The day before yesterday, I was suddenly asked by a beautiful woman who had known me for several years, and she asked me a few questions: First, how come I haven't talked about a girlfriend in several years of divorce, which is a bit strange, saying that I want time

The day before yesterday, I was suddenly asked by a beautiful woman who had known me for a few years, and she asked me a few questions:

First, how to divorce for several years how not to talk about a girlfriend, a little strange, said I want time to have time, out of the house is also convenient.

Second, what kind of woman do you want to find in your mind is suitable for you.

Third, what plans and plans do you have in the future, and what kind of life you want to live?

Fourth, say to find or mouth to find the heart, because I have never seen me take the initiative of anyone.

Seriously, I really can't answer it at once, because I've never seriously thought about it.

From her several consecutive questions, I seriously thought about the following points:

First, my divorce road is also sad and bumpy, a pure layman and the other party's professionals have dealt with each other several times in court, only to finally leave the success, the heart of the marriage is both desired and fearful, contradictions are mixed, in the eyes of outsiders I work free and convenient to go out, in fact, I have always been a dedicated person, although the more the war is more defeated, but in the depression of the environment I also pay more attention to work as the head,

Second, marriage is not poverty alleviation, no longer want to be the stepfather of others, nor do you need people to be stepmothers and nannies, in my mind women must have sincerity, love, and conscience. Don't be sloppy, there is excessive vanity and comparison, good gambling and spending people, the most important mutual like is the best, but I still prefer to be slightly fat and round, big round face, tiger back bear waist elephant legs are okay, do not face the face of the flesh and evil on the line, the so-called phase from the heart, blessing, fuxiang, most of them refer to this kind of person, said through a family's feng shui is a woman. Thin affection, snake and scorpion heart, intrigue and conspiracy into the calculation of others most people have no flesh on their faces (please do not sit on the right seat) I do not mean to anyone, just a personal opinion.

Third, I am a person who has been divorced for the second time, the first time because I insisted on learning to do business, I did not quarrel with her and divorced, and after three months of divorce, I lost my original ecological family forever because I did not agree to her request for remarriage. After three years, they remarried because they had been trampled by the other party as a man's proper dignity and forced to divorce again.

So I still want to find someone who is also interested in doing business, just the so-called like-minded, three present, strong opposition to gathering less and leaving more, especially cold violence, the current marriage is fragile, all the way has been my pursuit, how to be middle-aged, with passion and motivation, the same can dream come true. If the two people work together, the same profit can be cut off, if the time is ripe, buy a small house that belongs to the two people's common beauty and exquisite or rent a farmhouse around Foshan, it does not need to be too big, warm, live in the city, return to the countryside, visit the motherland's great rivers and mountains or fishing rivers and ponds to live a pastoral life (in addition, I am also very interested in aquaculture) This is also part of the future planning

Fourth, frankly speaking, in the next few years, I have indeed not really moved to find it, a lonely and lonely person is actually nothing, mainly for the future to make plans, as the saying goes, the sky has unpredictable storms, people have bad luck these are not artificially controllable, I have seen many lonely widows and elderly people cold and hot when there is no one around to carry water. It is better to have a companion, and it is better to have a companion, and there is no demand for fate, not to mention that there must be a fate. Besides, I haven't met anyone who likes each other at the moment.