In 2015, a shocking news broke the news that the well-known singer Geng Weihua divorced his wife who had been in love for many years.
Not long ago, Geng Weihua was asked by the host on the show about family love, cooked for 10 years, spoiled his wife for 10 years, and finally the marriage fell into a chicken and egg.
Fans who often listen to Geng Weihua's songs are very curious, and rumors appear while chatting about them.
Some people say that Geng Weihua abandoned his wife of, and some people say that Geng Weihua empathizes and falls in love, which is not a good thing anyway.
Geng Weihua has clarified rumors many times, protecting his ex-wife behind him and preventing her from being hurt a little, so what is the truth?
Probably beyond everyone's imagination.
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On a rainy day, the sky in Beijing finally couldn't hold his breath, and in the afternoon it rained heavily, Geng Weihua held his mobile phone and walked around the balcony.
Not long ago, he told the security guard, if a girl comes to find her, tell her that he is not there, Geng Weihua spit himself in his heart, you coward, do you dare to admit and face it?
Through the window he saw Zheng Jia's wet hair, still as beautiful as ever, she really came to him, leaned against the wall and watched her talk to the security guard, and then left sadly.
His fate with Zheng Jia also originated two years ago, when Zheng Jia was his fan, and now he is his friend or what he can't tell?
Geng Weihua became famous at a young age, was already a pillar of military singers at a young age, was a frequent guest at official events, appeared on many shows, and had many fans.
As usual, he accepted the invitation of the program group to attend a concert in Xi'an and signed photos with many fans who came to the event.
One girl arrived belatedly, and it was not until late that she broke through the crowd and handed him Geng Weihua's photo with hope, asking him to sign a group photo.
After saying the previous request, Zheng Jia made the next request: "Then can you send me a tape of yours?" ”
Sending tapes to fans is a common step in activities, due to cost, the number has been limited, Zheng Jia came late, and the tapes have long been delivered.
Geng Weihua could only say sorry to the girl in front of him, but he didn't expect that Zheng Jia was best at it: "Then can you give me your phone number?" If there is a tape, you will send it to me when the time comes. ”
It's actually not polite to say this, but Geng Weihua's worst thing is to refuse others, and although he felt a little uncomfortable, he still gave his phone number.
After Geng Weihua returned to Beijing, he treated the incident as an episode and slowly faded until a letter arrived.
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Geng Weihua is famous and often receives letters from fans, but he is still rare to see eleven-page letters like Zheng Jia.
The 11 sheets of paper, using different cardboard, can see the good intentions of the sender, and the neat handwriting, there is no scrawling at all.
The words were full of thoughts and her affection, Geng Weihua was not a taste in the palm of his hand, and it was not until a phone call from Xi'an that he remembered Zheng Jia, the girl.
Geng Weihua only felt that this girl was fascinated by his aura: "Girl, we are not suitable, you should study hard, and you will meet the right person for you after working in the future." ”
That time they talked for a long time, and Zheng Jia could always cleverly avoid the topic of being rejected by Geng Weihua and talk to him about the stars and the moon.
Geng Weihua heard this girl's distress from the phone, only when she was trapped by reality, after all, she was his own fan, he was originally such a gentle person and comforted the girl, let her focus on her studies and live a good life.
This unease is okay, once comforted, the girl can not release this person.
Suddenly, one day he received a call from Zheng Jia, on the other end of the phone she told Geng Weihua that she had arrived in Beijing and hoped to see him again.
Geng Weihua was taken aback, this is such a long distance from Xi'an to Beijing, a girl is not familiar with life, what if she is deceived?
There was a pang of anxiety in his heart, if Geng Wenhua was really guilty because something happened to him, he had no choice but to go to the appointment.
