The two-month-old baby was diagnosed with a fall by the doctor, and the person who caused all this was the nanny who was hired by the baby's parents for nearly 20,000 yuan.
Nowadays, the family configuration in the mainland is mostly one or several children, a pair of parents and two pairs of elderly people, most of the parents need to go to work, and the parents of the parents are often unable to take the children for various reasons, so asking the sister-in-law has become one of the choices.
However, this is a choice that looks normal, but it has been exposed to the abuse of babies one after another, and the industry urgently needs to regulate it, needless to say, but is this parenting method really better?
First, why not choose to leave the elders with their children?
The pace of life is fast, the cost of living is aggravated, many parents must work at the same time to support the cost of a child, and who will bring the child has become the first problem that needs to be solved.
Don't rush to blame the parents who are looking for a sister-in-law, they may have a reason to do this:
1. Parents are old, in poor health, and cannot take good care of their children. The marriage age of modern people continues to be postponed, not only the emergence of elderly parents, but also the elderly grandparents and grandparents, and there is indeed a certain risk in taking children.
2. The elderly are in a distant place and are not convenient to take care of. This should be a very common problem, and now the number of young people who go out to work is staggering, and more and more people are choosing to settle down and work, so it is becoming more and more difficult for elders to bring their children.
3. Family tension leads to a lack of trust. Family chores such as mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships are topics that can never be avoided, and once a family is not well integrated, it is difficult to achieve unity in who will raise children.
4, simply do not want to trouble the elders to take care of, do not want to add burden to them. After all, the elders also have their own lives, taking care of children is not an easy thing, and the next generation of relatives is easy to spoil, after thinking about it, they give up the idea of adding trouble to the elders.
Second, no matter what the reason, the family is always more reliable than strangers
First of all, let's talk about the tension of family relations, as a parent you have to believe in one thing, no matter what the relationship between family members, the love for the younger generation is the same, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not affect the love of the child, there is only a gap in educational concepts.
Secondly, for you to leave the elders to take care of the children is to add trouble to them, for the elders, personally watching the grandchildren grow up around them may be the happiest thing they feel, the burden in the name of love is a sweet burden, and as a "person", they are definitely the object of your child's delivery.
Finally, even if because of distance and physical reasons, you can only ask your sister-in-law to take care of it, please be careful to select every company, every individual, install monitoring (it is best to hide), and have a good idea of the child's situation at any time.
It is not impossible to ask for a sister-in-law, but it is necessary to polish your eyes and be foolproof, and your choice is crucial for the growth of your child.