After a three-month business trip to Shanghai, I found three very strange phenomena in Shanghai:
1, Shanghai girls almost do not need a bride price when they get married
2, Shanghainese people are exquisite in all aspects
3. It is difficult for foreigners to integrate into shanghai life
Shanghai girls' growth environment is relatively rich, very favored by their parents, so Shanghai girls marry their parents will not think of a bride price, but in fact, the pressure to marry a Shanghai girl is still very large, thinking that after all, Shanghai house prices are still very high, no house to marry, the mother-in-law will not agree, after all, their daughters are their own favorite, and they do not want to marry and suffer.
Every aspect of Shanghainese life reflects refinement, especially in eating and buying vegetables. The amount of dishes in Shanghai is still relatively small, the plates and bowls are very small and exquisite, everything is a small one, and a noodle in the northeast can be eaten, but it is absolutely not in Shanghai. And it is indeed surprising to me that buying vegetables in Shanghai can be calculated according to the root, and you can also buy one by one, because I have never seen such a thing in the northern market.
Many people say that Shanghainese reject foreigners, but instead of saying so, it is difficult for foreigners to integrate into the lives of Shanghainese. Because even if you don't consider Shanghai's high consumption and high housing prices, foreigners can't stand the small details of daily life. Just like the local eating habits in Shanghai are sweet, most of the food is sweet, foreigners are not used to eating, Shanghainese is also very difficult to understand, and the communication of Shanghai locals we can't understand and can't integrate into.
![Cai Die, post-90s actor, Shanghai girl[fig]](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAP///wAAACwAAAAAAQABAAACAkQBADs=)