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Forget in which article to see such a sentence, the world is full of sentient beings, the sea of people, whether male or female, each of us always wants to find a person who really likes each other and is really suitable for each other, but many times the fate is still single, or either always did not meet the person they really liked, or two people got along for a period of time and found that they were not suitable for each other, or they were not the right people.
Think about it and say it is really right, of course, it is not excluded that there is a situation in the relationship, because you are not brave enough, not active enough to miss the person you like, miss that rare and valuable love, and leave unlimited regrets in your life.
However, to tell the truth, our life is not long nor short, not necessarily can meet the most suitable for their own people, even if they are fortunate to meet each other will not necessarily like themselves, ta is not necessarily their own, moreover, even if two people can go together, it may not be able to last, this is the norm of our lives.
As Zhang Xiaoxian said, at the right time, meeting the right person is a kind of happiness, at the right time, meeting the wrong person is a kind of sadness, at the wrong time, meeting the right person, is a sigh, at the wrong time, meeting the wrong person, is a kind of helplessness.
Don't we also need to be too pessimistic, no need to worry too much, what everyone can do is to meet their own people who really like the right person, remember to be brave, take the initiative, and seize the opportunity well, if because of their own wandering, because of their own hesitation, because they think too much, resulting in the two of you can only regret missing each other in the end, then it is conceivable that one day in the future when you recall it will definitely be doomed to regret,
Although in the process of intersex communication, each of us has different requirements for our own mate selection object, and in real life, there is a kind of woman who never takes the initiative to contact men, but can make men think about it!
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A woman who is gentle to men, tender as water;
I have seen such a hot question on the Internet, in addition to good looks, what qualities in women are most attractive to the opposite sex?
Since the answer of the highest praise at the bottom is "gentle", you should know that in the eyes of most male friends in real life, the kind of female friends who will be gentle to themselves and tender like water are always like a spring breeze, so that male friends always can't help but want to get close to each other, always can't help but make themselves actively want to go forward to protect women, want to love women well, in order to highlight the strength and robustness of men themselves.
After all, to tell the truth, many male friends do not like that kind of personality is more fierce, too strong, hot temper, easy to get angry female friends, empathy to think about it, which man does not want to work hard for a day, after work home to face a woman who will not be gentle and considerate to himself.
Maybe two people are going to have contradictions or quarrels at every turn, a little bit of trivial things can quarrel for a day, men have been tired for a day after going home and want to be cared for, but in turn they have to take care of women's emotions, deal with women's various small tempers, small willfulness, unreasonable, maybe at the beginning, men may still be able to tolerate women, but I believe that once the time is long, which man will not be able to stand, or even can't stand it.
And to know like this gentle like water female friends, the whole person is from the inside out exudes a gentle temperament, others can not pretend how to pretend, gentle women are not only very kind, loving, and usually in daily life and men talk and chat, the tone is very soft and soft, the voice is always soft and soft, let people look very soft and weak, so that men look very moved, so it is very easy to arouse the protection of male friends.
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A woman born with a sense of mystery;
You must know that everything in this world has a shelf life, even the feelings between men and women can not escape this truth, although the reason is very heartfelt, but at the same time very realistic. Especially in the process of interpersonal communication, many female friends once they fall in love with a man, or meet a man who makes their hearts move, they will suddenly fall in love, and it will be easy to love each other to forget themselves, and they will love desperately, and they will not hesitate to give all of themselves to men.
However, to tell the truth, maybe at the beginning men will be moved by women's practices, and women will feel moved, but once over time, after the two of you have been together for a long time, after the man's freshness of love has faded, after the enthusiasm that women like has disappeared, then I believe that I don't need to say, you all know that the relationship between two people will slowly fade, your feelings will fade, and even the more together, the more you get along, the more you will often feel bored and unimpressed.
In fact, the books on gender psychology mentioned above that the relationship between men and women is originally a process that needs to be gradually processed, the so-called love is fast, scattered fast, only when you like it slowly, love can be longer, only when the two of you in the process of communication and getting along, slowly contact each other, slowly understand the personality of both sides, slowly exchange interests and hobbies between each other, so that the feelings can be longer.
On the contrary, if the two of you are too hasty to know each other well, and then rush to determine the relationship between each other, then it is very easy to backfire, or even backfire, after all, to tell the truth, if one person appears next to another person at a speed of 10 times the speed of fast-forward, for this person has not had time to understand clearly, he will confess his love in a fiery manner and declare together, then it is conceivable that in the end this person will definitely leave at the same 10 times accelerated fast-forward speed.
So you female friends still have to understand, the initial beginning of the relationship with male friends, do not suddenly reveal the whole thing, so that soon male friends lose interest in you, as a competitive female friend, only know how to maintain their own sense of mystery, can make men always interested in themselves, but also be able to hook the hearts of male friends for a long time.
Only if you can do this, then even if you don't need to take the initiative for men, simply just sit there quietly, I believe that men can't help but want to get close to women, want to constantly understand women, and constantly dig into women, because every time women show themselves in front of men, they can always bring different surprises to men, always bring different freshness to men, let men feel as precious as a treasure girl who gets a priceless treasure, and will definitely cherish women more. Afraid of women leaving themselves, they are willing to love and pamper women unconditionally all the time.
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Women who can understand men understand men
In this incomparably realistic and cruel society, if a female friend does not want to work hard, does not want to work hard to make money, take ten thousand steps back, you can still rely on relying on male friends, to marry a male friend who is willing to raise yourself, but male friends are different, most men understand this truth, the only person who can really rely on dependence is himself, even if he carries a lot of things on his body, he can only grit his teeth all the way on his own.
However, whenever this time, working hard outside, struggling to make money, dragging a tired, exhausted male friend home, certainly will not want a male friend who likes to mess with each other, always messing around, and men to go to great lengths to deal with unreasonable female friends, what men really want in their hearts must be the other half who can understand themselves, understand their own hardships, understand themselves, understand their hardships, truly know what they want and what they need.
Speaking of which, we are born in the world, it is not easy to have the privilege of meeting a person who really understands himself, understands himself, and can understand himself, but when he is with a partner like this, not only can he say something is, the other half can understand, and maybe even he does not have to say, the other half can fully guess what he is thinking, and in turn can constantly comfort men, understand understanding men, know how to enlighten men, even if the two of you are not together, just ordinary heterosexual friendship, However, once separated, a woman like this can always make men think about it, hold their stomachs, and even remember it.
Liao Yimei once wrote such a sentence that I like very much: In our lives, it is not uncommon to encounter love and sex, but it is rare to meet understanding.
All in all, in the relationship, when a man likes a woman and wants to pursue a woman, it is actually necessary to make efforts, and it is more necessary to put into practical action, even if the man really likes women, just by saying that he likes each other, it is far from enough, if the man really likes each other and wants to be with the other party, then he must put it into practical action, and he must also use all his strength to chase each other. Only by doing so can women feel the love of men and be willing to accept the love of men.
On the contrary, if men are not willing to do anything, are not willing to pay anything, will always say that they love each other, but always act indifferently and do not care, then believe that no matter how good and how much they love you, women will choose to leave men ruthlessly because of men's inaction and unwillingness to pay.
In the end, in my opinion, whether it is fate or feelings, it is always in your own hands, when you meet someone you really like, when you meet someone who is suitable, you must learn to take the initiative to seize the opportunity, so that you will have the development of your next story, and you will enhance and heat up your feelings, if you do nothing, then you can only miss each other, miss the love that originally belonged to you, and look forward to everything!
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