A while ago, some netizens posted a video of the father inviting guests to dinner, but the 12-year-old son secretly paid the bill, which moved countless people to tears.
In a restaurant in Xinmin City, Shenyang, several men are raising glasses to drink. During this period, a little boy who looked to be in his 10s took advantage of the fact that adults were not paying attention, and used the bathroom as an excuse to secretly go to the cash register to pay the bill.
After drinking and eating, a man stood up shakily, pulled out his mobile phone to pay the bill, but was told by the waiter that the child had checked out. The man showed an expression of disbelief, and after repeatedly confirming with the waiter, he staggered outside.
Suddenly, the boss and his wife stopped the man and told him, "Your son's school bag has fallen." The man looked back, saw his son's school bag, did not know what he thought, and suddenly lay on the chair and cried.
It turns out that the man is the father of the child, and the child knows that the father and the mother have just divorced, and feels that the father is very "difficult", so he uses the pocket money he has saved to pay the bill, hoping to reduce the burden on the father.
The child saw his father's embarrassed look, worried and went to the ground to gently comfort him, and when he saw that his father did not respond, he stood quietly and waited. After a while, the man looked up, wiped a handful of tears, and wrapped his arms around the child's shoulders. When the child saw the situation, he felt that he was busy carrying the bag on his body. In this way, a large and a small figure disappeared into the night...
After watching the video, many netizens said that their tears could not be stopped, and they were touched by sensible children.
Children love you a lot more than you think
We always sing the praises of the greatness of fatherly and maternal love, complaining that we have given everything for our children, but forgetting that our children are also silently giving back to us. The time and emotion we pour into the child, the child sees in the eyes, remembers in the heart.
Children's love for their parents comes from instinct, and they can always inadvertently poke us.
"Mom, if I can't cure it, you'll have another child!"
Can't believe it, it's a suicide note from a 9-year-old girl. Her name is Li Xinyi, and she is a child with leukemia. In order to treat her, Li Xinyi's parents have spent hundreds of thousands of dollars. As ordinary migrant workers, the cost of treatment is undoubtedly astronomical for them. However, even if it is difficult, they have not thought of giving up treatment. One day, Li Xinyi's mother packed up her things and accidentally found a suicide note written by her daughter. In the suicide note, Li Xinyi said that if she could not cure herself, she would let her mother have another child. If she had a daughter, she would have come back to her mother.
Even if you are in the dark, you must do your best to give your mother the last light. Young children already know how to take care of their mothers, and they can't help but burst into tears.
Sometimes, we always think that children are still young and don't understand anything. As everyone knows, children know everything, and they love us far more than we think.
Parents and children, nourishing each other is the truth of love
Every child is an angel sent by Heaven to save his parents.
As parents, we always feel like we are the victims, living in a chicken feather. Parenting is obstructive and difficult, and sometimes it is not understood by children. In fact, we should be a little more tolerant and a little more patient. A child's love for his parents is unquestionable, and may just not know how to express it, or we ignore it.
In the case of tutoring children with homework, few parents will hold back from losing their temper. Friend Xiaohui is like this, every time he tutors his son to write homework, he can't help but roar from the Hedong lion, sometimes his temper comes up, "stupid" and "how stupid" and other words are not less said.
Once, she checked her son's language homework and found that her son's essay "My Mother" described herself like this: "Although my mother is very fierce, every time she helps me write my homework, she thinks of a tigress, but I understand that she is for my own good." In my heart, she is the best mother. The friend said that after reading it, he was touched and ashamed, touched by the fact that his son's love for himself was so sincere and direct, ashamed that he had hurt his son's heart, and did nothing but was forgiven.
As parents, we really have to thank our children. The love of a parent can be distributed to the child or to others. But the child's love is given to the dearest and most beloved parents without hesitation. A child's love for his parents is natural, selfless, and pure. Therefore, even if life is hard and tired, we must not forget that there is a small figure behind us, supporting us unconditionally and accompanying us through all difficulties.
Your child deserves a lot of recognition
There is a short film on the Internet called "Your Child, Worthy of Great Affirmation", I don't know if you have seen it?
In the short film, mothers rate their children out of ten. Most mothers feel that their children are not so perfect, some are too naughty, some do not love to be clean, some have bad grades... In the end, the children basically only have seven or eight points, and some even less than five points.
So, how do kids rate their moms? Without exception, all the children gave their mothers a perfect score. Some children said, "My mom is beautiful. Some children said: "My mother cooks for me every day, which is very hard." Some children said, "I don't want my mom to get old." ”
Seeing the scores given to them by their children, the mothers were wet. They don't know that they are so perfect in the minds of their children!
When it comes to their children, most parents are like the mothers in the short film, the first thing that comes to mind is the shortcomings of their children, and sometimes they even infinitely magnify the shortcomings and feel that their children are useless. However, in the eyes of children, there are almost no imperfect parents. No matter how "bad", all parents are deeply loved by their children, and this love is unique and no one can replace.
Perhaps, they are born without knowing anything, and they want you to teach them by hand. But loving you is an innate instinct. It is their arrival that makes us full of enthusiasm for the world, full of expectations for life, and full of hope for the future. It is their presence that makes our hearts more determined and makes us more courageous and stronger.
Write at the end:
After becoming a parent, in the face of the pressure and trivialities of life, the heart will become particularly hard, but fortunately, there are our children, with a hot heart, warm every cold night, teach us how to love, to move.