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Sometimes, a love that has not yet had time to start often encounters some shackles that constrain the pace of love. Some people choose to retreat when they encounter a bondage, but when they turn around, they are wrong

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Sometimes, a love that has not yet had time to start often encounters some shackles that constrain the pace of love. Some people choose to retreat when they encounter a bondage, but when they turn around, they miss a lifetime.

Yang Dai and Qian Zhongshu both developed a good feeling for each other at the same time, so they both asked Sun Lingjian about each other's situation. Sun Lingguan is a good friend of Fei Xiaotong, and he knows that Fei Xiaotong has always liked Yang Dai, perhaps in order to help his friend achieve his long-cherished wish, he lied in front of the two of them.

Sun Lingjian told Yang Dai that Qian Zhongshu was engaged; he also told Qian Zhongshu that Yang Dai already had a boyfriend. The "boyfriend" in his mouth must be referring to Fei Xiaotong.

If you must write a footnote for love, it should be "in the name of love, desperate to run for love." Yang Dai and Qian Zhongshu did it, and in the face of Sun Lingjian's lies, neither of them gave up lightly, but desperately wanted to hear the real answer from each other's mouths.

One beautiful night in the spring breeze, Yang Dai received a letter from Qian Zhong, which asked her to meet in front of the Guyue Hall. Yang Dai appeared as promised, and Dun Hou Qian Zhongshu saw Yang Dai without any greetings, without a single rhetoric, and the first sentence was directly: "I am not engaged." ”

A sweet smile appeared on Yang Chen's face, she had never felt like this before, yes, this was love. In response, she told Qian Zhongshu: "I don't have a boyfriend either. Two such simple opening sentences announce the beginning of a most beautiful love. They spent sixty years together, brewing the most romantic things in a dull life.

The appearance of lovers stunned each other's sky. The most difficult thing in the world is to be happy with each other and stay together for a lifetime, only in this way can it be called a complete life. The most loved ones accompany each other, together interpret life into what they want, a porridge and a meal, a tea and a soup, holding hands plainly through the years, understanding and pity as a gift to each other. Any loneliness will turn into gentleness in such a love, and once such a love is possessed, no wealth can be exchanged.

Yang Dai told Fei Xiaotong about her boyfriend for the first time, she disapproved of ambiguity the most, hoping to explain it clearly and let Fei Xiaotong be dead to himself. However, Fei Xiaotong did not seem to be reconciled, and came to Tsinghua to talk to Yang Dai, believing that he had known her for the longest time and was most qualified to be her boyfriend.

However, Yang Dai clearly told Fei Xiaotong that it was okay to be friends, but it could only be a friend, and there would be no further development. Fei Xiaotong finally died, although disappointed, but also helpless, still maintained friendship with Yang Dai.

Ambiguity is the biggest "killer" in love, in the name of love, hurting everyone who has love in their hearts. In the face of love, ambiguity is also a temptation, which can easily break the trust and security in love, and let people gradually lose themselves in the illusion created by ambiguity.

Since he decided to be only a friend, Yang Dai insisted that it was a lifetime. Since Qian Zhongshu's death, Fei Xiaotong has often visited Yang Dai, and Yang Dai still politely said: "The stairs are difficult to walk, so you don't have to 'go up in spite of the difficulties'." Sometimes, only by accepting Fei Xiaotong's visits, Yang Dai would also feel that she was rude. In order to achieve courtesy exchanges, Yang Dai will also visit Fei Xiaotong, but it will not exceed twenty minutes at most, a few simple greetings, and then turn around and say goodbye.

How many women yearn for love at first sight, fantasizing that on a sunny afternoon, the other party wore their favorite clothes and appeared in front of them. Such love is indeed romantic, but it may not be solid.

Yang Dai never yearns for love at first sight, and she firmly believes that her feelings for Qian Zhongshu are not love at first sight. Because before they met, she had heard of the name of this Qinghua talent countless times, and her good feelings had already arisen.

When it comes to talent, it always comes to mind the word "dancing". But Yang Dai first saw Qian Zhongshu, but wearing a green cloth coat, a pair of cloth shoes at his feet, and a pair of large old-fashioned glasses made people not think of the word "dancing" at all.

But his thin and bookish appearance is "azure but deep" in Yang Chen's eyes, which is true love, regardless of appearance, regardless of any additional conditions, and only a feeling between the eyebrows.

In fact, Qian Zhongshu could not say why he fell in love with Yang Dai at a glance, even in the face of his daughter Qian Zhen's "persecution", he could only say "I think your mother is different". Exactly where "different" it is, he does not seem to be able to say too much.

Indeed, the person who truly loves standing in front of you is a different existence, and as long as it appears, it will always be rooted in your heart.

Even romantic love will change under the catalytic action of the years and evolve into a more prosaic family affection, at which time, the glue-like passion will eventually fall off and be replaced by a long stream of happiness.

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