This year is a bit strange, Chinese New Year's Eve night ordinary students group has a few students to send red envelopes, the previously lively elite group in addition to a few blessings, actually no one issued red envelopes, some people also ran to the ordinary group to grab red envelopes. You should know that last year, there were still a few classmates who sent a few hundred yuan.
On the occasion of the 25th anniversary of the graduation of junior high school in 2016, we organized a classmate association and established 2 groups, 34 students in this year's student group (including the elite mentioned later), and 15 elites (working in major and medium-sized cities after the examination). The ordinary group was built by classmates who worked in my hometown of Haoshui County, but they set me as the leader of the group.
Chinese New Year's Eve night, my friend Zhigang when I was teaching in Haoshui County first sent a red envelope, he was engaged in home appliance maintenance, and when he was in his hometown, there were large and small problems with home appliances, which he came to solve for free. Zhi gang sent, I, the name of the group owner also want to express it, I sent 15 red envelopes, a total of 88 yuan. There are not many people who grab red packets, a total of 15 red packets and one no one grabs.
After the 2016 Alumni Association, the elite group of 15 people agreed to gather once a year in a city where a classmate was located, and successively came to Hangzhou, Yichang, Foshan, Shenzhen and other places. I made an appointment to "often go home to see" next time, and returned to Huangshi, which is close to Haoshui County, to meet, because among the 15 people, there are more students who work and live here.
Because of the epidemic that began in 2020, the reunion we often went home to see has not been completed. The heat in each traditional festival group in the past has gradually calmed down. The number of red envelopes has changed from the frequency of each traditional festival including Women's Day, Teacher's Day, and Valentine's Day to the status quo that no one even Chinese New Year's Eve night to send red envelopes.
Although I am a little lost, I am also a little less entangled. There was no problem in the past, and there was no problem with how much it was appropriate. There are big bosses in the group, senior engineers in popular industries, and elites in popular industries, some of whom are hundreds of yuan at a time, and some of whom send dozens of yuan. How much should I send as a regular teacher? Hair more, afraid that others will say that the face is swollen and fat, and that they will suffer from face to death; if they have less hair, they are afraid that others will say that they are stingy as teachers. So keep it in the middle every time.
Perhaps it is the gradual loss of interest in grabbing red envelopes, or perhaps after more than twenty years of not meeting, the heat of the first few years of long-term reunion, fewer and fewer people speak out in the group, and fewer and fewer people send red envelopes in the group to grab red envelopes. Everything gradually returned to calm!
#疫情下的第三个春节 #
