Uncle Lover's Introduction:
Many married people are like birds trapped in cages, always wanting to go out, seemingly for freedom, but in fact still do not live to understand. When a person really lives and understands, what comes to mind is not freedom, not to escape, but to face everything bravely and positively.
There are many unhappy families, and indeed there are many people in this world who live together unhappy, and many people want to escape, but in the end it is still difficult to escape the shackles of marriage. In fact, it is not marriage that is shackled, but that you bind yourself to a confined space.
The happiness of every family is related to the family members, but the husband is the most important role. You will find that many unhappy marriages are caused by husbands. Maybe it wasn't intentional, but they didn't know how to handle the relationship either. In fact, the happiness of the current family is very simple, that is, to simplify things, that is, to consider each other more.
People are selfish, and husbands need to understand that
Many men, like the Virgin, want to be a peacemaker when they encounter some things in the family, but the handling of family relations is so simple.
After men get married, they need to understand that human nature is selfish, and the role of the husband is to make decisions after understanding human nature. In the handling of family relations, do not always be perfunctory, the correct approach should be to meet each other's interests and common needs, so as to reduce the incidence of contradictions.
Regardless of whether the women in the family have conflicts because of health and housework problems or financial problems, men must start from each other's interests, and if they really can't do it, they will sacrifice their own interests, anyway, in the end, the happiness that men get will feel that it is very worthwhile.
People will eventually be grateful and need their husbands to become a good bridge
Although the happiness of a family is inseparable from everyone, the core of everyone is the role of husband. If the role of husband is done well, it is really necessary to avoid a lot of contradictions. In life, men must give their wives a sense of happiness, do not always burden the affairs of the family, the husband must be able to take responsibility to be able to make the family harmonious.
When there is a problem in the family, men must actively face and solve it. Women are usually touched when they see their husband's attitude and actions. Even some things that were originally planned will become unconcerned because of each other's love.
People can be changed, just as people who don't understand what gratitude is in the first place can learn to be grateful. How to make changes, you first let the other party feel, she will be willing to change.
People will be grateful after all, if men are always romantic and gentle enough, even if there are some small contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the wife will look at your face and not care so much. Because women will be grateful to your mother for nurturing such a caring you. Therefore, in the family, no matter what kind of relationship men handle, they should become a good bridge and make the communication between each other smoother, which will reduce a lot of family conflicts.
What women need is understanding and support, and husbands need to give women a sense of security
You understand the nature of marriage, you understand each other's needs, and you get comfortable with family relationships. The happiness of the family is inseparable from men, not inseparable from men's work to make money, but inseparable from men's attitude.
What women need in marriage is understanding and support, whether it is a wife or a mother or other family member. If you can go through this center to deal with things, everything will become very simple.
Uncle Epilogue:
In general, marriage is not simple, but the role of husband can make the family relationship better, the key is still in the man's approach and attitude towards the family.
If the husband is reasonable, the daughter-in-law will not be bad, and if the husband is good at handling things, other family members will naturally not be embarrassed by anyone. The happiness of a family still needs to rely on everyone to change and maintain together, a little more tolerance and love for each other, more sincerity and understanding, everyone will be happier.