#Gu Ailing# I have said before: In general, the rise of a family, usually the first generation to learn manufacturing (industry), the second generation to learn science and engineering, the third generation to learn finance, the fourth generation to learn literature, history and philosophy or art and sports.
The family of the genius girl Gu Ailing is this typical development path:
Grandma Feng Guozhen, graduated from Shanghai Jiaotong University, was an engineer (polytechnic) in the Ministry of Transport of the People's Republic of China;
Mama Gu Yan, graduated from Peking University, engaged in finance;
Gu Ailing is the original figure, on the Stanford, the recently won the skiing, belongs to the art and sports category.
Gu Ailing's grandmother, Feng Guozhen, was born in 1937. At that time, the people who could read Shanghai Jiaotong University were not ordinary people.
It can be guessed that the Ancestors of the Feng Family were either landlords, rich merchants, or Kochi, or even the elite class, in short, the ancestors of the family had accumulated.
There is a proverb in the West: three generations produce an aristocrat. There has never been a nobleman who has suddenly emerged, accumulated from generation to generation, and slowly advanced forward.
Even if he is a particularly strong phoenix man, he spent a lot of effort to enter the 985, and later made a lot of money in entrepreneurship, but he is still a phoenix man.
He and his original family still have an inextricable relationship that is constant and chaotic. In other words, he had one mud leg on the shore, and the other mud leg was still in the paddy field.
The silk temperament on his body may be washed away in ten years and eight years after he develops.
However, that kind of noble prince temperament of "strangers like jade, and the prince is unparalleled in the world", no matter what, he can't cultivate it.
Noble qi, this kind of thing, must be in the original family environment of "Zhong Ming Ding Food House, Poetry Book And Silk Family", in order to be smoked and soaked.
Instead of driving a Porsche, wearing a Vacheron Constantin, carrying a Hermès, you can change your life after you get rich.
The class transition requires generations of continuous relay races to achieve. So, don't be obsessed with chicken babies, you have to chicken yourself.
You can't do it yourself, no matter how strong the chicken baby chicken is, the baby will grow up to be just a middle class.
The reason is that there is no him, the foundation you have laid for him is too thin, and the starting point of his life is too low. He only had two hands when he was full of money, how could he fight through the accumulation of several generations, six pairs of hands, or even sixteen hands?
If Grandpa's generation does not work hard, it will take the father's generation to redouble its efforts to fill the deficit of Grandpa's generation.
If the father's generation still does not work hard, then it will be difficult for the grandson to turn over in his lifetime.
Because the deficit of the first two generations is really too big, the third generation has been completely unable to repay and cannot be filled at all. Therefore, the third generation was completely desperate, and had to stretch out their feet and lie directly flat. (Except for extreme individual geniuses)
And then what? There will be no next generation.
Such a sparse family, this inferior gene, does it still need to continue?
No!
Therefore, it is very reasonable and normal that the poor cannot marry a wife and have offspring, which follows the laws of nature: the superior wins, the inferior is eliminated, natural selection, and survival of the fittest.
Stupid parents, after watching the video of Gu Ailing winning the championship, picked up their son's ears and scolded: "The same 19-year-old, you see you, all day long to engage in some famous halls, you look at gu Ailing, learn from people' homes!" ”
Smart parents, on the other hand, reflect on themselves, not smoking themselves while asking their children to quit smoking; they don't play games on their own, but they forbid their children to play games.
Again, the chicken baby still wants chickens, but what you want more chickens is yourself. If you don't set an example yourself, how can you set an example and lead?
You yourself are too lazy to struggle, too lazy to toss, just want to do some easy work comfortably, and then throw the great task of family revitalization to the next generation like a sandbag.
Then your child can learn from you, he can also do the same, he can also be too lazy to memorize words, too lazy to do exercises, and then put the hope of exam 985/211 on your grandchildren.
Therefore, don't blindly envy "other people's children", it is better to ask yourself, when can we become "other people's parents"?
