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The family of 4 children, the youngest loves to study animals and insects, the eldest fantasizes about being a big writer every day...
There are no particularly ups and downs, but the show has gained a large number of fans since it aired in 2016, including the Queen of England.
This is the British drama "Dreher's Family" with an extremely healing style.
4 children, none of them worry
To draw the point, the original work of this drama is based on real people and real events, and many of the educational details that appear in the play are also personally experienced by the author.
In "Dreher's Family", the husband died, the mother Louisa pulled 4 children with a relatively large age gap alone, life was tight, the youngest child did not listen to classes at school and was bullied by the school, Mrs. Dreher decided to take the family to Greece to settle.
Because they had no money, they could only afford to rent the dilapidated houses on the island that had fallen into disrepair, the unfurnished kind.
The blue sea, the lovely creatures, the elegance of England, the idyllic style, a nomad of the soul, bring just the right comfort.
Unlike ordinary family dramas, the screenwriter did not arrange a good child for Mrs. Dreher, who was obedient and sensible, on the contrary, her 4 children were all extremely personality, which was very unsettling.
The eldest son has a dream of being a writer, but he likes to drink heavily and loves to provoke the girls on the island.
The second son belongs to the typical iron man, who almost shot and injured people until he suffered a big loss.
The third daughter, Marg, is a love brain, does not want to work, and only wants to carry out romantic "early love".
The younger son's biggest hobby is to keep animals in captivity, build ponds for turtles at home, and raise several dogs, which makes the family who are not rich even worse.
However, the youngest child eventually became a famous naturalist and created the original work of the play, which is the Greek Trilogy.
The life of a single mother in a foreign country will obviously be hindered, and although none of the children are worried, they are all growing up later.
The eldest novel is published; the second brother becomes brave and sensible, learning to help her mother with business and taking care of the house; the daughter gradually changes from a nervous little girl to a good girl who knows a sense of responsibility.
Authentic interpretation of unconditional love
We all know that as parents, the primary role is to give "unconditional love" to their children.
Admire single mothers, brave, optimistic, simple, kind, have an enlightened view of education, although life is difficult, but always full of elegant joy and hope.
Although the four children broke her heart, she did her best to give the children a loving environment to grow up.
At the beginning of the story, they are still struggling to survive in Britain, the younger son is reluctant to listen to the class, the teacher asks the mother to go to school, and the meeting is a criticism of her child.
Instead of turning around and blaming the child, the mother questioned the teacher's approach to education on the spot.
Why would parents and children be recommended to watch "The Drehers" together?
Because of the moment of collapse and madness in the play, every parent will feel the same.
When seeing the husband's portrait smashed by a falling roof;
When food and clothing are a problem and children are still rebellious and disobedient;
When the second son does something bad with the bad guy;
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Mrs. Dreher had a hard time asking the doctor to find a job for her daughter, and as a result, the daughter saw that the patient either felt nauseous or fainted, and then transferred to manage the file, she actually used the height of the patient to sort the file, and resigned within a week.
The younger son is even more worrying, because he likes nature, runs around every day, and ends up meeting a middle-aged and elderly man who looks evil and suspects of being a murderer.
This mother from the explicit prohibition, to the end to understand that everything is a misunderstanding, there are really several twists and turns in the middle.
Even her relatives traveled thousands of miles from England, accusing her of not educating her children well and threatening to bring them back to England for a "normal education."
How did Mrs. Dreher do it?
It is to touch the child with unconditional love.
In her daily relationship with several unreliable children, she has a pattern - asking rather than demanding.
The biggest difference between a request and a request is that I ask you to do anything, and you can refuse, and I accept your refusal.
For example, when I first arrived in Greece, my mother said that she had no money and did not want to rent a car, the children vetoed it with action, and the few obedient mothers still followed the children to the car.
The requirements are with anticipation. If you don't do what I ask, I'll be angry, disappointed, and frustrated.
Similar to this small educational detail can be seen everywhere in the play, this play can really be said to be a good model for learning unconditional love.
The most seen in the play is the mother's embrace of the child, no matter how many outrageous things the child has done, want to find her praise, want to share joy with her, hurt outside, lost love, etc., the most is the mother's hug, understanding and encouragement.
Such a mother must make the child feel that "whether I am excellent or bad, my mother loves me."
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As parents, we hope that our children will grow up healthy, and we hope to help children improve bad habits and cultivate good habits in the process of their children's growth.
However, the child's world is different from that of adults, and parents need to look at their children's problems through the phenomenon to see the fundamentals, and "rectifying the chaos" needs to start from the fundamentals, rather than simply "changing on the spot".
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