Snap, a slap! Xiao Tian was punched in the mouth by his father, on the grounds that he was holding chopsticks with his left hand! What is the reason for this? Xiao Tian was beaten inexplicably and was very depressed. Although Dad had warned him several times at the dinner table, he could not control it, and he would always be accustomed to eating with his left hand, not with his right hand.
In addition, what makes Xiaotian even more unbearable is that he eats with his left hand, obviously very comfortable, and has been praised by his grandmother for being "smart", but only in his father is considered to be "not understanding the rules, not being polite", and his father forced him to change. This made Xiaotian very painful, and she cried several times.
Little Heaven is curious! It is very comfortable to use your left hand, even if you are a "left-handed", you are also a smart left-handed, why do you have to change it? How can a left-handed child be so unpopular?
Why are "left-handed" kids not popular?
Left-handed children are children who are accustomed to using their left hands, and such children are often looked at differently in life and are not very popular.
Because in the minds of some people, left-handed children are different and don't have a good enough homeschooling. In the eyes of this part of the people, if family education is fully in place, it is impossible for children not to understand the "popular rules" and not to practice using the right hand. Therefore, many parents are particularly opposed to their children's "left-handedness" and cannot accept that their children have different habits from others.
In daily life, in fact, "left-handed" parents have troubles, and children also have troubles, each with their own troubles. Some children have to face the correction of their parents, and they are miserable. Some children have to accept the discussion of others, point and point, and feel bored. Some children are also upset themselves, but they just can't change it, which is very unpleasant.
Now that you're left-handed, why not enjoy it? Some people who can't correct their left-handed habits have long ago begun to hug each other for warmth many years ago, and even rummaged through the "left-handed" people among celebrities as role models. For example, Einstein, Napoleon, Obama, Zhao Benshan, Bill Gates, Cecilia Cheung and others have become the objects of everyone's worship.
Even, some people who have left-handed habits in China have also learned the festivals of Western countries, celebrating the "International Left-handed Festival", to announce to the world, using the left hand is like using the right hand, just a habit, there is no difference. Moreover, people with this habit are still very smart!
So, are "left-handed" kids smart? There is no scientific basis for this
The meaning of left-hander in English is not a clever interpretation, but rather "clumsy", less sophisticated. Therefore, whether some left-handed children are really smart has become a topic of great concern to everyone.
It is undeniable that in life, it is true that some left-handed children have been found to be quite prominent when they grow up, and there is no shortage of celebrities. For this reason, the left-handers consciously got ahead and won back a round. But in fact, this is just a misunderstanding and has no scientific basis.
Is there really a scientific basis for the fact that left-handed children are smarter?
In fact, as early as 1976, scientists conducted IQ tests on 7688 left-handers. It was found that a person uses the left hand and the right hand only because the brain is divided into left brain and right brain, which is responsible for coordinating left and right limb activities, which is not related to IQ level.
That is, left-handed people are no smarter than right-handed people and have no advantage in IQ. The reason why there is a "left-hander" smarter in life is most likely because this habit is unique and different. Coupled with the star effect, it is caused by the common cause.
Since the child's left hand and right hand are the same, it is just that everyone's vision is different. So, if your own children have left-handed tendencies, what kind of attitude should parents have?
Finding children "left-handed", two common attitudes of parents
Strongly oppose, even hit the child with his hands, try to pull back the habit
Some parents strongly oppose that the child is left-handed, can not accept the child's habit, every time they see the child doing things with their left hand, they will be very irritable, directly yell at the child, or do it. Trying to bring back the habit of the child in a violent way makes the left-handed child feel stressed and undignified.
It is more appropriate to respect your child's habits and correct them slowly
Even if parents are very opposed to the habit of using their children's left hands, they should slowly correct and change their children little by little. Otherwise, the child is easy to rebel, feel discriminated against, the child's own needs to be respected have not been met, and the heart will not be happy.
Parents should give left-handed children a little time out of love for their children, so that children can slowly change and become a child who is more in line with their parents' wishes. Of course, if parents can respect their children more, be more generous, and allow their children to retain the habit of left-handedness, their children will naturally be happier.
There are left-handed children at home, parents should prepare watches, needles, scissors, chopsticks and other items for the child's left hand, the child has special tools, it is easy to use, and the family can enjoy it more happily.
How old are your children? Did you approve of the habit of left-handedness when you were a child, and would you strongly urge your child to change to a right hand?