house in the future.
But this is also no way to do things, unless she really decides not to be with each other, and now that the wedding has been held, relatives and friends have also come, and the family can't be laughed at!
It can be seen from this that marriage is not a debt, if the other party is forced to be anxious, both parties will really tear their faces, which is contrary to the original intention of marriage.
In my opinion, in reality, some marriage customs are really unfair to the man, almost everywhere ask for money, and the amount is still quite large.
In some areas, the bride needs to give red envelopes when she gets up, gives red envelopes when she gets on the bus, gives red envelopes when crossing the bridge, and gives red envelopes when she gets off the bus, and has not stopped along the way, and the sum of these money is not a small number.
So sometimes I can understand the man's mood, marrying a daughter-in-law makes them feel like a debtor, which is really a bit of a grievance.
But this situation can also be avoided, the two families in the negotiation of wedding matters, should be these marriage rules clearly stated, how much money the red envelope is said in advance, so as to avoid quarrels on the wedding day.
In fact, both men and women are at fault in this matter, the bride should not be so tough, the groom should not send the bride home, and there should be room for doing things.
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