#Kunming Headline#A man holds a wedding in Huaibei, Anhui Province. His sister came with 10,000 yuan and was ready to buy a bottle of wedding wine. Unexpectedly, she was stopped by her mother and secretly gave her 100 yuan. She told her not to go in and get money to go out and play. When her brother returned after the prayer, her sister was very helpless and left with the money.
Originally, the woman was 27 years old this year, but she hadn't played with friends, let alone married. There is also a local custom that if the younger brother marries first and the sister does not marry, then the sister cannot see the new person worship. Because of this, my mother stopped the woman and gave her money to go out on her own for a day.
The woman was hanging out with her money, but she had a bad feeling in her heart. Is this the sadness of an old leftover woman? After wandering outside for a long time, she didn't know what to do. She estimated the time, thinking that her brother should have finished the prayer, so she rushed back to the hotel. To decide whether to finish the prayer, she lingered at the door for a while. Someone came out after eating the wedding wine. After getting a definite answer, she dared to enter the hotel.
I have to say that the woman's cautious behavior makes people think that she is not the sister of the new couple, but to participate in the wedding banquet to "eat together", which makes people cry and laugh. By this time, most people had already eaten. She could only find a random table. There seemed to be some leftovers, just a bitter wedding feast.
Later, the woman posted the incident online, laughing at herself and reminding her sisters to place their orders quickly, or she would not even be able to attend her brother's wedding party. It's a bit miserable!
In my opinion, this custom actually plays a greater role in urging. Parents want to see their children get married and start a business. The underlying implication of this custom is that if your brother is married and you are a sister, how can you not worry your parents? Therefore, in order to avoid this embarrassment, quickly cancel the order.
Seeing this, it also attracted netizens to complain. Some people say their sister is not married and they don't complain about it. Some netizens also said that pregnant women cannot be at the top of the list.
For women, there are 10,000 gifts and they will eat a leftover meal. The scene is really a bit desolate.
In the past, people with two children, as the saying goes, were also called "all people", which meant that there was no shortage of boys or girls in this life, which was very comprehensive. On the contrary, these unmarried people are of course "lonely and widowed". Everyone wants a good meaning when they get married, so of course, it's a blessing for those who are already married.
In fact, such a custom is a bit unreasonable to most young people, but marriage is a very festive thing. Different regions have different customs and habits, whether they are reasonable or not. This is also the meaning of the elders praying for good luck. They tend to believe in these customs rather than nothing.
Are there any customs when we get married?
