Coordinates Hunan Yongzhou, where we white things young people must have one to the scene, several brothers can return to one, otherwise the consequences are at their own risk. In the future, the mainstream of rural funerals will be to develop professionally, and the carrying of coffins and so on is more strangers, and many places have already done so. Because the clan, relatives, neighbors will not and are not willing to do this, this has nothing to do with face, ability, the trend of the times.
A colleague of the unit, two sons are working outside, when the old father died, the two sons pulled a small cart of gifts door to door scattered hair!
Netizen passion fruit said, my sisters and brothers are also out all year round, a few years can not go back to the hometown once, human relations are good in the old man at home to respond, the former elderly father was in a car accident, half of the village at home are in the hospital to accompany, and the next day when we arrived home to see this scene moved.
Happy events can be absent, white things must be present, personnel do not go, that is called not understanding people's affairs, of course, others will not do their personnel to you. Rural people sometimes you can say that he is pedantic, but there are some good traditions such as neighborhood mutual help, you have to recognize.
I have an idea, the villagers working outside the village, especially the people in the system, form a committee, members voluntarily participate, pay the annual membership fee, the minimum 100 yuan, the meeting fee is to buy Spring Festival benefits for the elderly in the village, villagers serious illness relief and other public welfare activities, so is not closer to the relationship with the villagers at home.
Interpersonal relationships need to be maintained, I remember when the second floor of my house was capped (the roof of the tiles, all wood, labor- and labor-intensive), there were dozens of people in the village who came to help (no wages, but managed meals), and the scene is now exciting to think about.
So this is what the countryside is talking about. If you don't help others, they naturally don't come to help us. Another is that the children of rural families go to other places and do not take a look at each other for a year, and after people behave in a personal manner, they will not come back to return their affection.