With the progress of society, the public pays more and more attention to the education of babies. From prenatal education to early education to later school education, parents will invest a lot of time and energy.
On the one hand, parents hope that their children will win at the starting line and grow up to be a leader and become a dragon and phoenix in the crowd. On the other hand, we want our children to grow up healthy and happy, with a high-quality environment for growth and learning.
In the process of parenting, parents will not only get a great sense of joy and accomplishment, but also face a deep sense of frustration. This frustration comes from the lack of understanding and helplessness of the baby's behavior, and also from the lack of mastery of parenting knowledge, so that it is impossible to start with the baby who frequently appears. Every child-rearing family has more or less difficult parenting problems.
In the process of children's growth, family education is necessary, which profoundly affects the development of children's personality, IQ, emotional intelligence and personality. A high-quality educational environment and appropriate educational methods are naturally a solid foundation and fortress for children's growth. This is related to the behavior and efforts of the parents.
In family education, parents often need to spend a lot of time and energy, always pay attention to the baby's actions and emotions, and meet the baby immediately after sending a demand signal. Parents have always cared for and cared for their little babies. However, in addition to meeting the baby's basic life needs, parents should also pay attention to the baby's psychological growth.
I believe that when you spend time with your baby, you will find that your baby often behaves in amazing, abnormal ways. In general, you are confused about what they are doing, but they cannot speak or tell you their true intentions. Of course, after a large number of parenting cases, we can also grasp the deep reasons behind the baby's behavior.
According to the findings of parenting experts, babies with the following four behaviors generally behave smarter
1. Like to wear adult shoes
Don't know if you were curious about adult shoes when you were a kid? If your baby regularly shows a strong interest in adult shoes, especially mom's high heels, then your baby may be a smart baby. They often wore adult shoes and walked around the house. They also like to go to their moms and have fun performing and dancing.
In addition, babies always hold shoes and like to put all kinds of gadgets in their shoes. Even if the parents say it many times, they are indifferent. In general, it is difficult for parents to understand this behavior of babies. In fact, babies are imitating their parents, and their intense curiosity prompts them to try on them. In this case, parents do not need direct intervention, and can let the baby explore the practice on his own and enjoy the fun of the moment.
2, like to tear paper
When your baby reaches 7 or 8 months, curiosity and desire to explore the outside world grow stronger. So once they have a strong interest in something, they always take it with them to observe and experiment. In the eyes of parents, it becomes a series of repetitive actions. For example, tearing paper. Because they're curious about paper, they want to learn more about it and see how it works. If the child behaves in this way, do not interrupt him.
3. Loved crawling into bed
From birth to learning to crawl, the baby can no longer move on his own, and the range of motion is only in the small crib. However, as you get older, your baby becomes more and more curious about the outside world. They want to see the world outside of bed, so they often climb into bed and even want to go out. It's a baby's journey of discovery, but it does have a big safety hazard, so Mom often takes them back.
4. Likes to hide things
Babies aged 0-3 especially like to hide things. Whatever it is, they'll let things play a game of "hide-and-seek." Such as spoons, remote controls, toys, combs. Do you often notice that things in your home are suddenly missing? Don't worry, your baby must be hiding something. Of course, don't stop him either. Directly observe where he usually hides things so that he can find them the next time you need them.
It is better to discipline the child in a positive way. Parents without educational experience and methods recommend reading this set of books "Harvard Family Training".
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