In the vast sea of people, when meeting people you like, not everyone can be so brave.
Will be more timid, will worry that the other party does not like themselves, will be afraid that their likes will just become a joke.
Indeed, we can only know our own intentions, and there is no way to know each other, so whether we are the type that the other party likes, and whether the other party will have a possibility, in our hearts, we will indeed be more bottomless.
Even so, when we meet someone we like one day, we should not directly choose to withdraw, we should be brave.
When we don't know whether the other party likes it and gives up directly, it will be a pity after all, to take the initiative to send messages to the other party, take the initiative to get close to each other, and take the initiative to try to see, we can also know what the other party really means.
At any time, taking the initiative is never a shameful thing, but it is just very brave.
And when we take the initiative, if the other party is responding to us well, of course, this is very good, we just have to continue, and if the other party does not care about us at all, at this time, no matter how much we like, we actually do not have to be silly and insist.
Not replying to the message is actually not to like it.
Think about it, even if we are passive by nature and do not know how to take the initiative, but when the people we care about take the initiative for ourselves, we will certainly not ignore it and take it seriously.
Instead of still looking very cold, we will only be particularly enthusiastic and give each other a very good reply.
We can't take the initiative to establish some relationships, but at least, we don't want to miss some people who take the initiative to approach us, and we like and want to come and go from the heart.
When it comes to feelings, we will be like this, and the people we like are actually the same.
The person we take the initiative to contact, if the other party really has us in their hearts, but anyone who likes us a little, after receiving our message and feeling our initiative, he will definitely not directly pretend not to see, directly do not give any reply.
He will understand very well that our initiative, that is to show goodwill, he will cherish our initiative very much, will also take the initiative to find a topic, start to take the initiative to find us, a look that wants to chat with us, eager for each other to be able to go further.
Just like we don't want to easily miss a person we like, someone who likes us, we don't want to miss us easily.
Only a person who does not need our initiative at all, does not want to have any relationship with us, and has no meaning to us, he will not reply to us, and use his own reply to express his rejection.
Wishful thinking, just give up in time.
For a person to take the initiative, what we desire, of course, is that the other party has the same mood as us.
However, there are some times when, although we ourselves are quite good, we are more attentive, and we do find a good opening statement, but the other party does not seem to feel it at all, that is, we are unwilling to come to us.
Just kept clearing up the relationship, afraid that we would rely on him, but also just a gesture of resistance, even unwilling to reply to the message.
Anyway, at the very least politeness, he was not willing to keep it at all, and he didn't bother to tell us a word of refusal.
If it is in a person's body, we obviously feel each other's dislike, there is no possibility for each other, we really do not have to keep going to each other, but also keep sending each other various messages.
Don't doubt yourself, it's not that the way we greet each other is wrong, the words we say are not right, it's just that the other party is not interested in us, so they will send us messages in the past, and they are not interested at all.
Since from the attitude of the other party, we can see that between us and that person, we are just one-sided likes, and then, we will stop bothering each other, just take back our likes and quit each other's lives.
Feelings are a matter for two people, and we have to fight for what we want, but we also have to respect each other's ideas.
Take the initiative, there is nothing to regret.
It is indeed a bit frustrating to pluck up the courage to take the initiative and end up not the ending you want.
However, at least we have taken the initiative, at least we have a clear understanding of what the other party means to us.
Like a person, can be the desired result, although it is worth rejoicing, even if not, this like can be clear, clear, this is actually a very intolerable thing.
It doesn't matter, anyway, their own likes, but just sprouted, not very deep, it doesn't matter, can work hard for their own likes, can see the attitude of the other party, this is actually still worth rejoicing.
Love, not afraid of people who like, do not like themselves at all, afraid of themselves when they like each other, obviously can do something, obviously can work hard for their own love, but they did not do anything.
In the days to come, I have always been particularly worried about this, and I will never appear too much in our minds and affect our future. I can't let go, and I always regret it.
And to be able to see each other's dislikes, we are sad for a while, but we can also quickly get out.
Thoroughly, we can really pull each other out of our hearts, let this page really turn, let the other party from now on
If you take the initiative and do not reply to the message, then forget it.
There is no need to keep sending to the other party, there is no need to keep asking the other party why they don't reply.
In the adult world, many things never have to be said so bluntly, silence is the answer, and not replying is not like.
If you can't receive a reply, just silently withdraw the dialog box, silently delete the dialog box, don't keep thinking, don't keep looking, and then, also begin to say goodbye to each other silently in your heart.
That guy, he doesn't like us, that really doesn't affect anything.
Our life will still be very brilliant, and our future will still be infinitely beautiful.
He doesn't reply to us, there are always people who will reply to every one, and every one will reply very seriously.
Text/Tan Meng
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