"My sister has a pair of cute tiger teeth, and her big hand holds my little hand to accompany me to grow up..."
Many years ago, singer Jia Shengqiang sang a song "Sister" about the strong family affection between him and his sister, which made people move. Today, when this song appears in everyone's field of vision again, although the times have changed, the touch has not changed.
Many netizens can't sit still when they hear this song.
Some of them share the touching past with their sisters, but more netizens sigh: other people's brothers are younger brothers, and their own brothers are a "scourge", "ancestor" and "gold medal thug".
This remark resonated with many netizens, who told their stories of being "abused" by their brothers.
Some people say that the younger brother is nearly one meter nine, tall and strong, but he is less than one meter six, thin and small, and his combat effectiveness is several levels worse, not to mention fighting, pushing can not move.
Some people say that the younger brother, who can be lifted up by his own hand, has now grown into a taekwondo black belt, and can kick himself away with one kick.
Some people say that although there is not much difference in the size of their brother and they have not learned any fighting, their brother's strength is ridiculously large, and he is not an opponent at all.
Others say that their brother will only cause trouble for himself, adding to his already unhappy life.
Many netizens are looking forward to life without brothers and sisters.
In order to strengthen the persuasiveness, some people also sent out a video of themselves and their grown-up brother "dueling", that scene, not at all a heads-up and duel, but a dish abuse, is a full-level gangster experiencing life.
In the video, a woman is in a wonderful duel with her brother.
It can be seen that the sister is still quite sure of victory, after all, she is three years older than her brother, and these three years of food are not for free, not to mention the blood suppression, which is an innate talent.
But the younger brother was quite dismissive of this, and he even directly gave his sister two hands and put her hands in a pocket posture to meet the upcoming challenge.
Although the sister was very imposing, in only one round, the sister was "knocked off" and lost.
This video fully proves one thing: in the face of absolute strength, there is no so-called "blood suppression".
According to her sister, when she was a child, she often bullied her brother and made her cry. Later, when my brother grew up, the two of them stopped fighting and making trouble.
This time when I went out with my brother, my hands itched, and I wanted to "fight" with my brother again, but I didn't expect my brother to directly give myself a dismount, and I put myself down at once.
Sure enough, beating your brother must be early, late can not fight, there is no chance.
Of course, the "beating brother" mentioned here does not mean really fighting, but jokingly playing and making trouble, the next hand must be heavy, we must be clear about how much strength we have, we must be clear about the physical endurance of the other party, don't really beat the other party or "crash" out.
And from the video, it is not difficult to see that the relationship between the sisters and brothers is still quite good. Where are the two brothers and sisters who don't fight? Hitting is kissing, scolding is love. After all, how can the two brothers and sisters who have a bad relationship still fight and make trouble, and there are talk and laughter.
What sister doesn't love her brother, and what brother doesn't love her sister? And this is not a kind of happiness.
Although the children play and make trouble, there may not necessarily be any problems, but this is a big problem for parents, the children at home are always noisy is not a solution, maybe one day the hand is not light and heavy, causing any serious consequences can be too late.
Moreover, educating children itself is a compulsory course for parents for a lifetime, and no parent wants to see their children often contradict each other.
So, as parents, how should we reconcile the contradictions between children? What problems should we pay attention to in the usual education process?
First of all, let children learn to respect each other.
It is a crucial step to solve the various conflicts between children and let them learn to respect each other.
Parents should educate their brothers and sisters to know how to be humble, and those who can make their younger siblings humble, but also let the older brothers and sisters understand their responsibilities, so that they can learn to take the initiative to take care of their younger siblings when their parents are not there.
It is also necessary to educate younger brothers and sisters to respect their older brothers and sisters, not to do whatever they want because they are young, and to use their young age as their shield.
Secondly, when there is a conflict between children, parents must ask the reason, but also to reward and punish clearly.
Contradictions between children are inevitable, at this time, parents must not push all the responsibility to the older brothers and sisters as soon as there is a contradiction, must ask the ins and outs of the matter, if the younger brothers and sisters make mistakes, they cannot condone it.
The clear distinction of reward and punishment can make the child's mind have the idea that the parents are never biased, which not only helps to coordinate the contradictions between the children, but also has a good effect on the parents to establish their own image and prestige in the child's mind.
Finally, if there is a conflict between the children, the parents should give the two people the opportunity to take the initiative to reconcile and guide the two to understand the importance of the other party to themselves.
In fact, for children, going with the flow is also a good way.
First of all, the two people who have just finished arguing and making a conflict are persuaded to open up, so that both of them can calm down. For the next period of time, the two will look at each other unfavorably and do not communicate with each other.
But before long, the two sides will be reconciled again. At this time, it is a good opportunity for parents to educate their children.
Although you may often hate your siblings now, one day you will find that it is such a happy thing to have a sibling in your own life, to accompany each other to grow up, to help each other in life, to encourage each other, to support each other.
He will bring us a unique affection and let us feel that unique happiness.
Affection is like a glass of old wine, the older it is, the more fragrant it is.
I hope you can cherish the affection you have in the future.
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