Friends of the opposite sex interact with each other, and there is a certain distance. The farther away the purer, the closer the distance, the more likely it is to have problems. People will play together, which means that there are similar auras attracting each other. Neither men nor women waste much time on people who are not interested, basically, for material gratification, or emotional gratification. There are some things that are not suitable for the identity of friends, and once they are done, they can't help but feel ambiguous. Many people feel that your relationship is pure enough when there is no accident, even if you do something excessive, there will be no problem. In fact, people are emotional, and it is also very easy to be impulsive, and some things, once you have done it, there is basically no way back. Friends of the opposite sex, these five things, have done more than 2 things, the relationship has begun to be ambiguous!
1, non-special circumstances, hugging between friends, if it is a long-term reunion, or after experiencing a very significant event, two people polite, comforting hugs, it is normal. However, if it is in other cases, such as after watching a movie together to send a woman home, at the door of her neighborhood, or at the station when they are separated, the two people will hug each other, even if you are in the name of friends, but in fact, you have deteriorated and become a couple's attachment. 2, compare yourself with his lover If it is only you comparing yourself to each other, it is not strange, it is a very normal mode of getting along between friends. However, if you will always compare yourself with the other person's lover, especially after the ta's lover provokes the TA to be angry, take yourself as a reference object, and feel that the TA's lover is not worthy of the TA, then in fact, there is a suspicion of overstepping the line, and this also implies that there is a desire to replace it, and the relationship cannot be pure.
3, angry ta and the opposite sex too close, if it is just an ordinary opposite sex friend, when ta and other opposite sex play, you should be sure, or even to help ta. However, if you get too close to the opposite sex, your heart is not a blessing, on the contrary, you feel very uncomfortable, like your own things have been robbed by others. Or rather, when you interact with other members of the opposite sex, you can't help but care about his emotions. This all means that you don't just see each other as friends, and your relationship will not be pure. 4, feel that the other party is your exclusive product between the couple, there will be an innate sense of possession. I feel that his time should be spent on you, and he can only be your person. Between friends of the opposite sex, the purer the feelings, the more they will determine that the other party is an independent character and does not change with the changes in your life. The more you feel that what he does and thinks has the obligation to synchronize with you, and that he is your exclusive product, it is actually equivalent to you treating him as a lover. There will be such a thought, doing such a thing, the relationship between you must not be pure.
5, the TA's WeChat settings to specialize in the interaction between the opposite sex, after all, unlike girlfriends or brothers, there will often be gender differences. If you all feel that it is only natural to set up each other's WeChat settings, such as having a separate group, the chat page is at the top for a long time, the WeChat movement adds attention, the WeChat chat history is never deleted, and so on. That actually means that you must not have a pure friendship relationship between you. You know, if you are really just friends, it is impossible to chat every day, nor can you care so much about life with him, and he will not always pay attention to each other.