In the restaurant, he invited Zheng Jia to a meal: "I am a full 10 years older than you, and it is normal for you to be obsessed with my emotions, but you are a little girl after all." ”
Zheng Jiagu talked to him left and right, interrupted his topic, and talked to him about what he had seen in Beijing: "I will call you in the future, can you answer it, you can come to you, be a friend." ”
Geng Weihua always couldn't make sense with this girl, taking this girl to travel and shop in Beijing, always looking for topics to dispel this girl's psychology of pursuing him.
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The consequence is that Zheng Jia loves him more and more obsessed, Zheng Jia was originally a rich lady, with a good family, and there was nothing she couldn't get from childhood to adulthood, and her relationship was even more invincible.
The first time she hit a wall on Geng Weihua, her heart tugged and tugged, and her means of pursuing people were even more powerful.
She often spoke with Geng Weihua on the phone, chatted with him as a friend, talked about his daily life, talked about his singing creation, and traveled from Xi'an to Beijing in the next two months, going back and forth once in two or three days.
"Aren't you tired? And is it really worth the cost of so much? Geng Weihua felt that Zheng Jia was stupid and spent such a large amount of money just to come to see him.
"I will be very happy to see you." Zheng Jia really did not miss any opportunity to stir Geng Weihua's heart.
After two years like this, Zheng Jia's heart is still puzzled, her love is humble and restrained, and once Geng Weihua said that it was raining in Beijing
"Then shall I come to you?" Geng Weihua was abrupt, and he heard a lonely courage from the other end of the phone, and he has been reflecting on himself during this time, whether it is right or wrong to make friends with Zheng Jia.
did not let this girl retreat, but her love did not decrease.
He told the security guard downstairs that if Zheng Jia came, he would tell her that he was not there, and people secretly hid behind the window of the house.
He needs to seriously reflect on this relationship, Zheng Jia calls him he does not answer, sends messages and does not return, has been ready to break off, and after two or three times of refusal, the opposite side really does not come.
When he loses it, he knows how to cherish it, Geng Weihua always doesn't like it in the face of not having Zheng Jia around him, it turns out that he has already unconsciously liked Zheng Jia during this time, but he has always denied it in his heart.
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Geng Weihua called her again, and everything that followed fell into place, they got married and had children, and after entering the marriage hall, they were eroded by firewood, rice, oil and salt.
Neither side seems to be what they think they are.
Zheng Jia is a big miss, she is hot and crazy when she pursues people, but you have to let her do housework, the eldest miss who does not stain the sun and spring water will not tolerate anyone, and she can't do it.
For 10 years, the housework collapsed on Geng Weihua's head, washing and cooking, cleaning, doing work, and hiring a nanny for his wife to continue living her life as a rich wife.
Zheng Jia is not satisfied, not satisfied with anything, once he looked up to Geng Weihua, and now standing in front of her is a husband who has infinite love and tolerance for him.
It is said that the habit is not used to it, and the love is fading little by little.
After the birth of the child, the contradiction between the couple reached the extreme, Zheng Jia was not good at handling interpersonal relationships, and she loved to ignore guests at home.
If anyone dares to touch her child, she will glance at the people with her eyes, which makes the guests very embarrassed.
In the days after marriage, she also maintained a large amount of spending, thousands of pieces of luxury clothes without blinking, and before the birth of her child, Geng Weihua's salary and expenses could also take care of her life.
After the birth of the child, money needs to be spent everywhere, and Zheng Jia's big hands and feet have gone to a higher level, spending 8,000 yuan of clothes in zero years, and a person's salary for several months.
"Our family really doesn't have that much money." Geng Weihua was really helpless.
The husband and wife became more and more incompatible, and finally in 2015, they even filed a divorce request for their former crush.
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Now that 8 years have passed, the audience has finally figured out the process of their divorce.
Once created rumors about Geng Weihua's empathy and other love, it has also been confirmed that all of them are rumors, and there has been no one else around him for 8 years.
He is passionate about singing, and the relationship between husband and wife is broken, and he is focused on the education of his daughter, especially when her daughter grows up, he also has more time.
Left Beijing and went to a rural area in Hebei to build his own happy home.