In Germany, there is a story that circulates:
At the train station, a wrenchman is walking to his post to pull a turnout for a slowly coming train.
At this time, at the other end of the track, another train came into the station from the opposite direction. If he does not pull the turnaround in time, the two trains will collide.
At this moment, he inadvertently looked back and found his son playing at the other end of the track, and the train that began to enter the station was on the track.
Whether to rescue his son or to pull a fork in the road to avoid a disaster -- he has too little time to choose.
At that moment, he majestically shouted to his son, "Lie down! At the same time, rushed over and pulled the turnout.
In the blink of an eye, the train entered the predetermined track.
On the other side, the train also roared past.
The passengers on the train had no idea that their lives had been a thousand and ones, nor did they know that a small life was lying on the edge of the railroad tracks.
The train was roaring by, and the child was not hurt in the slightest.
That scene happened to be ingested into the camera by a reporter who had passed by since then.
Soon, a German television station paid a high salary for the "Ten Second Thrilling Shots" campaign.
Many journalists flocked to this end, and the solicitation became the focus of attention for a while. Among the many entries, this shot called "Lying Down" won the championship with an absolute advantage.
On the night the winning work aired on television, most people sat in front of the TV to watch the set, initially waiting, curious or talking, and 10 seconds later, tears in every pair of eyes.
It is no exaggeration to say that Germany was silent for 10 minutes after that 10 seconds.
People guessed that the wrench must have been a very good man.
Later, people gradually learned that the wrench was an ordinary person. His only virtue was his loyalty to his duties and not missing a second at work.
What is even more unexpected is that his son is a mentally handicapped child.
He said he had told his son over and over again, "There are so few jobs you can do when you grow up, and you have to have something that is outstanding." ”
The son could not understand his father's words and was still stupid, but in the second when his life was at stake, he "fell down".
This was the only action he understood and did best when he played a war game with his father.
When I first read this story, I was shocked.
The first thing that was touched was the choice of this father in that moment, and I believe that few fathers in the world can make such a choice in such a critical moment.
Secondly, it was the child who, in such a critical moment, obeyed his father's orders.
Of course, you may think that the child is scared silly, the child is mentally retarded, and he will only do it.
However, it was this simplest movement that his father taught him, which he learned and did very well, that saved his life.
"Listen to your parents, keep them in mind, and then do them well" sounds sparse and ordinary, but how many children can really do it and implement it for a lifetime?
The most important thing is, as parents, have we ever reflected on how many words we tell our children every day, how many of them are really useful to children? How many of us lead by example?
Many of our parents —)
Children are not allowed to play games on the Internet, but they always brush their mobile phones; educate children to be filial to their parents, whether they have done it to their elderly parents and face again; I hope that children will learn well every day, but they are muddy in Korean dramas and mahjong;
Many parents educate their children like this: just because mom and dad didn't study well when they were young, they don't show up now, so now I hope you can make up for your parents' regrets and read well...
So there's --
Students because of poor grades, by the parents scolded stupid, then I can only say that there are three kinds of stupid birds in the world, one is the first to fly, one is tired and not flying, the third is the most annoying, they can't fly, they lay an egg in the nest, and the next generation wants to fly hard.
We often say that behind every child, there is a family standing. Behind those "other people's children", standing are "other people's parents".
We who hope to become a dragon, the first thing we must do well is ourselves.