Qianjiang Evening News Hourly News Reporter Sheng Rui Correspondent Fan Yifei
Today (February 16), the day the new semester begins. Catching up on homework, making tabloids... Presumably, a few days ago, many parents were frowning and counting the days, looking forward to the "return of the sacred beast".
However, there are some children in Hangzhou, who urge their mothers every day: "Is today's homework coming?" What are you going to do today? ”
It turned out that these children and their mothers participated in the "I Love My Family" parent-child growth camp jointly organized by the Hangzhou Women's Activity Center and the Hangzhou Xihu District Education Development Research Institute.
According to the rules, during the growth camp activities, the parent-child family guides the child to complete 1 task every day by signing the "Stick to Punching Commitment", including participating in the family cleaning, becoming a kitchen helper to participate in the cooking process, washing dishes for the family, sorting out their own toys and books, washing and folding clothes, etc., to complete the parent-child fun pass.
Every day, the organizers of the event will set up a family education guidance theme to guide parents to discuss scientific parenting, and invite professional guidance teachers to carry out family education theme guidance online. In the past seven days, the organizers have received more than 3,000 punch card works, and the discussion of children's education in the activity group is also lively.
1] There is less homework and more happiness
When the event was just launched, Ye Xiaomin, who had two daughters in the family, signed up, the eldest daughter Xiaoxuan Primary School was in the fourth grade, and the younger daughter Xiaoyuan was in the first grade of primary school.
After the introduction of the "double reduction" policy, in addition to having more time to read, Ye Xiaomin is trying to entertain and educate.
For example, this winter vacation, the family went skiing in Lin'an, and spent 7 hours climbing a "snow mountain", and popularized a lot of knowledge about the Winter Olympics along the way.
This time participating in the growth camp is her labor education attempt, "The school originally had some labor homework in the winter vacation homework, so as soon as I saw the activity, I signed up." ”
Although at the beginning, I had the attitude of trying it out, Ye Xiaomin and her daughters participated in every activity seriously.
For example, washing socks, Ye Xiaomin is teaching them how to wash before washing, "the old people may feel that washing is not clean, but I think that letting them wash more is nothing more than wasting some water, but washing will definitely be directly sunburned, which is also an affirmation of them." In addition, after being sent to the group to punch the clock, it received a lot of praise, and the daughters' interest grew, and then she was urged to ask every day, "Mom, is today's homework coming?" ”
Seven days of growth camp, not only the daughters learned a lot of skills, Ye Xiaomin also learned the knowledge of family education, "I remember a class, the teacher asked us how to let the children do not want to do what they do not want to do, to change before, I in a lofty posture, reprimanded them, fierce them, the teacher said that this is not right, we need to use an enlightening way to guide them, stimulate their interest, benefit a lot." ”
Now every day, the daughters will also take the initiative to do what they can, "Everything is packed by themselves when school starts today, which is great!" ”
2] Wrapped a mother in three dumpling skins
"The son experienced happiness and a sense of accomplishment in his labor, and this sense of accomplishment does not need to be compared with others and compared with himself." In the last day of the activity, Wang Yinyin, as a high school teacher, shared her feelings about growing up camp and parenting experience, and wrote nearly a thousand words.
Wang Yinyin's son Xiaonuo, 5 years old this year, accidentally brushed the circle of friends, let her know about this growth camp activities and choose to participate, "I am a teacher, usually let students do some labor homework, so in the process of daily education of his son, he will also choose to do some things he can through interest guidance." ”
Her son was relatively young, and Wang Yinyin chose some moderate labor, for example, on the day of the kitchen helper, she let her son help make dumplings. As expected, the dumplings wrapped by my son were unbearable, "I played a game with him ' you pack me guess', just like playing plasticine, to wrap up some intuitive images." ”
The first one was a circle, which Wang Yinyin did not guess; the second was a trapezoid, and Wang Yinyin still did not know what her son had wrapped; until the third, a triangle, the son himself excitedly said, "I wrapped a mother." The circle is the head, the trapezoidal shape is the body, the triangle is the skirt, it turns out that the son completed a creation through three dumpling skins, Wang Yinyin said, "The imagination of the children is really endless." ”
After sending the punch card photo to the group, many parents gave Xiaonuo a thumbs up. Every day, Wang Yinyin will read the praise of the teacher and other parents to Xiaonuo, which also greatly increases Xiaonuo's enthusiasm, in the punch card task of washing dishes for his family, Xiaonuo still takes the initiative to choose to complete the task in the case of hand injury, and does not choose to give up.
In the seven-day activity, Wang Yinyin gained a lot of experience, but also found that her usual lack of education, "many projects are not considered before, the future can be considered to add." ”
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More than 300 parent-child public welfare activities have been held, and the total number of services has exceeded 470,000
At the beginning of last year, the Hangzhou Women's Activity Center launched a series of parent-child public welfare activities of "Love Companion" Family Joy Hui, which was generally welcomed by parent-child families in Hangzhou. Up to now, more than 300 online and offline activities have been carried out, and the cumulative service has exceeded 470,000 people.
This growth camp activity, using online punch card and guidance, let children and parents start a seven-day growth journey together, through labor education, for Hangzhou parent-child families to build opportunities for careful companionship, to promote children and parents to understand and communicate with each other.
During the activity, a small class time for family parenting was set up every day, and "Creating Opportunities for Children's Growth in Labor", "Guiding Children's Autonomy with Conventions", "Effective Communication, Being a Coaching Parent", "The Secret Behind the "Explosion" of Children's Emotions", "Letting Go, Letting Children Take On More Responsibilities", "Whose Housework? Seven popular parenting themes, such as "Parent-child Storm Caused by Dirty Clothes" and "Children Feel Good, They Can Do Better", guide parents to raise children scientifically through teacher theoretical guidance, interactive comments, and online Q&A.
In the past seven days, more than 3,000 punch card works have been received, and more than 1,500 opinions and comments have been collected during parenting exchanges and discussions.
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