In the process of children's growth, family education has a significant impact on children's growth, and the education methods of different families directly affect children's future growth. Many times, parents' education methods are improper, causing indelible pain to their children.
In educating children, 6 bottom lines cannot be lost.
1. Be a person with education
Before making children excellent, parents should first teach their children to learn to be educated, and parenting is a person's business card, teaching children to learn to cultivate in daily life.
For example: to say hello when meeting, to hang thanks on the lips, not to move other people's things casually, not to discuss others behind their backs, to listen carefully when others speak, and not to make a big fuss in public. In fact, the highest realm of ostentatious wealth is not just educated!
2, life to be independent
Parents will often see the scene of the child crying and touching the nose and shedding tears, all because the child has no independence.
Parents are always afraid of their children's suffering, always want to protect their children at all times, but never think that letting children be independent is the key to solving all problems.
Parents who do not teach their children independence are the most ignorant and cruel. Only by allowing children to be independent can children grow up the fastest and go further. Because only by being independent can a child's life go more exciting.
3, the right thing to people to have a belly
Teach children to have a belly, others have no obligation to be good to you, others are good to you, you should be full of gratitude, not good for you, that is the behavior of others, the larger your belly, the greater the energy you can get, do not ask for more.
Belly and compassion are important and have a decisive effect on the differences in a child's later life and circumstances.
4. Keep your body healthy
The body is the cost, exercise needs to be persistent, only with a strong physique, only qualified to talk about learning, make a living.
Therefore, children must develop good living habits from now on. Go to bed early and get up early, insist on exercising; often participate in outdoor activities and sports; maintain a regular schedule; stay away from junk food; don't indulge in the Internet, hurt your eyes and hurt your brain.
5. Abide by the time and keep good faith
The essence of abiding by time and punctuality is to practice commitments, is the most basic integrity, and it is necessary to make people believe in their words and deeds. Punctuality is also a basic aristocratic character, thieves are not punctual, and nobles are not late.
6, right people, not right things
For example, when the child's test is not ideal, many parents will accuse the child, saying that the child is too stupid, and all the mistakes are attributed to the child, ignoring the objective reasons.
In fact, this is a common problem of parents, as long as there is a problem, all the mistakes are pushed on the child. This will make children less and less confident and less like to learn.
In educating children, parents have no bottom line, does not mean that society has no bottom line, parents do not teach their children, sooner or later society will educate him fiercely, do not wait until then to regret it.
The most unforgivable person in the world is the child, the most unforgivable is the parent, where the bottom line of the parent is, where the height of the child's future is.