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What many women are best at is self-deception, knowing that the other party does not love themselves, but they can still pretend to turn a blind eye.
In general, in the hearts of such women, most of them have two kinds of thoughts, one is that as long as they are around each other, it does not matter whether the other party loves themselves or not, and the other is that they feel that they can move each other, sooner or later, one day, men will see their own good and throw themselves into their arms.
In fact, whether a person loves you or not, you can feel it, and this feeling is quite real and accurate, you don't have to lie to yourself, let alone force yourself.
In this kind of unequal love, women are doomed to be hurt, but some women think that if men really don't love themselves, how can they be so considerate of themselves.
But in fact, when a man has someone outside, he still comes home to be considerate of his wife, for only one reason.
Zhang Feng never thought that such a thing would happen to him, although some of the brothers around him betrayed their families.
But most of them have a bad relationship with their wives, they quarrel all day long, and the distance from separation is just a piece of paper, but he is different, he and his wife have a very good relationship, and the two have not quarreled once after marriage.
The wife belongs to the small family jasper type of woman, very gentle and understanding, usually many things have to rely on Zhang Feng, and he is also willing to act as his wife's knight, protecting her behind.
Until the emergence of Lele, everything was changed, and let him know that the feelings in this world are really complicated beyond imagination.
Le Le was a good friend of a colleague, and after a colleague's dinner singing, she was called over and just sat next to Zhang Feng, and the two met in this way.
At first, they were just ordinary friends, maybe not even friends, just chatting when they were bored, and they didn't even meet once in private.
Later, Zhang Feng wanted to do some part-time work to make money, and it just so happened that Lele also had this idea, and the two liked to play games, so they partnered together to invest in a small page game.
Although the money invested is not much, it is only tens of thousands of yuan, but it is a big number for Zhang Feng, but the result is not satisfactory, and zhang Feng has been depressed for a long time.
Not long after, Le Le came to him again, saying that this time he had found a reliable project and wanted to pull Zhang Feng into the company, at that time Zhang Feng had no money, but Le Le did not mind, saying that he could contribute.
Since then, the two have worked hard together again, and this time Zhang Feng has earned money, he knows that this time thanks to Lele, and he is grateful to her.
In order to express his gratitude, he invited Lele to dinner, and after three rounds of drinking, the deer in his heart collided, and the time they got along, let him gradually discover Lele's goodness, she was a completely different woman from his wife.
Compared with his wife, LeLe is more like a big woman, able to accompany Zhang Feng to fight together, give him encouragement and help, and Lele also has a different kind of affection for him, so this night the two naturally got together.
Although Zhang Feng regretted it after waking up, some things were difficult to end once they began, but he did not want to divorce his wife because he loved her.
So he had to turn his guilt into a good feeling for his wife, often buy her gifts, take her out on a trip, and give her a happy and happy life as much as possible.
It seems that this is a common disease of most men, once they do something sorry for their wives outside, when they go back, they will redouble their kindness to their wives, so as to make up for their guilt and allow them to continue to betray them with peace of mind.
For most women, love cannot be shared, so when they fall in love with someone, no matter how good a man they meet, they will not be moved by it.
But not all people's feelings are the same as everyone else's, and everyone's attitude towards feelings is different, so the way they deal with feelings is also different.
For some men, love cannot be shared, but a person's love is not the only one, they really love their wives, so they do not want to separate.
But at the same time, they are also really in love with other women, so they know that their behavior is wrong, and they still can't stop and continue to make mistakes.
Of course, it is not excluded that some men will choose to continue to maintain marriage only because they feel that the cost of divorce is too high.
No matter what type of man, they are all proper scumbags, because they are just making excuses for their selfishness.
In fact, none of them love, the only people they really love are themselves, and if they really understand the true meaning of love, they will not do anything to hurt women.
Good love is that you see the world through one person, and bad love is that you give up the whole world for one person.
But most women, in the end, chose the latter, so in the case that everyone still has a choice, we must see the status quo and do not let ourselves give up the whole world for a person who is not worth it.
As for the insatiable men, when they desecrate the sanctity of love, it means that they have been abandoned by love, and true love no longer belongs to them.