#Autumn Life Punch Season #The Shackles of Marriage
The rain hit the window like a low cry of endless pain, and the worn wooden door creaked, as if pouring out its vicissitudes. Late at night, Li Ran sat alone on the shabby sofa, the coffee in his hand had cooled, and his heart was filled with endless anxiety and fear. At the moment, his mood was as messy and dilapidated as his residence.
In this city, Li Ran is an ordinary white-collar worker, busy working every day, just to buy a house of his own and live a stable life. However, everything seemed to be predestined, and when Li Ran finally saved enough for the down payment of the house, he found that his love seemed to have disappeared in this cold house.
Li Ran's wife Xiaoyu is a gentle and kind woman. They met at work, when they were young, passionate, and deeply in love with each other. However, over time, the pressures of life make their lives exhausting. Xiaoyu began to complain that Li Ran's salary was too small, while Li Ran felt that Xiaoyu was too greedy. Their quarrels grew and they began to sleep in separate rooms and even began to doubt each other's feelings.
Intensification of contradictions:
A year later, Xiaoyu finally couldn't stand this life, and she filed for divorce. Li Ran felt like a knife in his heart, he didn't know what he had done wrong, he just felt that he was working hard for their future, but he had lost the person he loved the most.
After the divorce, Li Ran fell into a deep self-blame, and he began to reflect on his behavior, did he really love Xiaoyu? Should he buy that house? He began to think about the meaning of life, should he continue to walk?
After much deliberation, Li Ran decided to pursue Xiaoyu again. He understood that he needed to change himself, that he needed to grow up in order to win her love again. He began to work hard and learn new skills to improve his competitiveness. At the same time, he also began to cherish and care more about Xiaoyu's life, and they watched movies, ate, walked together, and regained their former love.
Regain Happiness:
A few months later, Li Ran's changes surprised Xiaoyu. She found him to become more mature, confident and charming. With Li Ran's efforts, they rekindled their former passion. At this time, Li Ran also realized that what he really wanted was to share the joys and sorrows of life with Xiaoyu.
So, they entered the palace of marriage again. This time, they decided not to be bound to each other by the house anymore. They chose a simple wedding, rented a small house, and started a new life.
After a few years, their little house became cozy and cozy. Although life is not rich, they live very happily. Because they know that true happiness is not about how much material wealth they have, but about sharing the bits and pieces of life with those they love deeply.
End:
Finally, Li Ran wrote his story. What he wants to tell readers is that on the road of life, we will encounter many choices and challenges. Sometimes, we need to face our mistakes and shortcomings bravely, and then change ourselves to win our most precious things - love and happiness.
How to choose a mate, buy a house, and divorce?
Love, marriage and family always occupy an important place in our lives. We all go through three important stages: choosing a spouse, buying a house, and getting divorced, which form an important part of our lives. However, a lot of people are always trying to give us advice and opinions, trying to help us make a decision. But what I want to say is that we should respect everyone's choice because this is their life and we should respect their decisions.
First, choosing a mate is a personal decision. Everyone has their own preferences and standards, which cannot be changed. We should not change our choices because of other people's expectations or pressures. We should respect our partner's choice and not try to change them or try to make them meet our expectations. Because love is both parties, true love can only be established when we truly understand and accept each other.
Secondly, buying a house is a big decision. It's not just about finances, it's about our lifestyle and family planning. We should make rational decisions according to our actual situation and needs. Don't be swayed by other people's words or pressures, because this is our own life.
In the end, divorce is a difficult decision. It's not just about our emotional problems, it's about our financial problems. We should think carefully about our decisions and not make them lightly. Before making a decision, we should carefully consider all the consequences and be prepared.
In general, choosing a mate, buying a house, and divorce are our own decisions. We should respect everyone's choices and not try to change them or try to make them meet our expectations. Because this is their life, we should respect their decision.