And T eat and live with the experience of a few days, there have been several times, the first time is after the college entrance examination, do not remember the college entrance examination results out of no, a few classmates went to a tourist attraction to play for a few days, we are very happy, at that time she was very healthy, physical endurance is better than me and S.
The last time was eight years ago, during the summer vacation, when T said her parents were going to the mountains for the summer and asked us to go with her, and S and I agreed and went with her for five days. First declare that we pay our own money, not the soft mouth of the residents.
That time together left a deep and unforgettable memory for me and S, especially S, saying that he had a shadow and would not travel with S again. That time together also became the last time we got along 24 hours a day, and we haven't seen it since.
T's son was half a year younger than my baby, T's brother-in-law drove a car, S's old public car, after sending us to the destination they went back, S's son did not go with him.
Seven of us lived in three rooms, one with S and my son, one for T myself, and one for T's parents with T's son.
When T arrived, she first instructed her father to help her decorate the room, she said that she was afraid of sleeping with curtains, and her father climbed high and climbed low to help her hang up. She said that her waist was not good enough to sleep on a hard bed, and her father went to the farm owner to ask for a hard bed, and came back to her to change it. You must know that T is the third oldest in the family, there are brothers and sisters on it, her father was already in his seventies at the time, the white-haired old man hummed and hummed to give her a back bed board, when passing by our room, I and S were stunned, and immediately ran over, thinking in my heart, you should be able to guess what this daughter brought to her parents. T even brought her own pillows, and a pile of other messy daily necessities, which who carried these things for her, certainly would not be herself.
In addition to calling her father, what surprised me and S was her treatment of her son. Her son is half a year younger than my son, the mountain village at night, the child is a little scared, T son wants to sleep with her, she refuses, saying that it will affect her sleep, her son cried sadly for a long time, she also disagreed, I and S looked next to each other only so unbearable. T's two children T basically did not take care of life, let alone take the child to sleep, the nanny is on the nanny belt, the parents are on the parents to bring, anyway, she does not bring, she said she is nervous, can not be with the child at night in the same room.
The farm manages rice, she said that her stomach is not good, meals are arranged according to her taste, rice should be cooked particularly soft, dishes should be light and not spicy, and each meal should also cook a pot of soft and rotten clear soup noodles.
Such a meal I can barely accept, after all, in Guangdong light for so many years, and S this heavy taste of big fish and big meat used to Sichuan people can not stand two days down, one night dragged me and my son to the nearby village to find a barbecue to eat, the result was not found, the last day back to the trip resolutely and T family went their separate ways, her husband took us back to the first thing is to go to Xichang barbecue to eat barbecue tooth festival.
T was very focused on exercise, and at that time she was in a wheelchair on crutches before she could move, and during those days in the mountains, she had to ask us to go to the mountains every day, once in the morning, once in the afternoon. I walked the mountain no problem, S is struggling, I said that S has chronic diseases, and does not love sports, physical strength is not T's opponent at all, so these two people really make people laugh, pay attention to health exercise all day long to say how weak and weak their body is, and the one who is really sick never hangs his own illness on his lips and never sees himself as a patient.
Last March, T came to me and asked me about the climate here, saying that she was afraid of the cold in winter, to see if I was suitable for her to come here for the winter, and if she wanted to be closer to me, she could come to my house to solve the problem of eating. Honestly scared me a lot, I knew all too well about her various life quirks. I told her that I also have a low temperature below ten degrees Celsius every year, which is not particularly warm, although I did not refuse, but I really did not want her to come, fortunately she finally went to Sanya, I was relieved.
T said that she had a wish to travel abroad once a year, but after so many years, she went to Japan and Okinawa once. Go out with a pillow and curtains in a wheelchair, but also need others to take care of her, except for her parents, who would want who can do it? And her parents are also old, the old man does not say let her take care of it, she does not torture them is lucky.
Talking about doing hysteroscopy that day, I said that I also had such and such health problems, and she didn't care to ask about my physical condition. She only has herself in her eyes, she makes herself weak, and at the same time she is extremely afraid of death and life, I am not in good health, all of you should let me help me, you can't look down on me, as for your body, it is your own business.
So how is it possible for me to praise her and praise her, to respect her and admire her? Disturbed by her mood for a few days, I decided, will I help her in the future? Yes, a deceased person, I can help her deal with some affairs, not sympathize with her or respect her but pity her, those who help her around me I think many of them are pitying her, and she imagines that others have helped her as admiration and respect for her.
I will not follow her habitually, I will not say what she loves to hear to encourage her, the one who chatted with her that day was the real me, the future will still be the real me, even if she is depressed, even if her son also has psychological problems, I don't care, she is not my father, I also have the bottom line of my making friends, help her without asking for returns, as a friend has been benevolent and righteous.
Writing these things made me sort out my emotions and straighten out some ideas, which is one of the reasons why I love to write love notes, when the past flows down the text, the mess and fog in my heart gradually disperses and becomes clear, and I myself firmly know what to do next.
Even if this article is turned over, it will no longer bother her [teeth]
