The age of 18 is an important turning point in a child's life, which is an age of transformation from a child to an adult, which means that life has begun a new journey. Many parents will give their children a sense of ceremony at the age of 18, and regard this age as a very important part of their children's life, because after this, the child begins to gradually take responsibility and take charge of his own life independently. But many parents ignore that before the age of 18, there are two stages that are equally important to his life, which are called two "golden three years", which are related to the child's intellectual development and height development, laying a better foundation for his life.
If many of the children's achievements are not due to accidental events, then the 35-year-old Li Ran may have to refute that although she only went to high school and has been a housewife at home since she got married, she has never complained about her life, because she always feels that everything in life is "arranged by herself".
She does not pay too much attention to the child's learning, the child's diet is also very casual, she feels that learning is not good, tall or not is completely "natural" and "genetic", so there is no need to bother to do anything. However, this view was firmly opposed by friends in an exchange with a friend and blamed Li Ran for being "irresponsible".
Friends said that the child's brain development and height development have their golden three years, if the brain development in these three years to seize the opportunity, serious treatment, will lay a very good foundation for the child's intelligence; and everyone hopes that the child can be healthy and healthy tall and tall, if you can fully supplement nutrition in the golden three years of height development, strengthen exercise, the child's height can also reach an ideal height, have a good physical condition. As for Li Ran's practice of "going with the flow", friends said that this is a manifestation of irresponsibility to children.
After listening to a friend's words, Li Ran suddenly realized that a child is like a seedling, if you do not take good care of cultivation, how can you grow stronger and better?
And what are the "golden three years" of brain development and height development?
A Harvard University study showed that the impact of children's early education and their early experiences on children's future is as high as 70% to 80%. It is enough to show that educating children must seize the early time to avoid delaying slackness.
Like Li Ran, there are actually many parents who believe that children's intelligence is "born", but now many studies have concluded that the acquired influence also plays an important role in children's brain development. Nutritional supplementation and multi-directional stimulation are the key forces to promote the development of the acquired brain. The child's 0 to 3 years old is the golden three years of the child's brain development, and the child's brain develops rapidly in these three years, and the growth is multiplied to achieve the integrity of the brain development.
At the age of 1, it is a preliminary exploration period for children to the world, they are strange and curious about everything around them, and want to explore, at this time, parents should let children have a preliminary exploration of the things around them under the premise of ensuring safety.
At the age of 2, the child has begun to open the small mouth to learn to speak, at this time parents must communicate more with the baby, may be for parents and the child's dialogue has a sense of language barrier, but the words spoken in the mouth of the parents will gradually leave an impression in the baby's mind, which will help develop their language skills.
At the age of 3, with the rapid development of the brain, the child seems to have become a "imitator" at this time, and may see a character in the cartoon or have a certain skill to imagine himself as that person, at this time parents do not rush to pull the child back from the imagination, to respect and play the child's imagination without causing any impact, which is conducive to their thinking improvement, and will not be solidified in a space.
In addition, the golden three years of height development is particularly important, after all, the heart of beauty is everyone, who hopes that they can have an outstanding body, the golden period of height development is the golden period of rapid growth between 10 and 16 years old, but the real fierce length is only three years, specifically to observe the daily life of the child. If the child's meal volume suddenly increases, this may be a signal of growing high, seize this period to lay a good foundation, nutrition to keep up, follow-up children will have a significant period of height development.
If you miss this golden period, then the height of the child will be limited to a certain extent, and it will not reach the height it should have. However, the height development period of each child is not fixed, and parents must carefully observe the daily performance of their children to firmly grasp the three years.
Raising children is not an overnight thing, nor is it simply enough to educate children very well, parents need to pay attention to every stage of their children's growth, and then pay and guide them to help children grow up healthy and strong. Seize these two golden three years of children's growth and do not let their key growth stages regret missing.