"Write love letters to me for two consecutive years, and the people around me say that your kid is blessed, and finally I married her."
Geng Weihua's wife Zheng Jia chased him for ten years and was an avid female fan of Geng Weihua, writing love letters to him for two consecutive years. The staff around Geng Weihua often cast envious glances.
Such a fierce offensive was difficult for the simple Geng Weihua to resist. In the end, Geng Weihua still married this avid female fan and fell in love.
After marriage, Geng Weihua and Zheng Jia spent a happy time and had a daughter. After 15 years of marriage, Zheng Jia filed for divorce, and Geng Weihua: "I will not remarry." ”
Geng Weihua and Zheng Jia have been on the show together many times, and in the program, Geng Weihua is gentle and considerate to Zheng Jia, and everyone sees it in their eyes. Geng Weihua saw love in Zheng Jia's eyes, and Zheng Jia's worship of Geng Weihua was also difficult to hide.
Zheng Jia is 14 years younger than him, so Geng Weihua also loves this little wife very much, and it can be said that he is responsive. Buy whatever you want, and try to give her what you want. But after all, when you get married, you have to live, and you have to buy this and buy that all day, for Geng Weihua, who comes from a farmer, it is a little overwhelming.
People say that to love someone is to give them the best.
But for a person who has been diligent and thrifty since childhood, a bag of tens of thousands, his values do not allow to accept.
Because Zheng Jia spent a lot of money, the two did not quarrel less after marriage. In the end, Zheng Jia couldn't stand it and filed for divorce.
1. Geng Weihua's origin
Geng Weihua is a simple Shandong native, straightforward, cheerful, diligent and earnest. There are four brothers in the family, he is the youngest in the family and is much loved.
Shandong attaches great importance to education and cultural courses, which also makes Geng Weihua's parents hope that he can study well, become a civil servant in the future, and live a down-to-earth life.
But Geng Weihua's cultural course grades have not been good, I don't know if he really can't study well, or he doesn't want to learn. He just feels that studying doesn't make his blood sparkle. After all, young people always have their own ideas.
When Geng Weihua was 5 years old, his parents brought him to Jiangsu to live because of life reasons. But after arriving in Jiangsu, Geng Weihua's academic performance plummeted.
By chance, when Geng Weihua and his parents were shopping, they heard music from the video store, and Geng Weihua was attracted to music.
Due to his interest, Geng Weihua, who fell in love with music, was even less interested in learning and threw all his thoughts on music. So after entering junior high school, he dropped out of school.
And parents do not understand why children love music, in their time, it is already rare to have a job and eat enough and learning art is out of reach for such an ordinary family.
His father thought that Geng Weihua was not motivated, and after he dropped out of school, he arranged for him to enter the factory. And Geng Weihua did not dare not accept such an arrangement because of his fear of his father, so he gave up his musical dream at that time.
Second, Geng Weihua's dream road
The daily step-by-step life makes Geng Weihua feel boring and boring, as if life is no longer interesting, every day is a factory and home, doing repetitive work, eating the same meal.
It didn't take long for him to feel that if he continued like this, he would be abandoned, and this was not the life he wanted, so he picked up his musical dream again.
In order to realize his musical dream, the first thing to do was to supplement his music knowledge, so he went to the place where he bought teaching materials and bought a book of music theory knowledge to learn.
Since learning music theory requires frequent visits to bookstores, the bookstore near the Shanghai Conservatory of Music is his leisure rest, and it was in the bookstore near the college that he met the first music teacher in his life.
In a show, Geng Weihua also said that it was precisely because he met this teacher that he had the idea of quitting his job to learn music and learning a new one.
After returning to the factory, he quit his job and devoted himself to learning music, and later his parents beat him up when they found out about his resignation, but he did not complain that his parents did not understand him.
After resigning, he studied music with the teacher, and because he had no family willing to support his musical dreams at that time, he had no financial resources, so his life was very problematic.
With no job and no financial resources, he had to pick up leftover food from others in the cafeteria. At that time, he had no dignity at all and could only rely on other people's leftover steamed buns or buns to survive, and sometimes he couldn't pick up food in the cafeteria, so he could only go to class hungry.
Once, because there was no food to ingest, he collapsed directly in class, and after being sent to the hospital, everyone learned the real situation.
Fortunately, the emperor did not deserve his heart, and his hard work would still be rewarded, and in the daily study, he finally lived up to the expectations of the teacher and laid a very solid musical foundation.
At the age of 15 that year, Geng Weihua successfully passed the assessment of the performance team of the Nanjing Military Region and became a well-organized literary and artistic soldier.
It is precisely because of this achievement that parents are willing to let go of their former stereotypes, accept their son's love of music, and begin to support him.
But the good times did not last long, and the performance team disbanded not long after, which also meant that Geng Weihua had to find a job again. So he applied for the song and dance troupe of the Nanjing Military Region, and his excellent performance in the assessment made him a member of the song and dance troupe.
Then he went to various places with the song and dance troupe to participate in cultural performances, and after visiting many places, he was deeply impressed by Beijing, so he came to Beijing to develop.
