The basis of love and marriage is loyalty, trust and compromise, loyalty to love, trust in the lover, mutual sacrifice, this is a happy marriage.
For many women, sometimes the requirements for lovers are really low, only the other party can love themselves alone, and be loyal to themselves, and the rest can be indifferent.
Many women are not afraid that men have no money, too ordinary, only afraid that they are unfaithful to themselves, which is the last bottom line of love and marriage in everyone's heart, once touched, no matter how good the past will be destroyed.
And even this most basic and simple requirement, but not all men can do, if the two are reunited for a long time, in the man's first reaction to seeing a woman, it will expose whether he is loyal to you.
Liu Qing and her husband have always been separated from each other, but fortunately, the work place assigned by her husband is not far away, and it is not busy that the two can meet in two weeks, which is still quite convenient.
But unexpectedly, the arrival of the new crown epidemic has made the two have not seen each other for half a year, and they can only use video every day to relieve their lovesickness.
It is said that Xiao Beisheng is newly married, this time Liu Qing has a deep understanding, so long has not seen her husband, the thoughts in her heart are about to overflow.
It was hard to stay up until the epidemic improved, her husband could go home, Liu Qing happily stayed up all night, cleaned the house clean, and bought a lot of things that her husband loved to eat, ready to take him home the next day.
But when she met her husband, Liu Qing was a little disappointed, she thought that the two would hug each other fiercely like the lovers who had been reunited for a long time in the movie, but her husband did not seem to have such thoughts.
After gently hugging her for a while, he let go, and the whole person looked a little tired, and there was not much joy.
Liu Qing also thought that he was simply tired and did not pay too much attention to it, and when he returned home, he concentrated on making dinner.
This time when her husband returned, Liu Qing had planned everything early, what movies they were going to see, where to eat, where to go shopping.
But unexpectedly, on the third day, the husband said that he wanted to go back, he was going to come back for a week, and as a result, he only stayed for two days, Liu Qing was a little disappointed, she wanted her husband to take a leave of absence for two more days, but the husband said that the work there was too busy to get out of his body, and Liu Qing was not good to say anything more.
And her husband just left on the front foot, Liu Qing remembered that she still had 5 days of annual leave without taking a break, since her husband could not come back, then she could go over, so she decided to give her husband a surprise.
Soon she followed the address, found her husband's staff dormitory, saw her coming, her husband was very surprised, but there was still a little panic, Liu Qing felt very strange.
Then she knew the reason, just when she put her luggage in the cupboard, she actually saw women's clothes, knowing that her husband lived in a single dormitory, even if it was a multi-person dormitory, it was impossible to live with women.
Seeing what Liu Qing was holding in his hand, her husband wanted to explain, but in the end he only said the three words "I'm sorry", and in an instant Liu Qing had a thousand words to say, she wanted to scold her husband for a dog bloody head, wanted him to call the other party out, wanted to make a hysterical fight, but in the end she just threw her clothes on the ground and turned away.
It turned out that the real sadness could not be expressed, only the tears kept falling, telling her how painful the heart was at this moment.
In fact, from the attitude of her husband when he returned after many months, it is not difficult to see that he has changed his mind.
Because for normal people, the feelings between lovers are not seen for a day like three autumns apart, even if the miss is not so strong, but for a long time the two places are separated, and the miss of each other is incomparable.
Therefore, after meeting, most of them are happy with excitement, even if it is because of work, so that the body is a little tired, but in the moment of seeing the lover, all the hard work and fatigue will disappear.
Of course, for some people, it is an exception, because their own hearts are no longer on you, so naturally there will be no feeling of joy when they see you, and the attitude of the whole person will appear very flat, even a little indifferent.
And often can take away a man's heart is another woman, so in the absence of any unpleasant situation, when the long-term reunion of the man's attitude is indifferent, it is likely to be in love with others.
In this world, not everything has the opportunity to start all over again, especially the problem of feelings, once a rift appears, there is no way to go back to the past.
So even if you are not willing, you can't ignore the existence of the problem, don't fool yourself, feel that you can act as if nothing happened, which will only make you more miserable.
What you can't do, you have to learn to accept, letting go is also a way to love, love him at the same time, but also love yourself.
Where in this world is there absolute love and hate, giving and gaining, like to be together, do not like to separate, life is too short, no one should delay.
Seize every minute, live every day, and don't let people and things that have deteriorated rot in their own lives.