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People are always complaining that this is a society that judges people by their appearance, but everyone is hoping in their hearts that they will become the special role of the top value. As the old saying goes, God will open a window for you while closing a door, and those children who do not study well and have a poor family have lost too many competitive resources.
Careful observation is not difficult to find that even in ordinary families that can be encountered in life, most of the children with better looks also live in families with better families.
Speaking of this, I have to mention the fairy sister known as the ceiling of the face value, her facial features are exquisite and pure, and when she appeared on the big screen as a teenager, she was shocked and became a goddess in the hearts of many people.
But in interviews, the fairy sister often said that she was not good-looking, even the ugliest one in the family.
In the past, people thought that this was just a self-effacing sentence of hers, but they did not expect that after seeing Liu Yifei's family members, people were surprised to find that her words were indeed true.
Although Liu Yifei's family cannot be called rich and wealthy, it is at least a well-off level. From the photos of her childhood, it can be seen that her family is still relatively wealthy, which can make her live a more exquisite and quality life.
Carefully observe the classmates around you, and you can also find that those who have better family conditions tend to look better. Can the gap between rich and poor also bring about a gap in appearance?
Why do rich people's children look better? From a biological point of view, the only thing that determines a person's appearance is the genes from his parents.
Only when both parents choose a better-looking partner when choosing a mate, the appearance of the offspring can be improved. Speaking of which, it is necessary to mention the concept of mate selection in psychology.
From the perspective of evolutionary psychology, the primitive social environment is relatively harsh, and women will actively choose men with more high-quality resources in order to continue their excellent offspring.
In ancient society, a person's appearance can also be used as an evaluation criterion to judge whether a person's body is healthy. Therefore, those who look more upright and pleasing to the eye, the easier it is to gain the favor of quality women.
Of course, men will pay more attention to women's appearance when choosing a mate.
However, this will also put them at a disadvantage when choosing a mate, because women with good looks tend to have more choices, and men become the target of selection.
For these girls who are already good looking, they have countless suitors around them, and they will naturally choose men who are more excellent in appearance and can match themselves.
This is not only for the woman's own benefit, but also for her offspring to inherit better genes. Even if people in contemporary society have been emphasizing the need to break the prejudice of appearance, we cannot deny that people with high appearance will still enjoy more preferential treatment in society.
Those ordinary children with average appearance, if they are born in a rich family, will get more inclusive and kind evaluations, such as Japan's Princess Aiko. At the same time, because the family conditions are relatively excellent, she also has more resources to help her master high-quality talents and make up for her lack of appearance.
Regardless of the influence of genes, a person's facial features and temperament can also be changed by the acquired environment. If a person's posture, words and deeds are not elegant enough, good facial features will also be greatly reduced.
But if a person lives in a rich family and receives high-end family education from an early age, then the temperament revealed by her hands and feet is enough to make her appearance rise to another level.
The cultivation of any kind of temperament requires family members to invest more resources in the field. If we want our children to have the smell of books, we need to take our children to the library to read books from time to time, and often lead our children to study excellent literary works, so that we can achieve poetry and bookishness.
If you want your child to learn an art, it also takes a long time and money to invest. Children from poor families obviously do not have the leisure to study art and life, and all they see is the trivialities of life.
Therefore, children living in wealthy families are often able to have a broader vision.
This confidence and confidence allows them to grow better and be more reliable in the face of problems. Peers will also think that such children talk more elegantly and are more attractive than ordinary children.
Wealth brings not only material satisfaction, it can also reduce most of the troubles in life, so that we have more time to enjoy life.
Children born into ordinary families, even if they were originally like gelatin, will become dark and cracked by daily labor.
Perhaps they are also gifted in some way, but the poor family has long covered up his shining points, so that they have to continue to exist as ordinary identities, gradually obscured by the torrent of history.
To put it simply, men with more wealth are more likely to gain the favor of high-value women, so the appearance of their descendants will also be greatly improved.
At the same time, a superior material life can also pave the way for children's growth, cultivate their temperament in a certain aspect, broaden their insight and vision, and let them obtain a unique charm different from their peers.
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Author | Tommy
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参考资料：Bruk, A., Scholl, S. G., & Bless, H. (2018). Beautiful mess effect: Self–other differences in evaluation of showing vulnerability. Journal of personality and social psychology, 115(2), 192-205