Every family will give the best to their children within their own means.
From the beginning of the baby, I have made sufficient preparations, hoping to produce a healthy and beautiful baby. Just like some pregnant women will eat a lot of grapes during pregnancy in order to give birth to a baby with big eyes.
But not everything goes smoothly, and some children are born with some minor circumstances. These flaws are not a pleasant thing for parents and will be worried.
The baby is born with a clear skeleton, the "toes" are longer than the fingers, and the mother does not dare to wear sandals for the baby
A pregnant mother gave birth to a cute baby, and the family was immersed in joy. The only thing that worries the mother is the child's toes. Your baby's toes are longer than his fingers, which looks incongruous and gives an abnormal feeling.
Therefore, the mother takes the child out and always wraps her feet tightly, afraid that the child will be ridiculed, and she does not dare to wear sandals for the baby in the summer.
Some acquaintances asked her why she always wore impermeable shoes for her children, and then the mother took off the children's shoes and socks, and the acquaintances understood the good intentions of the mother after looking at them.
In fact, as long as the child is healthy, even if there are some special places, it does not matter, parents must not only face these problems, but also let the child bravely accept the reality.
What should parents do when they encounter something similar?
1. First seek medical attention to confirm that your child is in good health
If you find that your child has some different situations, you must seek medical treatment in time to find out whether there are other diseases to ensure that your child is healthy.
The baby lacks trace elements, and the body will have different performances, such as vitamin D deficiency will form chicken breasts, "O" legs, "X" legs and so on. Serious sequelae can be avoided in time for discovery.
2. Recognize the child
The flaws of the child are not wanted by every parent to see, and since things have happened, parents should accept the child's situation with a calm mind.
If you have to dislike it, it will cause a great shadow on the child, so you must think in the good side and recognize the child.
3. Let your child accept themselves
Parents should play a good role in guiding the children to face the flaws on their faces. Needless to say, when the child asks, calmly explain to the child, let the child feel from the heart that this is not nothing, there is nothing special.
4. Let your child face life positively
Many children will become negative because they are different from other children, at this time parents should actively guide and tell their children that appearance is not so important, as long as they work hard, study hard, and face life positively will be great.
5. Ignore other people's opinions
To let children know that everyone's aesthetic is different, we can't make everyone satisfied, but it's important to make yourself satisfied.
Therefore, ignore the irrelevant opinions of others and be satisfied with yourself. Always take other people's words to heart, and you will gradually lose your way.
Parents are a safe haven for their children, no matter when and where they are. Because the love of parents is the most selfless in the world, out of instinct.
Therefore, whether the child is physically or otherwise flawed, parents will accept and silently guard and care for the child and accompany them to grow.
Everyone can not be perfect, as long as you face the shortcomings of the body calmly, help children to face life positively, life will be wonderful.
Appearance is only a part of life, and cultivating children's good ideological character and correct three views is the most important.