Everyone yearns for a beautiful love, but not everyone can achieve their wishes, even if they meet, they may not be able to become a family, and in the end they can only leave regrets.
For a woman, when she meets a heartwarming person, she will naturally want to keep him, and he has been together, but what method to use to keep him around, which also becomes a woman's confusion.
Some women think that as long as they give him love, as long as they pay for him, he can naturally understand his true heart, even if he does not enter his heart now, one day, he will be moved.
And the fact is not so, a love only love is not enough, but also need a certain skill, in order to keep him by your side forever, can tie a man's heart, never love, but 3 things.
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Respect for women
Men are all very self-respecting, for them, face is more important than others, if a person is not willing to give him face, then he is naturally not willing to be with her.
Some women often do not pay attention to this problem, even if they are facing outsiders, they also have to lose their temper with him, and even say that he is not, which will only make the man's face hang, and it will cause quarrels, and slowly love will become unlove.
Women must understand that while you give him love, you must also give him respect, this is the most important thing, if there is not even the minimum respect, then he will only feel very tired to get along, and will no longer want to be with you.
For men, even if you say how much you love him and don't give him face, he won't choose you, and he's more inclined to be the kind of woman who can understand him and give him enough respect.
02
Women's inclusion
In the man's heart, the woman is made of water, she has a gentle and considerate nature, can tolerate his shortcomings, and will not embarrass him.
It is true that such a woman is rare and what men really pursue, and perhaps you think that as long as you pay for him and give him love, he will treat you in the same way, but in fact it is not like this.
Everyone has small shortcomings, the more you get along, the easier these shortcomings are exposed, at this time, you need someone to step back and tolerate, at this time, if there is a woman who can tolerate him and make him feel warm, he will naturally choose her.
This is not a man's selfishness, but a desire in his heart, he hopes that the future home is relaxed, and the partner around him can understand him, which is the most important thing for him.
Women want to keep a man's heart, or to be a gentle like water woman, give him more care and tolerance, this is the ultimate magic weapon.
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Women take great care of them
Women always naively think that finding a good man can make him take care of you, but the truth is that many men are small children and what they need is your care and wants to be loved by you.
The love he yearns for has never been vigorous, but a long stream, two people together to accompany each other, support each other, she can take care of him in life, he can also give her care, this is the ideal love.
Especially for men who work hard outside, physically and mentally exhausted, after returning home, just want to have a bowl of hot soup, have the company of a confidant, if you still have a tantrum with him at this time, he will feel very annoyed.
At this time, he is like a small child, wanting to get your meticulous care, your care will make him feel warm, feel that he is the happiest person in the world.
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Conclusion
If you want to maintain a relationship, it is never by love, love depends on feelings, and long-term relationships rely on careful management.
Women can't keep a man's heart, they just feel that they don't give enough, if you try a little harder, you may be able to get his love, and the truth is, you don't use the right method.
Wanting him to stay by your side, in addition to giving, it is more important to give him respect, tolerance and meticulous care, when you do this, he is naturally more and more inseparable from you.