After coming to Beijing, Geng Weihua was admitted to the Art Troupe, and since then his life has reached the peak, and his singing career has developed to the extreme.
Third, Geng Weihua and Zheng Jia met
After Geng Weihua gained a foothold in the Art Troupe, he successively released a number of solo songs and gained his own fans, and only then met Zheng Jia.
If you use the current vocabulary to describe Zheng Jia, the word illegitimate rice is by no means excessive.
As Geng Weihua's popularity grew, he was also invited to the Spring Festival Gala. After participating in the Spring Festival Gala, he was invited to perform in various places, and when performing in Xi'an, Geng Weihua met a woman he could never forget in his life, "Zheng Jia".
As we all know, Geng Weihua is 14 years older than Zheng Jia, so at the beginning Zheng Jia was pursuing, Geng Weihua was Geng Weihua, and did not think about any development with him.
But in the end, Geng Weihua still did not resist Zheng Jia's strong offensive.
When Zheng Jia first liked Geng Weihua, he was just a student in college. After seeing Geng Weihua through some videos, I also fell in love with him, liked Geng Weihua's sunny positive energy, and liked his handsome appearance and righteous image.
At that time, there was no sense of distance between stars and fans, and Geng Weihua often responded to Zheng Jia, such as Zheng Jia wanted to sign, Geng Weihua also immediately gave him money, Zheng Jia wanted to take a group photo, and Geng Weihua would also take a photo with him.
Zheng Jia likes to write poetry and wrote love poems to Geng Wenhua for two consecutive years. By chance, the Zheng family got Geng Weihua's address, so they often came to Geng Weihua's home to wait for him.
For Zheng Jia's liking, Geng Weihua is very clear, but Geng Weihua rejected her because of the age gap between the two.
After being rejected, Zheng Jia didn't think about tea and dinner all day, but he loved this man deeply and would still insist on looking for him.
On a rainy night with heavy rain, Zheng Jia still stood at Geng Weihua's door waiting for him as usual, standing for two hours, and the security guard at the door couldn't stand it, telling Zheng Jia the truth: "Geng Wenhua knows that you are waiting for him at the door, but he doesn't want to see you, you go." ”
After Zheng Jia knew the truth, his heart was like ashes, and he wrote a farewell letter and sent it to Geng Weihua, and Geng Weihua's heart was like a knife after seeing it, he felt sorry for this woman's efforts, so he took the initiative to make the first call to Zheng Jia.
On the phone, Geng Weihua said very directly: "I want to marry you, now, immediately, immediately!" ”
After this phone call, the two were together.
4. Geng Weihua's married life
Wedding photos were not popular in those days, so the two did not take wedding photos, only received a marriage certificate, and simply ate a bowl of fried sauce noodles.
The two also lived a sweet life and had a daughter, and after having children, the tediousness of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea gradually emerged.
Marriage is not like in idol dramas, there will always be a time of chicken feathers.
The families of the two people are very different, Geng Weihua is a proper peasant family, living a very simple life, so he also has the idea of thrift engraved in his bones.
And Zheng Jia's family life is excellent, and Yilai is used to the life of stretching out his hands and eating to open his mouth, and he can't bear the days of frugality.
The two often quarrel because of different consumption concepts, and Geng Weihua has always believed that Zheng Jia was so careful when he chased him, and he must be a competent wife after marriage, but it is a mess in life.
Although Geng Weihua has a compilation and has a very good development in the field of music, he often receives jobs such as commercial performances, which is very rich economically and is also a well-off life, but this can not stand his wife's big hand.
Buying a random piece of clothing is thousands of dollars, and buying a random bag is tens of thousands.
But Geng Weihua did not refuse, but thought that Zheng Jia was a bit extravagant, and he would try his best to satisfy whatever Zheng Jia wanted, but Zheng Jia was not moved by this.
After 15 years of marriage, Zheng Jia filed for divorce.
15 years of marriage has made Geng Weihua fade the aura of his former idol, and what is in front of him is a living person, but Zheng Jia can't accept it.
Zheng Jia gave up the love of the two, but Geng Weihua couldn't come out, after all, he had been married for 15 years and had deeply engraved this woman in his heart, but Zheng Jia was very determined, and Geng Weihua could not do anything but end the marriage.
5. After Geng Weihua's divorce
After the divorce, Geng Weihua was in a state of depression for a while, often locking himself in the room and crying bitterly, and his daughter was sentenced to him, and the daughter would cry when she saw her father crying secretly,
The failure of this relationship also made him begin to doubt himself, and after being abandoned by his wife, Geng Weihua has not been in love again.
Once bitten by a snake, ten years afraid of the well rope.
When participating in a show, Geng Weihua once said that he only wants to raise his daughter well now, and he may not consider his personal problems until he goes to college, and he will not marry female fans again.
Nowadays, he appears less and less in the public eye, and he is focused on his daughter. Although it is said that he failed emotionally and slapped him in the face, as a father he is very successful, his daughter loves him very much, and he is a competent father.
I hope that he can live better and better with his daughter, and the relationship can finally come to an end. It would be even better if I could return to showbiz!