It is a very hurtful thing for women to have children, so many female friends attach great importance to confinement, which also makes many businesses see business opportunities, and confinement centers have sprung up like mushrooms. This also reflects the importance of confinement from the side. Postpartum confinement, simply put, give the body a time to repair, so confinement rest is also very important. During this period, it is advisable to refuse visits from all three types of people, which have a negative impact on both mothers and newborns.
People with colds, especially in recent years, public events have not yet ended, and the whole country has risen and fallen. Therefore, patients with colds and fevers still refuse to visit. During the confinement period, the maternal body is still recovering, and the baby who has just been born in the infant is also very fragile.
Colds themselves can easily cause the spread of the virus and can easily infect mothers and babies. If both adults and children get sick during this period, it will become very troublesome. You may feel very humiliated by refusing to visit guests, but for the health of the baby and the mother, you can only be a bad person once. If relatives and friends can be reasonable, it is best, can not and can only be slowly explained later.
In addition to people with colds, there are also children who are disobedient and mischievous, and they are also unpopular. Maybe some people find this a little impersonal, after all, children are innocent, and mischievous is nature. If these children are not allowed to come to the house, they will make the children have the idea of whether they are unwelcome or not, and it is also a kind of harm to the child's soul.
Why not welcome naughty and disobedient children, if the child is naughty, just run around the house, in case you touch the mother or baby, let them fall. Not only will it hurt the mother and the baby, but it will even have serious consequences. Even if you don't touch the mother and baby, it won't end well if you break the things in the house. If the child is obedient, you can also say that the bear child who is most afraid of disobedience, as well as the elders who protect the short, come out with the bear child by themselves, do not take good care of it, and finally say bad things about relatives. Such relatives and friends, if they are not reasonable, they will not come and go.
I often hear a saying called "faithfulness against the ear", but now it is not always the case. Some relatives and friends talk too much, and can even be said not to go through the brain. For example, relatives come to visit the mother and baby and keep talking about how the baby is not like the mother and father. Or say that the mother is getting fat again, don't eat so many good things.
Babies are not like fathers and mothers, which are normal and can often be seen, but sometimes they are afraid that the speaker is unintentional and the listener is intentional. Some listeners will distort the words of this relative or friend, or this can be quietly said to the mother, not in front of the man or the man's parents.
Relatives say that the problem of maternal obesity, basically all pregnant women will be fat. In the process of pregnancy, less exercise and more eating. During confinement, in order to have sufficient milk supply, you can only eat without listening. This is also a problem that many pregnant women have to avoid, and they want to avoid it, and they say it nakedly, affecting the mood of the mother.
Many people think that confinement is not important at all, and some foreigners drink ice water during the confinement period and go out in the cold winter. This is related to physique, these foreigners are accustomed to this way of drinking, and the habits of many years are not easy to change, nor are they easy to cause harm to the body. People abroad also confinement, but the name is different from China.
Confinement is so important, in addition to these visiting people, the family has a greater impact on the mother and baby. Babies have not only a mom, but also a dad. This is also a very important person in the baby's life, and some fathers are completely unaware that they are already a father. Every day when I come back from work, I am still the same as in the past, and I collapse on the couch or bed after eating and play with my mobile phone.
During the confinement period, the mother is emotionally unstable, and it is easy to be sad or irritable. Seeing bao dad like this, he couldn't tolerate it, so he would accuse his husband of not bringing a baby, not doing housework, and living every day to wear clothes to reach out and eat and open his mouth. Such a father is naturally not right.
Postpartum depression is becoming more and more common, in large part because of Bao Dad's lack of responsibility. Bao Dad should also understand Bao Ma more, give care and understanding. Although it may be a little unskilled at the beginning, it may be more skilled than bao mom if you do it a few times. By taking care of the baby, you can also interact with the baby more, and the parent-child relationship is more intimate.
The old man who takes care of the mother is also very important, generally speaking, the mother-in-law takes care of the mother. The relationship in the world is difficult to deal with is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but at this critical moment, seeing the baby's sake, we should also have a little more understanding of the mother,After all, the mother-in-law is also a person who has given birth to a child, and should also understand the hardships in it, so that the daughter-in-law will also remember it in her heart, and she will be better for her mother-in-law in the future, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be more harmonious.