Text: Qilin
Editor: Xiao Ning
preface
In the nineties, there was such a singer, who won the love of the public with his high-pitched and passionate singing voice and became a "public idol" at that time.
This person is the high-pitched singer of the literary troupe - Geng Weihua.
However, it was such a big star, but in the end it was "planted" in the hands of Zheng Jia, who was still a little girl at that time!
Emotional twists and turns, Geng Weihua eventually became a rural single father.
Why is Geng Weihua with that "little girl"?
What has he been through and how is it going?
Connect with fans
Perhaps Geng Weihua himself did not expect that he would end up with his fans.
Geng Weihua and the female fan met at a show in Xi'an, where Geng Weihua had long become a well-known military singer, and every performance was overcrowded.
While performing in Xi'an, the female fan came to him to ask for the tape.
But at that time, Geng Weihua had already sent all the tapes in his hand.
So the clever fan said, "Or you give me your contact information and notify me when there is a tape!" ”
Faced with such a beautiful female fan who loves herself and looks beautiful, Geng Weihua did not refuse and gave her his mobile phone number.
And this female fan also left her name - Zheng Jia.
Soon after, Geng Weihua received an 11-page letter from Zheng Jia.
In the letter, Zheng Jia wrote in small letters with a brush full of his love for Geng Weihua.
However, Geng Weihua couldn't read one page - it was too long.
But at this time, Geng Weihua simply treated Zheng Jia as an ordinary fan.
After all, Zheng Jia is four years younger than him, and he is still a college student.
In Geng Weihua's eyes, Zheng Jia is a little girl, and her love for him is just a fanaticism about chasing stars.
Therefore, Geng Weihua did not answer any calls from Zheng Jia.
But I can't stand Zheng Jia's fight, and there are always times when Geng Weihua doesn't recognize it.
But although the phone was connected, Geng Weihua did not say a word, quietly listening to Zheng Jia, who was excited and crazy, looking for various topics incoherently on the other end of the phone.
The clever Zheng Jia saw that Geng Weihua was not taking care of himself, so he came up with a good way - to talk to Geng Weihua about his favorite music.
Sure enough, as soon as he talked about singing and Geng Weihuadi's career, he immediately opened the chatterbox, and the two chatted very speculatively.
Chatting again and again made the relationship between the two people quickly heat up, which is also Zheng Jia's purpose. ，
He wanted to use this way to slowly enter Geng Weihua's heart.
But chatting over the phone, the communication of feelings is limited after all.
In order to express his feelings more directly, every two months, Zheng Jia would go from Xi'an to find Geng Weihua.
Geng Weihua, who had long passed the ignorant adolescent stage, did not know what Zheng Jia meant.
But he also deeply understood the gap between himself and her, so in the face of Zheng Jia's enthusiastic pursuit, he never agreed.
After entering the millennium, Geng Weihua's fame became louder and his work became busier.
As a military singer, singing in the army is a common thing, and he has experienced half of the hardships of soldiers.
After a high-intensity performance, Geng Weihua finally fell ill, and hearing the news, Zheng Jia hurriedly ran thousands of miles to Geng Weihua's side.
As a medical student, Zheng Jia also scratched his hand in the process of giving Geng Weihua medicine.
And Zheng Jia's strong love finally moved Geng Weihua completely, looking at this little girl, his heart was also moved.
But at this time, Geng Weihua did not realize that he had fallen in love with Zheng Jia.
However, Zheng Jia is also a person, and such a relentless pursuit will also be tiring.
Seeing that Geng Weihua was not moved, her enthusiasm had been exhausted, and she decided to give up her pursuit.
As soon as Zheng Jia left, Geng Weihua understood.
He has long been an integral part of his life.
In other words, he had long been deeply in love with this cute little girl.
So, Geng Weihua hurriedly dialed Zheng Jia's phone, and the first thing he said was: "Zheng Jia, let's get married." ”
When Zheng Jia heard this, she was directly stunned, and after a while she reacted, she really "chased" Geng Weihua.
In this way, the two entered the palace of marriage.
However, the age gap between them is objective, and after the sweet period, the conflict between the two is gradually exposed.
Although Geng Weihua has a successful career, thrift has long been engraved into his bones and blood.
And the young Zheng Jia does not understand this, the family has money, and he buys whatever he likes.
