The Chronicle of the | of All Beings
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Zhang Shu, 46, was pregnant, and giving birth as an elderly mother was already dangerous.
But from pregnancy to the time she was about to give birth, she was alone.
Now she has encountered great difficulties, that is, the due date is coming, but she has neither money nor anyone to accompany her, and the father of the child is missing.
When asked who the child's father was, she initially pointed directly at her ex-husband Yang Chuanxin.
She has been divorced from her ex-husband for three years, but has always been divorced and has not left home, and has remarried several times during this period.
She said that she had conceived a child since her ex-husband came out of the family, and the ex-husband also said that if the child was his, he would be willing to raise the child to grow up.
But now her ex-husband has reneged on her promise and left her alone to face all kinds of pregnancy.
From this point of view alone, the ex-husband is a very irresponsible person.
In order to solve the problem, Zhang Shutuo's reporter found her ex-husband Yang Chuanxin and asked him what he thought about his ex-wife Zhang Shu's pregnancy.
The ex-husband said that he only learned that Zhang Su was pregnant in December last year, but as for whose child he was pregnant with, he did not know, and it was certain that it was not yang Chuanxin.
Zhang Shu, who previously said that the child was her ex-husband, sat on the side and bowed his head and did not speak, in a depressed mood, wiping tears while listening.
She did not refute or argue, tacitly acquiescing to Yang Chuanxin's statement that the child was not her ex-husband's.
So who is this kid?
At this time, Yang Chuanxin revealed that because Yang Zhangshu found him when she was seven months pregnant, when the woman had no money and no one to accompany him, he let Zhang Shu live in his home out of kindness.
She was given a key to free access.
Yang Chuanxin believes that although divorced, the husband and wife still have a little affection for more or less in the past twenty years, and the relationship between husband and wife has been exhausted, but it is impossible to completely separate emotions.
During this period, Yang Chuanxin contributed money and did his best to help Zhang Shu, but the woman was close to the due date, and when the time came to give birth, she would definitely need to be accompanied by the child's father.
But the question is how to find the father of the child? Every time she asked Zhang Shu this question, she was silent and unwilling to answer, but just let Yang Chuanxin borrow some money from her and give birth to the child first.
In this regard, Yang Chuanxin is both angry and feels pitiful, the woman who has been sleeping with him for more than twenty years, the elderly mother is close to giving birth, but there is no one around to accompany, there is no money, how sad.
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On the other hand, no matter how Yang Chuanxin asked, the woman refused to say who the father of the child was, and Yang Chuanxin could not understand, and even a little angry.
The anger is that Zhang Shudu has reached this point, why should he hide the man's information? How much charisma does that man have, and let Zhang Shu do this for him?
Having a child and not looking for the child's father, but coming to him as an ex-husband?
Yang Chuanxin angrily asked: Is this trying to harm me, or is it that I am too kind to get such retribution?
Speaking of which, Yang Chuanxin also has a poor life, he takes a salary of 3,000 a month, and he also has to bear his disabled son.
Speaking of this son, Yang Chuanxin has a lot of hatred for his ex-wife.
At that time, because of the conflict between the son and his mother Zhang Shu, he ran away from home in a huff, and then an accident occurred, and the son fell from under the viaduct, resulting in spinal damage.
After this, he left a very serious sequelae, unable to take care of himself, hanging a urine bag for many years, and now 21 years old, he is sensitive, inferior and suspicious.
The child became like this, Yang Chuanxin could only helplessly accept this reality.
As a father, he believes that he has the responsibility to take good care of his son in his lifetime, and considering his son's condition and his own financial situation, he has not thought about having a second child.
But Zhang Shu's thoughts are different, she thinks that in this case, it is more important to have a second child.
The couple repeatedly contradicted each other because of the disagreement between the birth of the second child, and the temperament of the two people who had more contradictions changed, and the feelings gradually faded.
Zhang Shu felt that Yang Chuanxin had a bad temper and was difficult to accept.
In this way, the two gradually drifted apart in this marriage.
Zhang Shu felt more and more that Yang Chuanxin was unreliable and insecure, and coupled with the fact that his only son had become like this, Zhang Shu often felt desperate.
After the accumulated contradictions broke out, the two finally decided to divorce.
However, the divorce did not leave home, which made the two break the connection and remarry many times, which also brought a great negative impact on the physical and mental health of the son.
Later, Zhang Shu moved out, and Yang Chuanxin took full care of his son.
It wasn't until she came to yang Chuanxin this time that he didn't know about the woman's pregnancy.
Sure enough, Zhang Shu has a strong obsession with having a second child.
Soon it was the day of childbirth, and before the caesarean section was done, the relevant documents had to be signed, and in the spouse column, Zhang Shu chose to be empty.
In the end, Yang Chuanxin could only come to the hospital to take care of it, preparing to wait for the delivery package, and he was forced to complain a lot and helplessly.
03
Zhang Shu's elderly father is 88 years old, and his old mother has suffered from mental illness for many years, and the two old people can't take care of themselves, let alone take care of Zhang Shu.
Zhang Shu's two older brothers were originally very opposed to his sister's second child, but Zhang Shu did not listen to persuasion and insisted on giving birth, making them feel unreasonable and did not want to take care of it anymore.
At this time, if Yang Chuanxin does not care anymore, Zhang Shu's mother and son may not have a way to live.
Complaining about complaining, Yang Chuanxin still took good care of Zhang Shu in the month, and specially took annual leave for their mother and son.
What to eat under the milk, what to eat nourishment, what to eat good nutrition, he has to do his homework in advance.
He was able to do this out of his kindness.
But at the same time, he also said that after the confinement, he would ask Zhang Shu to leave, and he had no reason to take care of her like this, after all, raising a child is not an overnight thing.
Until this point, Zhang Shu opened his mouth to reveal the true identity of the child's father, who was actually a substitute driver named Tan Jihua, who had a dew relationship with the man.
Without feelings, Zhang Shu originally did not want to start a family with Tan Jihua, in the end, she actually wanted to borrow sperm to have children.
After Tan Jihua learned that she was pregnant, he disappeared, he blocked all of Zhang Shu's contact information, and also told his friends and colleagues around him not to pay attention to Zhang Shu.
After that, Tan Jihua left the city and went south to Guangzhou to work.
Now trying to find Tan Jihua is like finding a needle in a haystack, and Zhang Shu feels desperate.
Before, she simply wanted a child, did not think that it would be so difficult to raise a child alone, and did not anticipate the problems that needed to be faced after giving birth.
The despair and regret of the present have long washed away the joy of having a child.
So he moved the idea of giving the child away, but he was accused by others.
She was the one who insisted on having a child, and now it is she who wants to abandon the child.
As a 46-year-old middle-aged man, she rebelled and acted irresponsibly infuriating.
The child is not a toy, can not dislike to throw, he is a living life, before preparing to want him, there should be a certain psychological and economic preparation.
Today's Zhang Shu has no way to ask for help, but outsiders can't sympathize with her, all of which is her own fault, in other words, she may really not be suitable for motherhood.
Pity that innocent newborn.