When I think of the singer Geng Weihua, I will think of his touching "Mother" and "Loving Mother". There are thousands of fans who are passionate about his singing. Even the girl who was studying at the Military Medical University, who was 14 years younger than him, was also impressed by his singing voice and directly wrote 11 pages of love letters to him, but he was not moved.
After the girl chased him for 2 years, he saw her last letter of renunciation and was touched by her true feelings and agreed to marry her. However, when her daughter was 10 years old, she was divorced. Geng Weihua retained her several times, but it was difficult to save her heart. After the divorce, I burst into tears when I thought of my daughter's actions.
Geng Weihua's "Mother" is sung to whom: "The new school bag you enrolled in, someone to take for you; your flowers in the rain folded umbrella, someone gave you a beating; you love to eat three fresh stuffing, someone gave you a bag; your grievances tears, someone wiped you ..."
His daughter sang when she was sorry, but what about her mother?
Geng Weihua was born in 1970 in a family of ordinary cadres and has loved music since childhood. People say that only by studying can he make a difference, but after graduating from high school, he did not go to school and entered a large enterprise union.
Why? Because it is responsible for the literary and artistic activities of the staff there, the musical talent can be brought into play.
But dreams are not as easy to succeed as you think, because companies are not literary groups and have the fewest opportunities to sing.
So he gave up the iron rice bowl and went to the Shanghai Conservatory of Music for further study, taking music as his career.
At the age of 17, Geng Weihua was admitted to the soldier performance team of the Lianyungang Military Sub-district of the Nanjing Military Region with excellent performances.
Later, in order to dream, he was transferred to the Nanjing Military Region Song and Dance Troupe, and finally admitted to the Cultural and Labor Troupe of the Political Department of the Second Artillery, and finally became a military singer that everyone liked with the emotional singing voice of "Still Warm Home".
After that, Geng Weihua presented moving songs such as "Wedding Oath", "Mother", "Love Mother", "Green Military Uniform" and so on for the audience on the Spring Evening.
Emotional singing can move thousands of people, since Geng Weihua is a tall and handsome guy, naturally there are suitors, but he refused, because 20 years old is the time to show talent.
When Geng Weihua went to Xi'an to perform, Zheng Jia, a girl who was attending the Military Medical University, found the hotel where he was staying and asked him to sign a photo and take a phone, because he was a fan, he was not good to refuse.
Why did the girl ask him for a call? She is not only impressed by Geng Weihua's handsome appearance and beautiful singing, she also has a purpose.
Two months later, Geng Weihua received a letter from the girl, what is this letter, 11 pieces of paper and beautiful handwriting?
It turned out to be a courtship letter, what does it mean in Geng Weihua's opinion? There were still more courtship letters for him, so he didn't take care of the girl.
Although Geng Weihua is in Beijing and the girl is in Xi'an, she thinks, you don't reply to the letter, the distance is far away, but you refuse to keep my love for you. 2 years, how many letters should she write in 2 years?
In the end, the girl couldn't help but write a letter of renunciation; she never expected that the truth would eventually be moved.
After reading the last letter, Geng Weihua was deeply moved and immediately called the girl: "Zheng Jia, I want to marry you!" ”
Is Geng Weihua happy? happiness! Because Zheng Jia chased him for 2 years, the key is that he is still 14 years younger than him.
So Zheng Jia went to Beijing, they bought a marriage house and got married, and Geng Weihua had a daughter at the age of 34 and became a father.
Geng Weihua is really a good man, and he knows that this hard-won love must be cherished.
He said: "She chased me for 2 years, I will use 10 years to pay off the debt."
So as long as he is at home, he cooks the best meal for his wife, and the housework is almost covered. They spoil their mother and daughter the most, because it is his responsibility and obligation.
As a woman, since she wants to chase you, she must want to get your emotions.
But as a famous singer, the performance must be continuous.
So husband and wife you are on the side, I am on the side, people do not catch how to have feelings? Moreover, she is only in her 20s, and everyone's pursuit is different.
So they often said in the show that they quarreled constantly. After all, a man is also a man, who does not have a temper? When Zheng Jia said divorce at every turn, Geng Weihua would also drop something on his head, which intensified Zheng Jia's desire to leave.
Women are like this, as long as they look at it, they must chase it.
Just like Zheng Jiameng chased Geng Weihua, his temperament was so stubborn; if he was desperate, he must give up.
！ Men have strong times and weak times. Since Geng Weihua is a singer and a man with a reputation, plus he knows that this emotion is not easy to come by, the most important thing is to have a daughter.
So he struggled several times to keep her from divorce, and the child needed maternal love. But in the end, it's not yours, and you can't stay.
Geng Weihua, 45, and Zheng Jia, 31, his former iron fan wife, divorced.
What made Geng Weihua heartbroken was that on the day of the divorce, Zheng Jia took all her photos and threw some photos on the ground. My 10-year-old daughter wept bitterly and picked them up one by one.
One afternoon Geng Weihua sat on the sofa and couldn't help crying, but his daughter's voice gradually became louder, he rushed in, it turned out that her daughter was holding a photo of the family in her hand, and she was crying in the bed, and the pillowcase was full of tears. He hurriedly hugged his daughter, and the father and daughter cried bitterly.
Later, in order to avoid their son's experience of these pains and accidents, his parents specially rushed to Beijing to accompany their son.
The mother said to him with tears: "Son, you have tried your best, don't blame yourself anymore, okay?" For the sake of your daughter, be strong! ”
Yes, children are the flesh of their parents' hearts, and sons have lost the people they once loved, so why not worry their parents?
Geng Weihua once said that when my parents are old, my mother loves to cry for me, but I should not face my father, and my father also loves to cry.
His parents often urged him to remarry, and in the "Ma Lan Blossom" program, the big king and the little king also urged him to find one. Wang Fang wept when she saw him remembering her daughter's actions, and she also shed tears and handed him tissues several times.
But he has his own ideas, experienced these things, never had this idea, to his career as the most important, the most important thing is to have the cutest daughter!
If you think about it, it is to raise your daughter to go to college, to see how you feel at that time, because marriage is not a necessity in life.
Geng Weihua has been divorced for 5 years, experienced pain, and now understands that marriage is not the whole of a man's life, he has lost his marriage, as well as his career, as well as his daughter and parents. All of this can also support your own life!
It can be seen that Geng Weihua is the most sincere and reliable man, but they have no fate.
From their situation, it can be seen that no matter who you meet, it is not enough to just be enthusiastic, dedicated and caring.
In marriage, only when they have the same outlook on life, values, and common expectations for the future can they hold hands and go farther and farther!
Divorce hurts not only each other, but also the parents of both parties, and the most critical, the most hurtful, is their own children.
Geng Weihua's greatest pity is that he chased after his ex-wife, who was 14 years younger. Whenever he thinks of the moment when his daughter once hid in the bed and cried bitterly with the photo of the whole family, he couldn't help but cry, which was really painful!
Therefore, since the 2 people have come together, they are not forced to do so, and it is best not to break up. But even if you leave, it is best not to become a stranger, because husband and wife, and their own children!
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