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Some women will encounter this situation: obviously still in love, but the other party suddenly no longer contact themselves, not even to say breakup, making people confused. If it's only for a short period of time, a woman can still cheat on herself that he's too busy to talk to himself.
But often this kind of thing will happen when a woman does not realize it, which makes people caught off guard.
Generally, such problems do not arise on a whim of men, on the contrary, they have been planning for a long time, and the reasons are mostly the following two.
One: I like someone else
If a man suddenly ignores you and does not explain to you, it is very likely that he likes other people, but he does not know how to tell you, and can only remain silent first.
In addition, and more importantly, his mind is no longer on you, and even chatting with you will make him feel bored or bored, so he is not willing to waste time on you.
Xiaohui and her boyfriend have been in love for 10 years, from high school to college to college graduation, their relationship is relatively stable, because when they are studying and working in different places, they talk on the phone every day to talk about what happens in life and close the distance between each other.
However, just when the two were finally about to end their different places and live in the same city, the boyfriend suddenly lost contact, he no longer sent her messages, nor did he call, even if Xiaohui sent him a lot of messages, the boyfriend only simply replied one or two sentences.
This situation has never happened to them, Xiaohui thought about many possibilities in her mind, too worried, and finally bought a ticket overnight to rush to her boyfriend's city.
When she arrived at the door of her boyfriend's rental house in the morning, she just happened to bump into her boyfriend coming out of the house with a girl in his arms, looking at each other, Xiaohui was incredulous, and her boyfriend was embarrassed.
It turned out that half a year ago, the boyfriend had begun to like others, but he had been in an ambiguous state and did not develop further, until the other party also clearly told him his intentions, and the boyfriend really began to pedal two boats.
Every day, he went home to accompany his girlfriend here after the company finished calling Xiaohui, the two have been living together for more than a month, the boyfriend did not think about how to tell Xiaohui, he did not resign, and did not want to leave the current city, he could only choose not to say anything.
Xiaohui was heartbroken, and left a "goodbye" copy in the circle of friends, announcing the end of the relationship.
If a woman feels a man's sudden coldness and loss of love, instead of torturing herself, it is better to take the initiative to find him, or to find a "clue", if the heart already belongs to another, then whether it is his eyes or his WeChat will have a clue.
Two: Waiting for you to say break up
There is also a situation where men are coldly violent you by not contacting or saying breakup, and want to propose a breakup yourself.
He is different from the first situation, the first situation may have two outcomes, and this one is that the man has already thought about separating, but does not want to be the one who proposes to break up, so he persecutes you in this snubbed way in disguise.
This kind of man is actually as hateful as a man who has changed his heart, he is cowardly and has no sense of responsibility.
Because in the traditional concept, we often feel that the person who proposed the breakup should bear most of the responsibility for the breakup, but in fact it is only a process and ritual, and does not represent anything.
But men do not want to accept the blame and scrutiny of their friends around them, so they want to pass this responsibility on to women.
Li Yao had met such a man, when she felt that the two people were still in love, but suddenly, the other party no longer took the initiative to contact her.
Later, Li Yao thought a lot, and suddenly remembered that she talked about her family situation when chatting with men, and she thought that the man's expression at that time was a little strange, probably because she felt less satisfied.
When Li Yao took the initiative to go to the man to say that he had broken up, the man was obviously relieved, and then said:
"Yaoyao, I like you very much, but I listened to your situation that day and thought we might not be suitable, so I'll forget about it."
After ending this relationship, Li Yao said when chatting with friends: "This kind of man does not want it, but it is snobbish." ”
When you love, you love well, and if you don't love, you will be decently separated, which is the attitude that an adult should have in the face of feelings, and the kind of man who uses cold violence to force you to break up not only does not love you, but also has a problem with his character, and there is really no need to continue to be nostalgic.
Whether it is in love with someone else, not thinking about whether to continue this relationship, or having made up your mind to separate but are unwilling to open your mouth, if a woman meets such a man, don't stay in love, they are not worth your feelings and money.
From now on, may you polish your eyes, carefully screen the people around you, and do not make a mistake in your life.
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