#How to look at Gu Ailing's mother's education method #The education model of elite families is really a ceiling that is difficult for ordinary families to touch? After the success of the genius girl Gu Ailing, the education method of her mother Gu Yan

#How to look at Gu Ailing's mother's education method # The education model of elite families is really a ceiling that is difficult for ordinary families to touch?

After the success of the genius girl Gu Ailing, the education method of her mother Gu Yan has aroused heated discussion, and some people say that the education model of this elite family cannot be copied by ordinary families, but I think many of Gu Yan's education methods are worth learning and thinking about by our Chinese parents.

1. Teach your child to enjoy the process far more important than the outcome.

Gu Yan has always stressed to her daughter that "although we have to strive for the goal, it is more important to enjoy the scenery along the way."

At this Winter Olympics, I saw that many players, including today's men's figure skating champion Chen Wei, were smiling and participating in the competition, feeling that they were very relaxed, and really regarded the competition as a performance and enjoyment, which should be the highest realm of the competition!

2. Praise your child for her efforts instead of her intelligence.

Praising children is a science, and the proper use of praise will play a good motivating role. If we always praise our children for being smart, it will make them feel that talent is more important than acquired effort. And Gu Yan obviously pays more attention to the efforts and concentration of cultivating children.

3. Willing to pay for the child. Gu Ailing said that her home is far from the ski slopes, and every weekend, her mother will drive 8 hours round trip to take her to the ski club for training.

An 8-hour drive a week, twice a day, may be fine, but how many parents can stick to it for years and years and spend so much time and energy on their children?

4. Teach your children by example, rather than forcing them to learn.

Gu Yan said that she did not deliberately train her daughter to ski, but she liked skiing, and took her to the ski resort when she was one or two years old, so that she could hear about the ski atmosphere.

If parents are addicted to mahjong, chatting, games, reading, learning and sports, how can children be well educated? Parents' words and deeds are so important!

Therefore, even if we do not have Gu Yan's academic qualifications, experience and economic strength, if we can adopt a scientific and reasonable education method, we can also cultivate an excellent child. #Education Listen to Me # #这才是家庭教育 #