Although the contradiction is small, it is a big thing to accumulate, Geng Weihua has endured for more than ten years, and Zheng Jia also feels that he has endured for more than ten years.
In the end, Zheng Jia insisted on divorcing Geng Weihua.
Geng Weihua was fruitless, and in the end he could only agree.
After the divorce, Geng Weihua was in a very poor state, often locking himself in the house and crying silently.
The person who moved first was also the one who let go first, which is indeed embarrassing.
The road to chasing dreams is stretched
Geng Weihua was born in 1970 in Jiangsu into an ordinary working-class family, where his father was a factory worker and the family's main breadwinner.
Geng Weihua is not an only child, there are brothers and sisters above him, and although the life at home cannot be said to be stretched, it is also tight.
Geng Weihua is the youngest child in the family and the most mischievous.
Since he was a child, he did not like to study, and let Geng's father and Geng mother worry a lot.
Seeing that the brothers and sisters in the family were all admitted to university, Geng Weihua still did not pay attention to studying at all.
In order to let his younger son have a bite to eat in the future, the father gave Geng Weihua a job quota to go to the factory.
But Geng Weihua, who doesn't like to learn, is also not interested in working in a factory.
He doesn't go to work well every day, and he thinks about singing every day.
Whether it was when he was in school or at work, Geng Weihua went to the record store to buy various records as long as he was free and had money in his hand.
If he can't afford it, he will squat in front of people's doors, and he will listen to what others put him.
Sometimes the factory is not busy, so Geng Weihua organizes his colleagues to hold a networking party, and he comes to sing to everyone.
Geng Weihua has a good voice, and everyone loves to hear him sing.
In the warm applause again and again, Geng Weihua strengthened his love for singing.
Gradually, he would also run to a professional singing training school to audit.
The teacher at the school found Geng Weihua, who had a good voice condition, so he discussed with other teachers and simply let him come here for free to listen to the class.
After getting such a precious opportunity, Geng Weihua was ecstatic, and turned around and quit his job in the factory, wanting to concentrate on learning to sing.
But his crazy behavior made his father angry.
In the concept of the older generation, what is the use of singing and singing well, and you can't eat it as a meal, isn't it good to carry the iron rice bowl of the factory safely?
Therefore, in order to dispel this unrealistic idea for Geng Weihua, his father refused to provide living expenses for Geng Weihua, who was studying at a music school.
And Geng Weihua, who has no financial resources for a long time, can only rely on his pitiful savings before to survive hard.
A tall young man who often hides in the kitchen and eats leftover buns eaten by others.
Geng Weihua's embarrassment was seen by the teachers at the school.
The teacher couldn't bear to let this child who loved singing so much have such a miserable life, so he often invited him to his home for dinner.
With the help of many teachers, Geng Weihua also stayed in school safely for several years.
It was not until 1991, when the literary troupe selected him in the school, that he left the school, and it was at this time that the gears of fate began to turn.
Geng Weihua, who entered the literary troupe, can be said to be like a fish in water.
Being able to take what he really loves as his profession, Geng Weihua cherishes this hard-won opportunity.
Here, too, his singing talent is truly on display.
With excellent appearance conditions and good at singing red songs, he sang one beautiful song after another, which spread throughout the country.
Geng Weihua's voice was bold and loud, and he was extremely emotional when he sang, and at that time, he was a well-deserved "national idol".
With a super high national popularity, soon after, Geng Weihua also appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, a national program that also made Geng Weihua's fame even higher.
Fourth, plain is true - Geng Weihua's recent situation
Time is the best medicine, and time passes.
Geng Weihua's pain in his heart because of his ex-wife was slowly healed, and he was unwilling to enter into feelings again, and he just wanted to live peacefully with his daughter.
Now Geng Weihua, who lives on a mountain in Hebei Province, has opened his own orchard and planted and watered his own trees every day.
If you don't say it, no one can tell that he was once the singer who was famous all over the country.
Knowing Geng Weihua's recent situation, many netizens praised him: "Teacher Geng not only sings well, but is also very simple, and he is a real art worker." ”
Hundred good filial piety first, Geng Weihua not only took care of his life well.
When his mother fell ill and was hospitalized, he left everything he was doing and went to the hospital to take care of his mother himself.
When his daughter comes home, he will also personally cook a delicious meal for her daughter.
Plain is true, maybe this kind of life is what Geng Weihua really wants.