How much money did you collect for the New Year?
"One Million Billion"
This is the rhythm that makes Mom and Dad rich overnight
How are you going to spend your money?
"Buy money for your mother, and your mother loves money the most."
- Intimate
Who keeps the red packets?
"The money is given to my father, and I will collect the red envelope well"
- A good one "buy the pearl and return the pearl"
The happiest part of the New Year is the children! Wear new clothes, wear new hats, and most importantly, collect old money. Regarding the pressure of old money, in this new year, many parents after the 80s and 90s feel the blessings and love of their elders for their children, but also get full of joy in the children's cute and unknowing behavior and language, witnessing the growth of their children.
The small cotton jacket does not leak air
Mr. Wang's daughter is 2 years old this year, after receiving the pressure money given by his grandparents, he pulled out the money inside and stuffed it into his father's wallet, although the action was not skilled, but Mr. Wang said that as a father, he was moved, and this little cotton jacket did not leak.
This New Year, Ms. Li was also touched by her daughter's behavior. The six-year-old daughter has a small cotton jacket and usually maintains her mother everywhere. During the Spring Festival, hearing her mother and father talk about living expenses, my daughter came over with her own piggy bank and said, "Mom, you spend my money, if you don't spend my money, you are not my mother." There are women like this, tears running in an instant!
Anti-gift red envelope family style inheritance
Mr. Xu has two sons, one 4 years old and one 2 years old. When Dabao received the pressure money from his grandmother this year, he took out a hundred yuan and sent it back to his grandmother and wished her a happy new year. After Xiao Bao saw it, he also learned to bless his grandmother like his brother. Mr. Xu said that seeing this scene, he broke through the defense. He usually pays attention to filial piety, teaches by example, honors parents, and influences his children, and now his little brother has become a role model for his younger brother. May they feel the family style of filial piety culture in the process of growing up, and understand that filial piety is the foundation of their lives.
The child asks where the red packet goes And the self-awareness is enhanced
In the New Year's money, when parents feel joy and warmth, they also feel that their children have grown up. Ms. Yan's son, who is now five and a half years old, has received red envelopes in previous years and has no concept of money. But when he received his first red envelope for the New Year this year, he suddenly asked his mother, what about his pressure money? At the same time, I asked where did the previous pressure money go? ...... Ms. Yan said that she was surprised to hear her son's questioning, on the one hand, she felt that the child had grown up and her self-awareness had increased. On the other hand, I am glad that I buy insurance for my children every year, and if I spend it myself, I should panic.
Indeed, as the child grows older, if asked where does the money go? It is estimated that there will really be a large number of parents panicking. I am one of them. When the treasures grow into noh beans, "the money is mine, or mine." Ms. Su said that a year or two ago, the child's old age money would still be used to report him to an interest class, but now it is resolutely not. The six-year-old son has his own piggy bank, the password is only known to himself, even if his parents ask, they will answer that it is a "secret"; when it comes to using the money to buy learning aids after the school starts, the son playfully and firmly refuses to say "no window, no door".
Age-old money age management to protect children's "money bags"
In fact, the child guards his "money bag" is not unreasonable, Mr. Zhang's daughter is in the second grade of primary school, Mr. Zhang said that before the daughter's annual pressure money will be handed over to the mother, the family expenses are not deliberately separated, it is a confused account. Now that the child has grown up, he realizes that the pressure on the old money belongs to him. Since this year, the daughter has asked her father to get him a bank card, to keep all the money in the card, and plans to use it in college in the future. Mr. Zhang said that it is good for children to have such awareness, and slowly she will develop a good habit of financial management.
The same is the management of the old money, Mr. Wang said, he has been adhering to the practice, the effect is very good. The daughter is 12 years old, she can collect a lot of money every year, from the daughter's 3rd grade, he will give his daughter five hundred yuan a year, at the child's own disposal, she can buy her favorite books, stationery, toys and so on. Up to now, children know what money to spend and what money not to spend, and they don't have to worry about it.
The money is a gift from the elders to the child, and the issue of ownership does not need to be discussed, it is clear that it is the child. But how to put away the child's "money bag" is what parents should consider. Some experts suggest that the money should be managed by age group.
0 - 3 years old
0-3-year-old babies do not have a strong sense of personal awareness, and they have no concept of money, and parents keep it better during this time period.
4-6 years old
4-6-year-old children have become aware of money, and parents should tell their children the meaning of pressing money and tell their children how to use it. If you want to dispose of your child's money, you must get the child's consent.
7 - 12 years old
7-12-year-old children, has begun to understand things, parents usually to tell their children more about the awareness of financial management, you can also buy some children's financial management books to show children, so that children will slowly know how to correctly deal with the pressure of the age money.
12 years old and above
Children over the age of 12, who already have a strong sense of personal consciousness and have their own circle of life, are recommended that parents retain their children's free use of the money. Of course, if the child does not have a good financial habit at this age, parents should teach their children how to manage their money correctly as soon as possible.
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